My name is Mrs. Nautica I am engaged and I am on this site to help. I wish I could have found this site when I was younger so hopefully I will benefit as many people as possible. I will also answer your questions the best that I can, not humuliate you or just give you an answer you think you want.
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okay well.... theres this one kid i like and we can say his name is... george well george*my age* knows i like him and he just wants to be friends but i also kinda like this other kid... and we can call him bob*a year older* well i dont know bob too well ... well not much at all but he seems really awesome but i dont get how i like him so much when i hardly even know him... we have alot in common maybe but the problem is.. my other friend we can call her suzy*2 years older than me and 1 older than bob* likes bob too.. well bob liked suzy but now isnt really sure some people say he says he doesnt but others are telling suzy he isnt sure yet but im pretty sure he doesnt like her.. but me and suzy were talking today and she has no idea that i like bob she just thinks i like george so she suggested that me, her, bob, george and another couple that were friends with go to the movies and mall or whatever next weekend... and i obviously was like sure that sounds like alot of fun... but then shes like yeah ill have bob talked to george about you and everything and i dindt wanna say no to her bc she was all like thinking it was a great idea so i like was alright.. so no i dont know what to do bc 1. i hardly know bob, 2. i kinda like george still but like bob more..somehow, 3. dont know if i should tell suzy bc i dont want her to get mad or upset bc shes already taking the fact that bob might not like her hardly and 4. if bob were to want to get to know me and then we ended up wanting to be more than friend i wouldnt know what to do bc i wouldnt want suzy to be sad.... let me know what you all think thanks SOOOOO much
xoxo* (link)
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My advice is your best bet would be to go to "bob" and talk to him. Be real and get to know him. See if you really like him bc you may just like him bc someone else likes him. figure it out before you go out next weekend. Bob maybe a total bummer and george just maybe the one for you. Youll never no until you talk to him and see if you are compatible.
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What do guys like in girls? How do they like them to act? Do guys prefer it when girls make the first move or when guys make the first move? Either girls or guys can asnwer. Please help! (link)
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All guys are different, most likely if you can tell a guy is shy then you might want to make the first move give big hints you like him too and see what his response is.
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just a quick question. i feel really dumb for asking this, but its been bothering my for a long time so what the heck. if you drink a lot of water (I MEAN A LOT) will it make your stomach stretch out and stuff? Because one time i heard about how those people who enter eating contests drink like gallons of water to make their stomachs stretch and able to hold more food. So i drink like up to 12-16 cups of water a day (4-6 bottles of water) to keep from eating everything in my sight and make my stomach full. but if it makes my stomach all stretched out than ew...does anyone know? (link)
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To keep from eating everything in your sight eat many small meals a day consisting of fruits and veges (ex. a few grapes or celery sticks and peanut butter). I used to be a model and they told us that if you wanted to lose weight and stay fit then you are supposed to drink 8 glasses of water to day judging on your height. For every inch you are over 5'5 your supposed to drink more. Water does stretch your tummy but it wont cause stretch marks or anything. It will make you go pee a lot and when you pee is clear and has no smell then you are drinking the right amount of water and your excercising right. Next time you have check up ask your doctor what he recommends about your situation. I am not a doctor but I hope I helped!
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a couple of people in my family have died in the last 2 years, and some people in my family smoke "a pack a day". i'm really worried that they will get really sick and i won't get to see them again, but i don't know how to express my concern to anyone (link)
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I completly understand your feelings. When I was younger my mother was smoking when she was pregnate with my brother he was born fine but 3 1/2 weeks later he died of SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome) although common chances are increased if the mother was smoking. I was crushed and so was she but after he died she continued to smoke. Tell them how you feel and say that you are really concerned about them. You have there best interest in mind and you wouldnt want to be without them. They may see your concern and consider it.
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i really like this guy but he JUST got a g/f that i really dont like/know[the g/f]. what should i do? (link)
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There are plenty of other guys in the world. Dont steal somebody elses man you wouldnt want that to happen to you so move on and if its ment to be then he will come back around.
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iv'e liked this guy for like 7 years and i love him .. but he's short im tall,, everyone says he's ugly but he's not.. my friend loves him too.. i never told my mom.... and now is it too late? he doesn't have a g/f yet. what should i do (link)
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You shouldn't let other people influence your positive decisions especially about male looks. There is a difference between positive advice and dictating your actions (aka hatin). Dont be so quick to fall in love. Would you willing to give up dreams, stay home while he works a double shift, take care of his kids and cook and clean day in and day out? Then maybe you can say you really love him but otherwise its just a fling.
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Well, one of my best friend, her friend keep flirting with her boyfriend. it really pisses her off, cuz it isnt like your verbal flirting, even though that some things are deffinately not meant to say. She ((my best friend's friend)) like rubs with arm and she like backs off whenever Kelsey ((my best friend)) comes back. I want to know how to help my best friend whenever she needs it because she needs it, if she doesnt do something, she'll explode from anger or something. (link)
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You need tell your best friend to stand up for herself because that is not your boyfriend but hers and for your best friend to go to her boyfriend and set him straight because he should not be letting other females hit on him while his girlfriend is not looking. It is very disrespectful even if she is looking.
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Hi, Me and my girlfriend where together for 2 and a half years we broke up and couple days later she went out with a guy she works with. She said they only went out 2 times. Well we got back together things seemed cool. Then i got a funny feeling like something was wrong. She was "talking" and only "kissed" the guy but things were still going on she admitted it and said it was over with them. Well she has been deleting her cell phone history daily. She admitted to me today that they talk on the cell phone but she claims nothing is going on! Do you think she is still cheating? Also do you think it's right for her to go and talk to the guy after all that has happened! She tells me there is nothing between them now and they only talk on the phone! She tells me what's wrong with them being friends. (link)
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Tell her obviously her being friends with her ex led into deeper things and you dont want it to interfere with your relationship. If you had problems with it twice before then most likely she is still cheating. Ask her to be honest with you and if she would rather be with him.
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I'm Karlie, and im 13 in 7th grade. I liked this guy since umm what 4th yes 4th grade. He knows i like him but he says he likes me as a friend. It's weird cuz he shows signs that he likes me (stares and acts hopeless and shy). Like he slow danced with me at the dance and he gave me a hug and he asks for a high five like everyday like thats all he can think of doing cuz he's stuck. Do you think he likes me? Or better yet how do i work on getting him to hang out with me more.
*~* Karlie*~* P.S. HELP (link)
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Im going to tell you what I tell all the other girls on here. You are a female and you are too good to be waisting your time trying to get a guy to look your way. He should be the one sweating over you! Try something else to occupy your time and if he really likes you then he will come after you. He might like you or he just may be natuarally shy and hopeless. Hang out with your friends have a good time but do not waste anymore of your time trying to get him to like you.
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I used to energetically enjoy academic pursuits such as writing poetry, writing essays about subjects that interested me, reading literature and philosophy, and participating in philosophical discussions in and outside of the class room. I was not the most well-adjusted college student. I had only a few friends, but at least I cared about what I was studying.
Now, I am a junior at college and I just feel bored to death... I really feel like Estragon from the Beckett play "Waiting for Godot." I'm not excited about anything in my life and I just look for ways to "pass the time."
I don't think this is a good thing. I enjoyed the idea that I was learning and developing my own world view. It's been this way for at least two months now, perhaps consequential to finding out my parent has a terminal illness. My question is...
What should I do to get un-depressed and interested again? (link)
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My answer would be go out try something new and absolutely spontaneous! If you like it then keep it up if you dont then try something else. Try keeping away from the old boring things you used to do. Hang out with new people and wonder about things you think that is "just not you".
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ok so theres this guy named Miles. Ive always thought he was cute but ive never talked to him before. Then last night at the homecoming dance i talked to him(sort of). My friends are friends with his friends/him and he said something last night and i just commented on it. so nothin big really. but right now i sort of like him. basically what im asking is do you think that im cool with him or what like do you think that i can just talk to him now without him/me feeling weird..thanx
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First hun, slo down. You seem really confused and Im just reading it. The thing you got to get into your mind is that you are a cool girl so you have got to chill out and mello down. If you think of this as not such a bid deal then you wont be so nervous if he comes to talk to you. Focus on other things and play cool. He will notice your naturalness and will be looking your way in no time.
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Hello!
I am a British nanny. I've always wanted to go to America, but I can't afford it. However, I have just thought - how about I worked over there as a nanny?! (I would live-in)
It may sound crazy, but I am looking for a bit of help now. Does anyone know of any kind of nanny or job agencies that would make it safe and reassure both me and the parents that both parties are reliable?
If you are American (and had (a) child/ren), would you hire a British nanny? (Assuming, of course, you were assured of her reliability et cetera)
Also, I would have no clue where to go in America. I want somewhere alive, but not excessively BUSY - not like New York! I live in the middle of three fields of sheep, I don't want too much of a culture shock :P So can anyone recommend a quieter city? Or if not, at least a nice area where I'm not likely to get shot for stepping up the wrong street? Oh, and sorry to sound greedy, but a richer area where I'd be more likely to get a better salary? My pay at the moment is awful and I am trying to save up for a house, laptop and all sorts! :)
Thank you! (link)
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Yes, check in at greatnannies.com you would be considered an au pair some people would be delighted to have a different culture in there house. If you check on that site they have pictures, and you can choose what and where you want to work. Some prices are negotiable. Good luck-MrsNautica
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