I am a 37 year old college-educated female, married, full-time stay-at-home mom and home-maker
Gender: Female
Occupation: homemaker, mother of 2
Age: 37
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15/f
sorry, i had to use my friend's account... but just to say that she already knows that i'm using hers. so yeah, anyways.... i'm just going to get to the point.
my boyfriend wants to have sex with me. and it hasn't even been 2 months yet. i told him when i'm ready, and he's already ready. but then he said he'll give me time, he's the type of boyfriend that doesn't pressure a girl into anything. he says that i'm the best girlfriend he ever had and that he hasn't felt like this to anyone besides me. i want to do it, but the problem is some things are holding me back.. like i'm scared my body won't be looking the same (because thats what i hear all the time), i'm scared i'm going to regret it, i don't want to end up like my sister(her boyfriend took advantage for her and used her for her body), and it's too early. should i just take the risk? or should i just not do anything at all. because part of me does want to loose it to him, but part of me wants to not loose it. >.< help me?
love, jenny. (link)
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Hi Jenny,
If you have any doubts at all, which OBVIOUSLY you do; DON'T DO IT. My advice, wait until you have been in an established and MATURE realtionship; it will be SO MUCH BETTER for both of you. IF he really cares for you, and you for him, enjoy your relationship, your friendship, flirting, and gratify each other in another way that you feel more comfortable doing.
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ok,i really need to build up my confidence,personality,and stuff like that. i feel like i want to change,for me,to feel better about myself. i want to be able to yell and scream and have fun,not care. what i need help is, how can i do all this***? how can i break down my wall i've had up for so long? (link)
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This may sound silly, but I have done this (1) learn ti really enjoy your own company; discover what makes you happy (2) talk to yourself in the mirror, either silently or aloud, and tell yourself all the wonderful things you are or want to be (3) always wear your smile, you'll be surprised how many people will smile back at you. Good luck and g-d bless.
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Here's the situation. I lost "it" to my first boyfriend [[*we'll call him michael*]]back about 7 months ago. we ended up breaking up and my parents found out all about our relationship and it started a huge family feud and no trust with me and my new boyfriend (who was actually a good friend of mine for 2 years and now we're together and we'll call him Scott). well we worked it out and everything is fine. Scott assured me he wasn't like that and in fact he's a virgin and wanted to wait till marriage because he wanted it to be something special and with the one he knew he was going to marry. well, with our previous history, and we've been together a few months, tonight we were home at his house alone and things just got really hot and heavy and to make a long story short we ended up having sex and weren't protected cuz we weren't expecting it and he doesn't have condoms on hand since he wasn't expecting to ever need them.
now i'm scared to death that i might get pregnant. with michael, i actually was pregnant at one point, but i had a miscarriage [[*not an abortion*]]. and i swore i would change after me and him broke up, but me and Scott just got caught in the moment and didn't realize till it was too late. i feel awful about it and now i'm terrified. is there anyway i can do something to ensure i don't get pregnant?! we're not gunna do that again and. . .if i get pregnant again, i'm no way in heck going to have an abortion, but i just don't know what we'd do! we're both financially unstable right now AND i just patched everything with my parents. i really need advice ya'll!!!
i'm 17 and he's 18 (link)
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I highly recommend the morning after pill AND if you are mature enogh to be having sex, remember, sex was originated for procreation; if you are having it for pleasure or to express love, which is CERTAINLY your preogative, please please please practice safe sex.
g-d bless you
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Are there any other ways to build long, lean muscles in your legs at the gym besides ballet/yoga/swimming? I mean specifically at a gym or health club. And how long would it take before you start seeing muscle tone? (link)
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I am always complimented on my legs; I credit long shapely toned legs to biking, reollerblading, and pilates.
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16/f
How big of a chance do I have of getting pregnant considering I had sex the day before my expected period? Like, I had sex last night, but he didnt go but theres still pre-cum, but whats the chance of me being pregnant? I usually get my period between the 20-23 of every month, so far I haven't gotten it and I know I can't be pregnant that soon. So what are my chances? (link)
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Can I just say,a t 16, never ever ever take a chance like this. The g-d given purpose for ahving sex is really to make a baby, so BE CAREFUL if that's not what you want. There are SO MANY ways to protect yourself. That said, take an instant pregnancy test 1st pee of the morning (you can save it for later if that's not conevenient). Good luck!
female, aged 37, 2 kids
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