E-mail: katanashojo@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Iowa
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
AIM: KatanaShojo
Member Since: September 26, 2004
Answers: 31
Last Update: February 21, 2005
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if a guy likes two girls... Ones 19 ones 15 and his 19... He likes both of them equally... Which one should he go out with... Or should he go out with both (link)
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O_O; Go out with both?? If you're a player then you better believe you should leave them both alone.
Oo; Normally I would say go out with the guy he likes more, but if he really likes them both equally, go with the one closer to your age so the parents will approve :)
Also, think about which one might be better in the home life. Thinking ahead always helps *taps head*
Hope that helps ^_^
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there's this guy who i've met at school and we're getting really close. we like eachother but we didnt start dating... yet.
well his parents and grandparents died and he really doesn't have a permenant home, he just goes wherever and is constantly out on his own. he doesn't really have anyone to support him and buy him clothes and stuff
but im afraid if i date him, my parents will not approve because we've always been brought up from good homes and families. it doesnt bother ME at all but my parents always look down upon "poor" people. also, what should i do/say to him? he doesnt know that i know. i feel bad. should i offer anything? help! thanks (link)
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^_^ Maybe they won't look down upon him so much if they know you like him. Those who got it bad shouldn't be looked down upon. They're stronger and have lasted longer.
If they still feel this way while you date him, try to influence them, or....outwit them. Say things like. "Is it because he's poor?" or "Why don't you want me to date him?"
It always works to let them know you know they're wrong. XD
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SORRY IT'S LONG
It it normal to get vaginal discharge even before you have your period?
Like I'm gunna be 14 in a few months, and I've been having discharge, and I've NEVER had my period.
So my questions are, is it normal that I don't have my period?
and is it normal that I'm getting discharge?
What should I do, we don't have any pads around the house, and I'm not a fan of tampons, also I find it really akward to talk to my mom about that kind of thing, so I don't want to like go out and get pads or anything until I actually have my period
What should I do? (link)
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That's normal. It's all good. Actually it's all bad, because having your period sucks....but yeah, that's normal. ^^ I'd wait until the last minute. Try avoiding telling your mom. You do NOT want to do that. o__o;;
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Okay, there was this guy i saw around the school (G)who i thought was cute adn i asked one my firneds (B)if he was friends with him, and (B) sed sorta and he was gunna hook me up with him. (we had gone out in the past, (B)and i) and now he told me he can't hook me up n e more because he still likes me from wen we went out. Idk if i shoudl still go for (G) or reconsider this kid, even though right now i don't like him. Or if i should try and get with (G) even thoug i'd feel bad since (B)likes me. plz help (link)
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I'm in a situation similar to this. If it were me, I'd go for the person I liked, and I think you should as well. This is about YOU here. He obviously hasn't gotten over you, but that's his problem. Not to be disrespectful of your friend, because I understand that he is just that, your friend. The thing is, he needs to understand that too. You need to make him. In the meantime, ask this cute guy out! =D
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i'm a 15 year old gurl wit hella regrets. this weekend i went to a party and got drunk...hella drunk! well when i get drunk i get really horny..and i was all over this really popular guy frum skoo! the gurl hosting the party hella liked him and i knew this..i tried to stop myself but i kept making hella bad decisions. the desision worst one was giving the guy head. well the next day hella people knew about it and are hella mad! some of his friends wont even talk to him cuz he messed around wit a slut and a gurl as low as me! i'm hella not a slut im usually hella innocent..befo that i only been fingered and never even touched a dick!i have no idea wut i'm goin to do tommarro at skoo...how shud i react to people that ask me bout it? wut shud i do how shud i handle this ?!sorry so long (link)
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Just say that you were drunk. That'd work for pretty much anything. Sorry if that doesn't help...
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hi! okay well im 11 and i just started my period! ahh! well i live with my grandparents and my grandma is on her way home right now but i havent called her and told her. when she gets home what are some good lines to say to her? plz help! i rate really good! (link)
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Oh I remember when this happened to me. Do you know where the pads are? If you do, use those and just don't tell her, because then they just...never...ever...stop talking about it. Always going on about "Have you changed?" "Blah blah blah?"
There isn't any way to tell her without it being awkward. If there's a way to avoid it, avoid it.
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How come i see so many kerry bumper stickers? I have yet to see one single bush bumper sticker. Is everyone voting for kerry or is bush just being cheap and not making any..??? (link)
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How does this need advice? To answer your question, maybe there're more Democrats where you live, I dunno o.o;;
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you'll love it here, it becomes addicting after a while haha (link)
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Indeed it does ^_^
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I've lost track of how many friends I have, let's just say it's a lot. I'm really glad I have all these awesome friends and everything, but I feel really lonely a lot. I mean, I can place my friends in categories, church, current school, old school, and oldest school, dance and riding.
The thing is my dance friends. Dance is my life, literally. I get depressed when I can't go, I dance anywhere from 2-4 days a week, and we have a show coming up pretty soon. My 3 very best friends are from my studio, but all 3 of them live up by the studio, and I live on the opposite side of town. I talk about them at school quite a bit, and it makes my school friends crazy. I've tried to generally stop talking about dance this year, and I think it's working.
I just feel like I have to divide my time with people from school and people from dance. When I dont' see my friends from dance for a while, I feel like there's just a huge part of my life missing, and then people at school ask what's wrong, and it makes me crazy. Should I just call it quits with friends at school? I'm just kind of confused. (link)
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You have all these friends, maybe you should try to appreciate the school ones more. Then you won't be so lonely. They may not dance, but all your dance friends are different, right? I think you should balance things out between both of them, and maybe introduce your dance friends and your school friends. That way they wouldn't be so bored with your jabber about people they've never met. ^_^
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Me and my bf have been together since april but were close friends since june'03. My mum met him Sept'03. Everything was good. She liked him a lot. They would get on really well. Then in April I told her me and him were going out. Her attitude turned completely. She wont talk to him when he comes round. She says hes wrong for me and she says she can see straight thru him and tell that he has a bad character. They have argued. He wont come round anymore so Im usually not at home coz Im with him. She keeps saying 'I bet you're having sex.' Just like that, really spitefully. She keeps making comments. She says if I dont break it up she will. She says stuff about the country he is from even tho my dad is from that country. My dad gets on with him even tho my mum says it hurts him to see me with 'that boy'. My little brother doesnt like him coz my mum says that he makes me cry.
Anyway both my boyfriend and my mum say bad stuff about eachother. My boyfriend says he hates her and makes fun of her. All the stuff they are saying to me is hurting me inside because they are both ppl I care deeply for and are important to me. Its making me really unhappy. I havent really showed it to them. I have only metioned it to them once each. They both said stop feeling sorry for yourself. My mum says if youre so unhappy with him then break up with him. When I told my bf he said sort it out with her. I dont know what to do. Im really unhappy.
18/f/UK (link)
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Your mom sounds really....just....augh. So she liked him before you started going out? Peh. She's probably just afraid to lose you. And what's this about making fun of his country? That's just wrong, and so is her little breaking up of your relationship.
I don't think it's your boyfriend you should be unhappy with. If it were me, I'd be disappointed in my mom, and I'd tell her.
Listen. She's had her life, now you have to have yours. She's cheating because she's trying to get up in your business and actually have two.
She seems really paranoid. Talk it out with her. If she won't listen, I say run away and leave her to her own life. She'll realize without you it's very small.
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Okay, so I only just turned 13, and I want to become a professional singer.
I've always wanted to be one. Now I want to be one so bad I'll do anything. After seeing JoJo become a singer and she's only 13, I think I could do it too.
What I need to know is where I can go to shove my singing career off the ground. I've had private lessons on singing, and the only problem is I have stage fright of singing infront of people.
I just need to know 2 things. Places I can take my singing career further, and how to overcome my fear.
Thanks! (link)
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Dude, most of everyone has always wanted to be a professional singer forever. Chances are you'll grow out of this, but if not...well, I dunno. You could try out for Classic Edition, maybe? O_o;
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