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Q: one of my breast is smaller than the other. Is that normal?

Don't worry about it mine used to be just like that its normal

Q: 16/f
i'll just get to the point..
so pretty much exactly a year ago i went out with this boy named johnny, whos a grade higher than me. we went out for a while like two months, but we both kinda mutually realized we still liked our exes. Since then we had been great friends, but neither of us did end up going with our exes. durring the summer we were talking and he asked if i wanted to hook up some time, just for experience, because ive been kissed and everything but i dont really make out with just anyone, so i never have before. well then i was like , friends with benefits? and he was like yeah, i guess, so i said sure why not. a week later a boy named chris asked me out, and we went out for four months, but he was kinda an ass, so we broke up. then a couple weeks later johnny was like how are you and chris, and i was like ohhh, we broke up a while ago.. sorry i didnt tell you we never really talk any more :( and he was like i knoow we should hang out next weekend, and i was like deffinitly . then he was like so do you want to do that friends w/ benefits thing now :) and like i guess i want to for experience, but i told him i like someone else, and hes like thats deffintitly not a problem. lol, so we arent going to go past second , but can i have either some advice on what to do since we dont even like eachother like that, like how do i let him know to start making out with me? or like can i have advice on what else to do besides making out, like where to put my hands to tease him or other places to kiss :)

thanksss for advice, i apreciate anything

I woudn't because you say you guys are just friends.It sounds like he just wants to just hook up with you.I think his horemones are jumbling up and he may like you too.But remember if you guys want to be just friends.

God bless

Q: god hates me...

1 for example i went to church and prayed for good grades, and he gave me bad ones

i pray to satan one night, and the next day i get all 100's on my assignments and tests

2 i pray to god for me to get better at soccer and i trip on the ball
i pray to satan for me to get better at soccer and he helps me hit an upper ninety

...which has led me to believe that god honestly hates me. so i've stopped going to church and continually thought about suicide. my thoughts are revolving around it and how if i commit it i can be closer to satan...help

God will help us and you.When you pray God expects you to do your part.Like your grades when you pray to him you will have to study,and in soccor you will have to practice.But remember God has given us all a purpose.I believe God has put you in test and I believe you will not fail.God always puts us in test to show that we are trustworthy and to make us stronger.But if you go toward the devil... He can make counterfiets but the price is to great and you may not be the life he wants to take. He may want someones life that you care about dearly.Trusting in the devil is a great loss.But trusting in God is a great reward.
Start going back to church start reading the bible again and start praying to God our Lord The Great Creator.

Here I'll give you a scripture to help you out.Oh this scripture always help me out.

Psalm 54

1 Save me,O God,by Your name,
And vindicate me by Your strength.
2 Hear my prayer,O God;
Give ear to the words of my mouth.
3 For strangers have risen up against me,
And oppressors have sought after my life;
They have not set God before them.

4 Behold,God is my helper;
The Lord is with those who uphold my life.
5 He will repay my enemies for their evil.
Cut them off in Your truth.

6 I will freely sacrifice to You;
I will praise Your name,O Lord,for it is good.7 For He has delivered me out of all trouble;And my eye has seen its desire upon my
enemies.

I'll be praying extra extra hard for you

God bless

P.s.Hey I'm staying on this account

Q: ok so i had sex with my boyfriend two days after my period and three days after i stated birth cotrol. It was my first time and he didnt use a condom. im on my 13th day on the pill now and we had sex about 5 other times, only once with a condom. i never bleed and i didnt feel or hear my cherry pop so i dont think it did. im so scared that i am pregnant and i dont know what to do.

I'm so sorry if this sounds mean:

You made a big mistake by having sex with your boyfriend. You could be pregnant. Anytime even on birth control and a condom....Lets say their is no such thing 100% safe sex and if you want to be safe don't have sex at all.In the bible it says not to have sex until your married.
Oh I wouldn't be just be worried about being pregnant also think sexual transmitted diseases.

You may want to buy pregeancy test

I'll be praying for you

God bless

Q: Lately i have been feeling left out from my best friend, she hangs out with all these other girls and i am really glad she has lots of other friends but she dosent even talk to me anymore. I feel like she is to Big for me. You know what i mean? She brought me to a school basketball game with her and she didnt even sit by me or talk to me. She always has to be in the middle of the cirlce. It just makes me feel small and unprepared for something. I dont know what though. Again, i am glad she has friends but i just feel this way. I know i can hang out with my other friends but they are all are her really good friend now. They get sad when they cant sit by her at lunch and i havent sit by her in a long time. Any suggestions besisdes talking to her (tried that in the past, to long of a story).

help?

Hmmmm. It sounds like you two maybe outgrowing each other but you still be friends but not best friends.But try to make other friends.But remember this is normal.But it could be something else she may wants to be more populor if that is true probably you need to let go of her( I went trew just something like that and geuss what it hurt but I made new friends and rejoin my with old bestfriend)So be cofident and trust God and pray Ok.

If you want to talk with anything else contact to me christiangal1993@yahoo.com

Q: I have this really suicidal friend called jazz and she keeps cutting her wrists and trying to kill herself because she is depressed i have tryed to help her but she keeps making me feel depressed, i told her to go to the doctor she say no i say talk to school she say no so what do i do?

Ok go to a adult and tell them or give her this hotline number 1-800-suicide

P.s. I would do both

Q: 13/F

this GIRL likes me at my school.
how do i get her to leave me alone?

This gal really needs help in spiritualy way just pray for her ok but if she tries to get personal or something then tell her your not like that

If you need advice contact me anytime

Q: okay, well its not likea medical problem or anything its just that well, i havent had a boyfriend for a LONG time.. its been about 1 year and a couple months.. thats a LONG time.. and i mean ive talked to guys and ive hooked up with them but i dk i think that there might be like a physical issue or something might be wrong with the way i act.. i mean i have lots of guy friends so i dont think its my personality.. i thin its more of the physical .. i dont think its my face because i have a pretty cute face but i think its because i weigh a little more than most girls, i wouldnt call myself huge but im up there im about 135 lbs.. but i dk can you just tell me what to do.. i think that guys would be able to help me more with my problem.. i need to know how guys really look for girls.. ((personality or looks)) PLEASE HELP

So you been hooking up with guys.Hmmm I really don't think you should be doing that cause well for many reasons 1 In the bible it says to keep your virginity 2 If you hooked up with the guy, the guy already he got what he wanted,

Oh and its kinda on the guys personlity If he says your hot or pretty(I'm not saying thats bad)It could mean this *yes looks mean everything to me* thats what might the guy means but if says something likes this *Wow your funny pretty talented* or something like that it usualy means I think your pretty but personility means alot to me also

P.s. remember don't hook up with guys ok but live happy life

Q: Basically there is this girl, Nikki nobody likes her. She had friends at one point and then everybody turned on her including me. I'm friends with a 'popular' girl Lindsey. And Lindsey is rude and snobby but she's kind to me. I'm not 'populer' me and Lindsay just hangout during school. I dont like Nikki either, and she knows it. But today I was hearing Nikki and her friend talking about, Nikki cutting herself. I saw it was true, I know it was she showed her friend her scars [I saw them there is two]. And I dont know why I did thing..to Nikki and anybody who's going to sit there and think they never made a bad decision knowing it was wrong and did it anyways is a lair, we've all done it. I told Lindsey, It was a bad idea she's going to tell everybody she hasent, yet. I'm about 50% sure she will. But I know Nikki started cutting because of Lindsey, I know it. I don't know what to do, Suggestions? comments? I feel awful that she cuts herself and I know Lindsey, And Some what of Me and her own self image issues affect this cutting.

I'm in middle school 8th grade.

Hmmm tuffy.The only thing I can say be kind to her to show that you care about her,she probably thinks no one cares and sometimes that is why some teens cut them selfs(Oh I'm 13 and in 7th grade so want to become pen pals you know where to get me)but be christlike toward her who knows you could change a life

But if here is hotline I got from a carolweston page 1-800-855-HOPE

Q: I don't feel feminine or look feminine, in my opinion. Guys do say I'm a girl. I mean I'm about to have a C Cup but it's just my face that's bothering me. I have shoulder length hair.. it's just one weird length, poofy hair. (Products do not work. I need a haircut, but I dont want short hair). My eyebrows are messed up and too thin. My face.. the bone structure to me.. looks like a man's. I dont know. Is there anything I can do?
Because I've seen all these other girls at school.. they look Feminine... and really pretty.
But compared to them all.. I look like an ugly boy.
I want to feel pretty and look like a girl.

I'm not a tomboy and I don't wear baggy clothes.. it's just my face.
I wear makeup too.. but.. its not working.

O ok just makeing sure

Q: how do you summon your inner demon?

O my goodness I don't mean hurt feelings,but don't get into that stuff,please.Remember God loves you and thats the devil talken ok.

Q: I was sick with a cough and sinus problems a few weeks ago and i'm still have a little cough. Lately though it's been hurting to breathe somewhat and i've been really tired. My mom told me that my forehead felt hot earlier tonight. I finished my period 5 days ago but today i got cramps and had a little bleeding. Could these be related in anyway? i've also been under a lot of stress lately.. could that be the cause, or am i over-reacting?

Hi I'm April and I'm here to give advice.

Oh I don't think so.But tell a parent if it gets badder ok.

If you want e-mail me its christiangal1993@yahoo.com

God bless

Q: 15 y.o. freshman girl. So, I've liked this guy for just a couple of weeks now. He sits next to me in one of my classes, but he usually didn't talk to me that much. But lately he's been talking to me more frequently. Today, we practically talked the entire period because we had a substitute and she just gave us busy work, so we didn't get in trouble. He even grabbed my knee and held on for about a minute or two, which surprised me. About a month ago, my friend told me he liked some girl that went to another school, but maybe he's over her? Should I pursue him? Was he flirting, or does he just want to be friends?

Hi my name is April.And I'm here to give advice about this boy.Hmmmm it sounds that he likes you but be cautious bout the way he grabbed your knee it sounds he likes you,he may be pretending to like you(I'm so sorry don't let that offend you) but like I said be cautious cause he be after something else.Because hes still in a stage (cough,cough,lol) in early life for boys.But thats normal cause I think all gals go threw something like that with boys.

If you need any advice send me an E-mail christiangal1993@yahoo.com

see ya and God bless
Apirl

bio

I'm really nice with a touch of a mean streak.But I'm the advise giver with my friends
at school and I love advise colmns in magazines and websites so I hope I can help with with anything.

P.s. I specialize with sprirtualy ,relationship,and friendships but if have any problems remember to contact me

God bless
April