okay.. so im Kate.
people tell me that im good at advice.. so thats what i do.
i hate slang and when poeple type LiiKe3 THiisZ
i make alot of typos... sorry
those three categories are my favorite, but feel free to ask me anything.. ill do my best. Except technology.. haha thats not my shining area.
I laugh at myself alot and i like it that way. when i grow up, ill probably be a phsycologist or a physical therepist. =] oh yeah and smileys are always a good sign from me.
E-mail: katexosays@aim.com
Gender: Female
Location: mass
Occupation: none
Age: 15
AIM: katexosays
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i've been molested, as a child. it happened often and i've tried so hard to block it out but now i feel like it defines me. nobody knows, i can't say anything nobody will believe me. everybody will hate me. he ruined me. i picture how my life would be if it never happened, the way i am now is horrible. i make so many mistakes just trying to make myself feel better but nothing works. i dont know what to do, i cant talk to anybody. im 16, this happened the summer going into 5th grade then into the year.
nothing makes it go away i don't know what to do i want to die so badly. (link)
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oh man.. look... no one will EVER hate you.
and you dont have to die...
also.. it does NOT DEFINE YOU. just because it happened to you doesnt mean thats who you ARE.
I promise you that there is someone that you can talk to and WILL believe you... or else you cant trust them and they aren't worth your time. even though you may not want to.. talking to a pshycologist could also help.
if you KNOW who this is.. tell someone. its hard but you HAVE to
im really sorry if this doesnt help.
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Okay well i am 13/f and i have kissed and stuff but i have not like made out with my boyfriend when we kiss its like a kiss hello or a kiss goodbye nothing much more. And so last night he asked me if i wanted to make out and i just made up an accuse not to. Because i dont know what guys like thats why i want guys to answer so, guys what do you look for when you make out with a girl? And give me some detail's please like past expereance's or somthing like that .
Thanks in advance! (link)
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haha! dont worry about it, take your time. and its going to be wierd if you just make out when you say that you will.. so try to kind of "set the mood" haha when you kiss hello, kiss him on the lips a couple times and thenkind of open your mouth it will be alot longer. and jsut dont open too wide and dont gag him with your tounge and i bet you'll be fine!
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And No WHITNEY HOUSTON!!!
So, I'm leaving for lacrosse summer training and then straight from there to college. I want to put up a song on myspace (as the default song)- because my page is going to be a shrine for my girlfriend.
She's going to stay here (in high school), but I want to let her now that I will always love her.
Any suggestions? (link)
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i'll wait for you
by sherwood
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i am writing a song, about a girl i am going out with, what are some good ways to write a song accompanied by a guitar? what are som chords that would sound good with that mood of song? (link)
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im not really a guitar person but i think that you should do an upbeat song sort of... one taht will make her smile and feel happy, something with the tune of breathe again by too sorry for apologies...
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how do you know if your getting an orgasm? like what exactly happens? i know people say, you just know. but im not sure if it was or not, like i think so, but im not sure. (link)
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well first, you kind of get a really tingly feeling from your head to your toes.. then you jsut have such an overwhelming feeling that you have to let it out somehow.. "moaning"
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I am a 16 year old female. I gave my virginity to a good friend. He acted like he liked me then and when we talk. Should I ask him if he likes me and if anything is going to happen with us? (link)
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deffinatley, thats kind of a big deal.. and you wouldnt want him to have used you.
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i cant hide my top friends, or my comments anymore.
i know there used to be a note from tom on everyone's home page that said it was messed up, but it's not there anymore.
is ther any codes that can hide them now? or is it still being fixed??
thanks! (link)
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out this in your who id like to meet section.. its for friends..
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and for comments.. ( this goes in your about me section)
hope that works for you !! =]
Kate
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i have never been able to get a girl to give me head
and it bothers me a lot
i really want it but don't know what to do
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ummm well you should get into an intimate place and setting, and then just kinda let it happen, if it dosnt it dosnt.. jsut be patient.. but DONT ask for it... that will push them away.
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hey im a guy 13 . i know this emo girl shes not that emo she just dresses like one, shes quite normal. shes really hot and has loads of friends...she was going to smake out my best friend until he backed out. now I talk to her alot. I talked to her about music for about an hour and every song I said she liked it or liked it alot.. she said she didnt know I had such good music taste. then she asked me who was the hottest girl in her school. I didnt say her... then we started talking about strange stuff.......like what find hot in a girl what she finds hot in a man....I want to know if shes interested in me.. she called me a loser kind of joking.....she doesnt act interested in me when my best friend is around. when hes around she acts alot less immature and strange. she thought i would like rave music. she also set me up with another girl one (of her friends)....I said I wanted to go out with this other girl and she said she was a complete loser and I shouldnt go out with her and shes hated by everyone BTW Im not in her school but I used to be she wasnt there then....I think she cant make up her mind whether she likes me or not? how can I tell if she likes me? now we dont really talk... we dont get the chance.... when im hanging out with my friends and her friends we dont talk to each other much... but when im with her with like one or two other people she will say small things like someone else said ive grown etc.... but she comes across as not being shy at all, and shes got loads of guys to choose from. (link)
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okay well it seems like shes interested in you as a friend only. and yeah, it sucks but if you think about it, sincce she has "loads of guys to choose from" its probably better for you because you could wind up really hurt. and also, if she is setting you up with her friends, than she probably dosnt feel the same way as you
also, maybe if you confront her about it she may feel the same but thought that you thought differently.
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we started off talking and it took me forgever to give him my number then we talked on the phone, and i got to know him really well, after knowing him for 4 months we wanted to be boyfrind girlfriend so we did i really dont know how it got started or who said it but we stared to say i love you well i really got into it and i ment it well 3 weeks ago he was talking to his friend and he asked him \"do you really love her\" well he calls me and says i dont want to say i love u any more im really upset at this point then he tells me \"i only said it because you did\"
what shoud i do ? (link)
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okay, so i know it hurts, but he realized that he didnt mean what he said. its sometimes easy to mistake infatuation for love. just be glad that he didnt lesser the the word. i think you should give it time and let him figure out when he truly loves you. keep your head up,m he'll come around.
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im hanging out with my boyfriend tomorow
i just got glasses (i normally wear contacts)
ive never worn them around him, and so we'll prob make out
so during it am i supposed to wear them or not (link)
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haha, just be confident and leave them on unless they bother you or him. and even if they need to come off he'll probably find it cute =]
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I'm having trouble sleeping, it feels like I'm never tired, and when I am, I still can't fall asleep. I'm not having nightmares, or scary thoughts, I'm just not being able to sleep. Like I'll shut my eyes for over 3 hours, and still be awake, and it's really annoying. Any ideas what wrong????? Oh and by the way my bed and pillow are comfortable, so thats not a problem either. Thanks! (link)
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that happens to me all the time.. one thing that i did is listen to music.. like soft acoustic and stretch a little before dont exercise before because that'll give you endorphins which will give you energy.. just stretch and do your best before you sleep.
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Hi,im a 15 year old girl that thought she never wanted a serious relationship but is now kind of wanting one at the same time >.< Anyway, theres this guy i met through myspace.i played it safe of course,talked to him on aim and the phone and such then i met up with him (with a few of my friends,again playing it safe)and it turns out im starting to get really interested.The only problem is that he works 5 days a week(hes 17 by the way) and can hardly ever hang out and stuff.We still talk alot on aim but id rather be able to get to know him in person.He says he likes me but doesnt really act like it and im so confused i dont know what to do or think especially since i have really low sef esteem so im constantly in doubt ... =/ (link)
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okay so basically you have a "Crush" and trust me, i meet my guys through myspace sometimes. i think that what you need to do is straight out tell him how you feel. its hard but sometimes you just need to gather up the guts.. say something along the lines of
" I know you said that oyu liked me.. but i dont really get that vibe from you. if your feeling have cahnged, would you please just tell me because its kind of bothering me alot."
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