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My name is Monique. Feel Free to call me Momo. I am 14, female, I go to OCMS. I like hanging out w/ friends, shopping, giving makeovers, partying, and listening to music. I am a Vegetarian, and I strongly support Gays, Bi's, Lesibians, and Humane Rights. My favorite TV show of all time is The L Word. Sorry, I'm really trying to get a picture of me up here, but I cant get one less than 15 K's. But I'm trying.

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Lord help me.

I am a 13 year old girl, and for a while, I considered myself "straight." Now, I'm really freaked out. I have a big crush on my lesbian English teacher (FYI, she's made it public that she's a lebian---I'm not just assuming). I'm so scared. Having a crush on a teacher is bad enough, and on a female teacher is awful. Mind you, I don't have a discrimination against homosexuals, but I don't like to think of myself liking someone of the same sex. I feel like such a creep. Does this make me a lesbian as well? I mean, I've liked only guys of my own age (but those were huge, long-term crushes), but still...I am so scared.

If anyone at school finds out about this, my life is over.

~Stella Luna~

Hey,
Omg, I am going through the same thing as you are. I keep questioning myself if I am gay. To answer your question though, liking a lesbian, doesn't quite make you gay. Your a fresh teen, and your still trying to find yourself. You may have a small crush on your teacher, but that could just be a phase. I used to think that if I thought a girl was cute, I was a lesbian. But it's not true. If you DON'T want to become a lesbian, then you should find other things to keep you busy. This isn't anything to be afraid of, just remember that w/e your prefrence is people shouldn't judge you. And most iportantly don't judge yourself. Liking girls is not a bad thing. All I can say is, Chill Out. Focus on your english-not your teacher. And if you still have these feelings for girls, then you might just be curious. I say, fulfill your curiosity. If you don't wanna do that, try some online quizzes that test your gay-osity lol. Hope I helped. :)
♥Momo

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16f. ~SORRY ITS LONG)
Im size B (bra size) And my boobs are very far apart and i have absolutely no cleavage. At Alll


well i bought a bra the other day and its the kind where you clip it in the front and it said "get cleavage in less than 5 seconds!!" it cost $30 and didnt even work :(


What i need help in is can someone tell me of a bra they know that really does help with cleavage, and isnt too pricey (anything over $35.. to much) i live in san diego, so basically anywhere i can buy one here. Pleeease help.

Thanks soo much!

Hey,
Even though you don't really want to hear this, You have to love your body the way it is. I'm not saying thats going to make your problem go away, but if you love yourself first, then it your problem won't be as major. But to answer your question, I say head to Victoria's Secret, and get a bra 2 or 3 sizes smaller. (as in if your a B 36, try a B 34) By that way, your boobs will be bigger than than the bra size, squeezing your lovely lady lumps together, giving you great clevage. You may also want to remeber this around the summer time when buying Swim tops. ;)
REMEMBER: It's about loving yourself, but fixing yourself til' your satisfied with it, is never wrong. :)
hope i helped.

♥Momo

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hi! well im 15/f
and lately me and my friend have been hangin out with these guys we just met! well not exactly..i mean we know who they are but we just hang out with them for the first time! and i can never tell my parents the truth ..that im hangin out with guys because they like NEVER let me hang out with guys. they are always like how do you know them? and im like school..then they are like well how come we dont know who they are. and i dont do the whole bringing them to the house and meet my parents thing..our family isnt like that! my dad is very protective of me..because im the only girl in the family im his little girl! i have one older brother..and they let him do whatever he wants with whoever he wants! but i dont ever get to hang out with guys because im a girl. i dont communicate well with my parents at alL! what can i do to help this situation?

i will rate high!
thanks :)

Hey,
Well I say you talk to your parents and let them know that your not their little baby anymore. That your getting older and boys are gonna start coming around more often. But first you have to earn their trust, so that they'll see that your a responsible young Adult. So that means, NO MORE LIES!!! Although lying to your parents is wrong, sometimes you have to lie in order to get your way. I mean I'm not going to deny it, I lie to my mom too. But only if I know it won't harm me in the long run. You want your parents to trust you and give you some freedoms, give you some space. Just tell them, that your a level-headed girl, that knows how to act around guys. And if that doesn't work stress to them about how un-fair it is that your brother can do w/e he wants. It's gonna take your parents a while to get used to the idea of their little girl with boys, but they'll come around. Hope I helped :)
♥Momo

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14/f

Ok, my boyfriend and I are 14 and we're in love. Like seriously in love. We're been dating for over a year now and we've had our times but we always work it out. Last night though, I was on the phone with him and he said some stuff that I don't know, hurt alot and I cried for a little while (I was still on the phone with him). He apologized for it and all and I think he made up for it with all the things he said but then he just started acting like nothing ever even happened. I don't get why he does this, can someone tell me why? He does this everytime we fight but we've never had a fight as bad as this one.

Hey,
I'm so sorry that he hurt you so bad you cried. I've done that with a guy once, and it does not feel good at all. I personally think, that 1, your both 14, boys are often weird like that. They make a huge dramatic scene, and the next day their just fine, while you still feel like crap. I say you sit him down, just the two of you and just get everything out. Ask him what he meant, why he would say things so hurtful, and let him know that if he ever makes you cry like that again you could find better. (you could just bluff that, so he won't ever do it again. Also so he'll realize that he doesn't want to lose you.) Just talk about everything, keep calm, and at the end hug or kiss, show affection to ensure that you both still love each other deeply. Hope I helped :)

♥Momo

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Im friends with this guy, Tim. We have been pretty good friends for awhile. We are always really flirty around each other, like any time we see each other, he hugs me, and its always a lingering hug, or he puts his arm around me or somehow touches me. Well everyone always says how much we should go out, but he had a girlfriend for awhile. A lot of people said it was a cover, because he really likes me. Well, for valentines day he gave me a little teddy bear, and he asked my friend if I like him, But it never goes farther, and theres always the fact that he went out with a girl for awhile, even after we were flirting around. Does he like me? or does he just consider me a really good friend? I mean, I myself am confused about him, but I know I could grow to really like him. What do you think about his behavior? Does he really like me?

Hey,
First thing first. Tim is.. a guy. And guys are totally confusing. One day they think your the hottest girl on the planet, the next day they've moved on to the hott foreign exchange student from Brazil! lol. All I can really say is, keep hanging around him, and maybe one day ask him to go to the movies, or the mall, or somewhere where you two can talk one-on-one and just sorta kinda ask him if he likes you.(Make sure he's single at the time.)But if he turns you down, just remember, there are plenty of other guys out there. And Tim will feel pretty dumb for losing out on a great girl. Besides, if Tim was flirting with you while he was currently dating someone else, just think what he'll do when your not there. But like I said, Talk to him just you two so he's not shy or something.

♥Momo

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