My name is Holly, and I live in Minnesota. I am 19 years old but everyone says I look young for my age lol. I laugh a lot but if people are hurt, confused, scared, etc. I will always help them out. I work for sex education which means I go to schools and help girls learn about...well, you know. I am in tennis, softabll, and I'm going to start cross country in August. Also I love to bellydance (you could call it my part-time job lol!) And last but not least, I give great advice! So ask me.
E-mail: sarahlongtine@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Minnesota
Occupation: Sex Education
Age: 19
AIM: Seagull Squeeze
MSN: sarahlongtine@hotmail.com
Member Since: March 19, 2005
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Ive liked this guy for awhile now. And everyone has said he likes me n such but hes really shy and doesnt tell neone who he likes. But i heard he has been "talking" to a girl so that means maybe he doesnt like me. Well..this has been going on too long so me n my friend call him up the other night. And..my friend asked him if he ever liked me or likes me and he said..."not to be mean but..nahh not really". I was heartbroken. I feel embarrassed now..and rejected..how do i get over this? (link)
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You should talk to someone about your feelings, don't hold it in. There are other fish in the sea! Just ignore him for now, and you'll feel much better when he is out of your life!
Hope I helped!
-Holly Marie Combs
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i left my fav shirt at my friends house and the next time i came over i saw it and i asked where she found it.....she said that her grandma bought it for her for her bday....which was a huge lie...they dont sell that model anymore its old.....i want it back but i dont want to hurt her feeling what should i do???
signed concerned girl
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The next time you're at her house. Simply ask her "Oh yeah, I need the shirt that you borrowed from me back" and if she pulls back easily she'll give it back to you.
If she doesn't give it back to you, tell her that you know it is hers and that you need it backa dn tell her the story about her lieing.
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Ok so you know that little arrow u click next to your browser that shows you all the sites you been to recently? ok so i clicked that today, looking for a site a typed in (im lazy), and then i find this site called nextboys.com. i have never heard, nor typed, nor visited that website so i was curious why it was on our computer. i clicked it, and you wouldnt believe what it was. it was a site for gay massaging!! UGH!! im really mad, because the only people who live in my house is my 7 year old sister, and my mom and dad!! my question is: is it most likley my parents did this, or is there another way to get a site in that list. and if my parents did it, what should i say to them???? (link)
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maybe your little sister was on and accidently clicked on something. She is seven! So it's proabably nothing.
If you want to ask your parents about this, simply ask them "Have you been on my account on the computer?" and if they say yes, ask them if they had been to any inapropiate websites. And take it from there.
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I'm 16/M... i never had sex before (im waiting til im married) but i get erections WAY too much...like 6 times an hour and its really annoying, i get them when im not even thinking about anything close to sexual. i dunno what my problem is but i was wondering if its normal or not? please resond. (link)
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This usually happens to males. It is just a stage of growing up. Don't worry, it is as normal as possible.
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Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do? (link)
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When he told you that you had to wait. You should have been honest and told him. But on the other hand, if you love him, respect him and his decisions.
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My bestfriend is 21. She is pregnant and does not want to keep the child because she cannot support it. She wants to have an abbortion. I have mixed feelings about it, but it's her life. I don't know how I can help her..because I'm still in highschool and don't have a job where I can lend her some money. But she's lent my cousin a LOT of money because he needed help, but he can't pay herback, for other reasons. I don't know how I can help her. And she can't tell her Mom because her Mom will kick her out of the house, and then she won't have any place to live & a child.
I'm scared for her.
Any Advice??...
- If you have opinions on abortions, I don't really want to get into the subject. So thank you anyways.
Thank you
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Okay, lets get straight to the point. YOUR FRIEND NEEDS HELP. Do not let her kill her baby. She should have had safer sex and this wouldn't have happened. So take her to a hospital or something, so she can get help. Babies don't deserve to die like that!
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well fist i want to say this is my first time on this site and it's pretty good.
i need advice on school. School is hard not the work (straight A's) but the people. i have people that stare at me for no reason. see i going to start 10th grade and snice 6th grade people has been staring at me. i don't know y, but its annoy. it's mostly girls and some guys. i am scared to get classes with these people because they might do more than stare. how do i stop this thing? (school is on aug 15th) Pleassse help.
babygrrl (link)
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Hey babygrrl.
If people are staring at you, and you don't feel comfortable with it, ask them "Why are you staring at me?" or "Please stop looking at me!" They'll probably stop if they are younger or 'smaller' than you. But if they are older and tey are staring at you, than you should just look straight forwards (not at the ground or the other way) and continue walking.
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ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
I rate high!
*depressed and sad
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Hey!
If you REALLY like this guy, you'll be able to do this. If you see him, then give a wave or juts smile at him. If you do this often enough, then he'll prebably start talking to you whenever he has the chance! Try it, it works!
-Holly Marie Combs
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I have a really great singing voice, but I'm so embarassed to sing in front of anyone, even my mom. Can someone please give me tips to overcome my shyness? I RATE HIGH. Someone pelase help (link)
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I don't have this problem, but I think I might be able to help you. Just keep singing! If you have to sing in front of an audiance, just look at the wall or something where you WON'T get embarresed! Hope I've helped!
-Holly Marie Combs
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hey i'm a female and i'm 14 yrs. old and this guy that i've been really good friends with since i was 11 has been flirting with me and we did some stuff the other day. I don't regret it at all i mean it wasnt that bad but my friend has asked him if he likes me and he said he thinks i'm really hot but we've been friends too long. I can't let this go though because i dont have many guys liking me and he has never cheated on anybody and he would be the perfect boyfriend. He's really hot and i like him so much. My problem is that we've decided to just be friends more than once before but we always get together and flirt and do stuff and this happens all over again what should i do?
Luv,
~Very Emotionally Confused~ (link)
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Hey.
Well, if you and this boy are SO close friends, you should take it step by step! If you JUST wanted to be friends, then you would. But if you two just keep hanging out and flirting, then TAKE IT UP ANOTHER STEP!
-Holly Marie Combs
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For the last few days a bunch of boys in my class have been looking at me funny. At first I thought that I mite have had somthing weird on my face or maybe my outfir looked redicules to them. Then they all started talking to me. Not at once, but boys would come up to me all threw out the day and talk to me. This one boy even said that his best friend (one of the boys who wouldn't leave me alone) had a crush on me. I didn't belive him. Another one, was always trying to make me laugh, anouther one was always starring at me. The boy I have a crush on is really cool and always talking to me too. I can tell he has a crush on me. I think all the other boys have crushes on, and it really freaks me out!!!!!! A bunch of girls have been giving me the cold shoulder, or being really mean. My crush is my best friend too, and we are always together, some stupid boy calls us the love birds. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stay away from all boys in general. (link)
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Don't care about those other girls. If you like this guy (and he maybe likes you) then just go for each other! If you don't like those other guys, then just ignore them and go for the guy you're after!
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