Hey! Well just a quick word in. I like to give advice, but only when I know what I'm talking about, so I will only answer to certain questions that I'm positive about. But please ask me... send it into my inbox and if I can't help you I will tell you. I'm not going to give you a load of crap. Most of the time I can help you though. Please rate or give me feedback because I want to know how my answered affected you! And like most other columnists if you get mad about an answer because you asked a question on our opinion (Like "what do you think this means", etc) don't get mad.
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Does anyone know where to get those demin minis that have those stingy things at the end that looks like it had been cut off? Also, if you could give me the websites and the prices I would really appreciate it. Thanks! (link)
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I have one and I got it from Abercrombie. Im sure they are at Abercrombie and Fitch too. If your smaller, you can go to Abercrombie or Abercrombie and Fitch but if your bigger you might want to go to A&F instead because it has alot of different sizes. Mine was about 35 or 40 or something and then at A&F they are probably more expensive. You can check it out at www.abercrombie.com and at the top it was will say "men women kids " kids has sizes up to kids 16 which is like a 2 or maybe even 4 in women. Or you can click on women. Good luck. Also you could try out Hollister.
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ok well this friday i had two guys come over ( im a girl just to let you know haha) and me and one of the guys hooked up then then next day i told one of my friends about it well... i think she my friend.... but thats another story so anyway she told one of my other friends that i was DRUNK and i wasnt even drinking then some one told another friend that i was a hore and now all of my friends( well they used to be they hate me now) never talk to me and i dont know what to do when i go to school monday please help me ! ill rate
Ash (link)
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Don't listen to them! Obviously they weren't good enough friends in the first place to make up rumors about you and call you names. When you go to school be confident! Who cares what they think? And if they don't stop hun you seriously need to find some new friends! Hope I helped! Good luck!
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OK. So I went to a coalfield football game, and one of my old friends asked me to go out with him. I did feel sorry for him and I wanted to say no but I couldnt and said yes. He is always calling me 'strawberry' and calls himself 'lovebunny'. eeeeewwwwww!!!!!! so were bf/gf and I dont want to hurt his feelings but I do not like him at all. I mean for a friend he's ok but not any thing more! so what do I do? should I wait a lil while b-4 breaking up with him or do it tomarrow or today? should I tell him in person/ or on the phone? Im loosing my mind here!! I dont want to hurt him but he's just, not my type..
as long as you even try to tell me how to fix this problem i will rate high!! signed Savannah Reese (link)
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Okay the best way I would have to say is in person but if you feel you can't do it in person then on the phone. Okay well just tell him you like him as only a friend. And no you shouldn't wait because then you are leading him to believe that you really really like him when you don't you only like him as friends. You should do it as soon as you see him next and do it privatly not when tons of people are standing around watching. So good luck and I hope I helped!
P.S. I hope you learned your lesson with this one! Only say yes when you really mean it and not to be nice because you will be stuck in this situation again! lol Good luck with it all!
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Hi! I need to do a temporary makeover on myself and need some tips. First of all, everything has to be as low budget as possible. Now, here's what I need. I have red hair and I need to make it look brunette or at least darker. Then I'll also need it to look somewhat blonde. Or a lighter shade of red. If anyone knows any cheap ways to do that that won't effect my hair long term that would be great! I also have really white skin and I want to make it look tan. Chest and up. I don't want to turn orange or anything... And I don't want to actually have to tan in a tanning bed. Any ideas? I hope I made sense! Thanx! Luv ya! (link)
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If you add additional information on your question as of why you need to do this then I'll help, but if it is to "impress" your friends forget about it and I don't know if anyone else on this site will either. Stay true to yourself and be yourself. So add some info please. Thanks
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I just started my period and i have a very difficult guesion to ask every1....
WINGS OR NO WINGS
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I would definatly say wings. There is more protection especially if you are moving around alot.
-PinKkiSs43
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Is Lindsay Lohan wearing a lace dress in this picture?
http://www.celebweb.org/pictures/displayimage.php?album=1626&pos=1
I can't tell if it's lace or not. (link)
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Well I think the borders of it(the bottom, sleeves, etc.) are lace but not all of it completely.
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Anyone have some cute sad love qoutes?? (link)
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Go to www.firehotquotes.com they have TONS of every kind of quote and poem. Hope I helped!
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Okay so theres this guy lets call him scott. During the summer my friend Sam started to like him..alot. but he never liked her and he told my friend joe that he liked me so i found this out and started liking him but i didnt tell anyone that cuz i cant do that to sam but then my friend katie comes along and says she likes himso i cant do that to sam but katie can..joe says scott still likes me but i cant like him or anything becasue of katie and sam so what do I do...p.s talknig might b an optin but im sooo confuced and i rate x-tra high (link)
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Just like him! Tell your friends you do. You have just as much right to like him as they do. And if he likes you back and yall go out in the end if they are true friends they will see it was for the best and they will move on to the next guy. Trust me, its not fair to you not to like someone just because your friend does... its not like they are going out! That would be a completely different story... so just tell your friends you might like him but you aren't sure yet and make sure you can trust your friends before you tell them. And if your friends aren't nice to you about it...they wouldn't be that good of friends in the first place. But I am sure they will understand. Good luck!!
PiNkKiSs43
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okay so my boyfriend goes to a different school than i do and hes a grade older than me .. but im going to his homecoming but idunno whut to wear .. obviously ik a dress but i dont wanna be liek too dressed up but not dressed up enough. because if hes wearing liek a tux and im just wearing a skirt or im wearing liek this gown and him to wear liek normal clothes. idunno iwould feel gayy. =) thnxz i rate high (link)
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Hey! I already had homecoming and its just semi-formal usually. I guess it depends on the school, but most of the time its just semi-formal which means like; do not get a dress that touches the floor...no. Unless he says its formal. But just wear a halter, strapless, etc., thats around your knees maybe a little above or below though. Make sure you feel comfortable enough to dance in it! Try macy's, jcpenny, dilliards, etc. They have a ton. Good luck! Just ask him though if you aren't totally sure but most likely it should be just semi-formal.
-PiNkKiSs43
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I'm so holy-crap overwhelmed by everything right now! Most of it's from this girl. Don't tell me that teens can't love. I'm 13, and I know what love is. I know I'm in love. But she doesn't like me back. So that's two things so far, love and rejection. Then there's jealousy, when I found out that she had an ex and her first kiss. Her ex is coming back. I know it. I can just feel it. And I have nobody to talk to about it: my parents don't understand (I tried), my friends are as equally nerdy as I am, and don't know a thing about love; I'm way too busy to go see a therapist; I'm too shy to tell her all this.
And of course school. I made all the advanced classes, so that's kinda annoying. But not as much.
And finally, orchestra. I'm in my regular orchestra, a chamber orchestra, an ensemble orchestra, and a jazz orchestra, and I'm also taking private lessons. So that's a holy-crap lot of music to practice.
And now I'm way to overwhelmed to focus on anything. I feel like Charlie Gordon, from Flowers for Algernon. At one point, he described himself as "a blind man allowed to see the light" and that's exactly how I feel. I never knew emotions before. Ever. Now that I know love, rejection, jealousy, etc, I know how to feel. And I've been trying to get over that girl, but I just can't! I can't even remember how I went through my life before I became obsessed with her, before I found Advicenators and started asking and ansering questions, before I knew how to love! I want to be normal again! I want to continue life as I previously had! I can't do anything! I'm just blabbering on and on and on, but there's so much to say! AAUGH!!!!!!!! I'm so pissed off, frusterated, angry, weirded out, overwhelmed, confusticated, and just plain SCREWED UP! Please help! I can't go on with life, I'm losing sleep! (link)
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Okay this might be a long answer but first of all after you read this you need to CALM DOWN.
* First please just take a breather for at least 5 minutes. I know you say you have so much to do and are so overwhelmed but you need to like meditate or something. Okay here I bet you have at least 10 minutes to spare if not make it shorter. Sit down somewhere on your bedroom floor, on your bed, kitchen table, anywhere and preferably alone. Close your eyes and don't think anything like "okay now I get to sit here for ten minutes" or anything. Think about what you want or what all you have to do for a few minutes. After that just relax, and try not to think about this girl. You need "YOU time" or just time to think.
* Next question, do you have a planner or assignment book so you can write down when you have what? If not, you should get one and it could help you not feel as overwhelmed.
* Now on to this girl. Don't get offended by any of this I'm just writing down my thoughts on what you said in the question. For a long time I liked this guy and I was exactly like you, I was all over the place! I was obsessed with everything about him... or so I thought. After a really long time, I realized I didn't even KNOW him that well!! I mean we weren't best friends, we didn't talk that much, etc. I'm not saying you don't know what love is but do you really know everything about her and not just what it looks like on the surface? Oh and how do you know she doesn't like you back? Did she say it flat out " I dont like you like that"?? If not, then you never know. But if so, then you might want to try and move on especially if she's making your life so complicated. Before you get way in over your head, consider this. Do you really KNOW her? Or do you just like the idea of being in love with someone? I know you can't just snap your fingers and be over someone, believe me I know, but it does take time. Last thing, if you feel you really really know her and you really do love her, take a chance! It's better than wasting all your time day-dreaming about it and losing sleep!
Hope I helped and if you have any details you want to add or any other questions, just drop it into my inbox.
-PiNkKiSs43
-P.S. I have read that Flowers of Algernon story and I know what you mean.
***Edit-Some people just get scared when you tell them they like you. Why don't you just try and go back to being best friends? Say more than just "Hi" start a conversation. It's better than nothing right? And after you are back to that you never know where that might lead....
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I have tried for my permit like 2 or more times. Don't laugh because it is heart breaking. I studied but I just need some help. What are some helpful tips to make me remember more? (link)
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Well I'm asuming you are talking about the written part. And if you are, here are some tips to use that I hope help! You can use the first letter of each word or phrase to remember things (here is an example)
For science I had to learn:
Kingdom-Kings
Phylum-Play
Class-Chess
Order-On
Family-Fine
Genus- Grain
Species-Sand
*Or you can read it and try and understand it and read it over and over again many times (memorize).
*Make flash cards? Those help me...
*Ask someone to help you by asking you the questions and you give them the answer.
Feedback or rate please. Hope I helped and Good Luck on the test!
-PiNkKiSs43
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im like 4'11 or 5'' and im soo tired of everyone telling me how short i am and today someone came up to me today and told me i was shorter than this guy at my school who is like, really short and i thought i was taller than hIM! what do i do to get taller its bugging me pllease help me! (link)
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Well 2 things...
Wear high heels or shoes with a little added heigth on the bottom and if you have to wear certain nice shoes for school wallabees are good. But the other thing... my friend is like 4'10 or something she is 14 and she found out she had a growth disorder and she hadn't grown when she was 11 12 and some of 13 but then she got these shots that made her grow but don't get excited just yet, she only has grown an inch and she got them like 6 months ago so basically what these do is make up for the heighth you miss if you have this disorder. But my friend is naturally just a short type of person and usually the people with this disorder thing are so don't get your hopes up.But definatly ask your doctor about it next time you go.
Oh but don't forget about high heels!
- PinKkiSs43
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Ok I asked this girl to Homecoming and then if she said YES i was going to ask her out! But then she said NO to going with homecoming! Here are her exact words: "well i dont really like you that way cuz i think your such an awesome friend and i wouldnt want anything to happen and it hurt our friendship" So what should I do now? When girls say this what do they actually mean? (link)
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Okay well a few things. And I'm seriously giving you my OPINION and every girl is different so she might mean something completely different than what other girls say. But in general we are all the same... I know its confusing right? lol
Where did you ask her? online, the phone, face to face? Any of those places could of effected her answer in different ways. And one more thing before I give you my opinion, are you like pretty close to this girl??
Okay well if you are then she probably seriously meant what she said. Who would want to ruin a friendship over a relationship that might not last? Because it is definatly hard to go back to friends after breaking up.
But if you aren't that close, I'm sorry, but I think either she wanted to go with someone else or she didn't like you like that. sorry. I know it sucks right?
So there is my opinion and it just differs on all those things. Please don't be mad about what I said. But she could just not want to ruin a friendship with you. Girls think differently than guys. So just think about that and maybe you can ask a different girl or just go alone and meet your friends there. It still is ALOT of fun that way too. Hope I helped* PinKkiSs43
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whats the difference between foundation and concealer (link)
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Concealer you put on like under-eye circles or pimples/zits.
Foundation you use before you use all your other make up and you put small dots on sections of your face then rub and blend in.
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whats that song in " my best friend's wedding" that goes " Love, sweet love" I give 5's!!!!! (link)
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What I think the song is called "What the world needs now is love" and different people have performed it but the one on the lyrics site I am on says Jackie DeShannon.
http://www.lyricsdownload.com/my-best-friends-wedding-what-the-world-needs-now-is-love-lyrics.html
^^ go there and then scroll down for the lyrics*!
-PinKkiSs43
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OKAY......so my friend (carley)likes this guy A LOT (chris) but he already had a girl friend (emily)..............but heres the thing.....hes only going out with her bc he knows that she will do stuff with him.....and shes only going out with him for the same reason even though she likes OTHER guys @ the same time.......(they have been together for only a week now)
when we went to the movies carley and chris were soooo flirting and he was always looking @ her and stuff......and it was SOOO obviouse that they had a thing for eachother....
but he STILL has a girlfriend....what should carley do?? should she tell chris? and possibly ruin her friendship with emily.....
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I definatly think Carly should wait on this one. It doesnt seem like they are going to last long especially since Emily probably likes other guys and Chris might like Carly. So I think its probably one of those "relationship" things that only last a few weeks. If it last more than a month and a half, I think carly should tell chris and neither of them tell Emily. But thats only if they don't break up by then. Which they probably will.
-PinKkiSs43
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I already asked a question on homecoming. But I still need to know more.
I am going to homecoming with my boyfriend of over a year and seven months. He is also my best friend. It is in less than two weeks.
What is a good dress length? Shoes? Purse? How much is appropirate(sp) to spend?
Where should I go to buy the dress for cheap?
Im not getting my nails or hair done, I'll have to do my own because I have work until 4pm on the day of the dance :( I know it stinks) What kinds of accories.
I don't want to be the focus because its at my boyfriends school with all his friends.
What are some things to do to get less nervous? How to make a good first impresstion?
Any tips would be really appreciated.
I'll rate and leave feedback!
-Kelsey-
thank you soo much in advance! :) (link)
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I already bought my homecoming dress. The length of mine is above the knee. Well it depends.... homecoming COURT ( that is during half time of the homecoming football game or whatever) well their dresses are long. BUT it depends if they say semi-formal then your dresses are like your knee or above but if it is formal then your dress is long. Good stores for cute dresses that are less expensive would be like JCPennys, Dilliards, Macys, etc. Shoes just get ones that match your dress. And only take a purse if you need one.. and if you do, make it small(like a handbag) and try and match the dress.
I wouldn't say to go all out or anything, its not like it is prom or another big thing. I mean yes its "big" but dont spend too much. I got 2 dresses one was for a different dance but on one I spent about 40 because it was on sale and the other I spent about 60. Make sure you get something you feel comfortable wearing! That will be a definant boost in your confidence.
Don't worry about it! Have fun and stop worrying. Be confident, before you go, just keep telling yourself that you look hott, etc lol. You definatly shouldn't worry if your boyfriend is there especially since yall are like best friends, he will be right by your side. Just be confident, have fun, and dance! lol
Hope I helped you!
- PinkKisS43
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how much are like.. american eagle shirts? (link)
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It depends on what kind of shirt you get.... go to www.ae.com to see which ones you like best then go to the mall and get one! I would say at 15 dollars at the least but usually most of them are 20 to 45ish.... Hope I helped! Just go to the website to get more info!
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I am in a tough thing right now I am going to have to pick where i wanna go to school next year and for kindergarden i went to a public school then i switched to a catholic school and was there for ALOT of years. Now next year for high school i have to decide where i want to go. Do I want to go back to public or go to another catholic school?? everyone from my catholic school wants me to stay at a catholic school and ppl and public skools want me to go back to public. What should I do??? (link)
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I think you need to decide this yourself and not your friends. But from my view it seems you'd rather go to the catholic school because your friends go there and thats what you are use to. I go to a catholic school and it is awesome. The stereotype of catholic school people being all goody goody is sooo wrong though. For all those who go to public schools, you'd be suprise. Anyway though its up to you, but if you want to be with some familiar faces and be where you are used to, I would say the catholic school.
Hope I helped!
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my hair gets kinda thick when it air drys and also when i blow dry my hair after i take a shower.. so last night when i scrunched my hair and let it air dry, it didnt come out as scrunchy and it was kinda poofy.. what can i do so it doesnt come out as poofy?
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You can straighten it, you can buy a decent straightener for about 20 or so dollars. Also make sure you brush it right after you get out of the shower. You can try a new shampoo made especially for smoothing and straightening too (maybe Thermasilk). Also Thermasilk has a "straight and smooth" cream that you can put in your hair, they also have something like that that is a spray but it is more of a detangler. Oh and if you dont want to do that you can try Frizz-ease by John Frieda (they sell that at target or walmart or w/e).
But i would mainly try straightening it... and if you do try straightening it DON'T FORGET THE BACK OF YOUR HAIR.
Last thing, if you can't get a straigtener, then try putting in straightening or smoothing cream before you blow dry and when you blow dry try attaching a diffuser to your blow dryer. ( if you don't know what a diffuser is look it up online or ask your hairdresser)
Any of these methods should work. Now its up to you to decide which one!
Hope I helped!
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