ok so i have been going out wiht my new girlfriend for about 2 mouths now and i want to know a couple of things
1. on avrage how long do people wait to have sex
2. should we celabrit things like 1 mouth annaverys and if we do, how long do we do that untill it's to only a one year annavery?
3. she's a little new at haveing a boyfriend, she is my forth girlfriend, and i just want to know is there a way to make her more confuable with being around me, she already really cares about me and trust me,
1)WAIT till your BOTH ready to have sex, to make sure you both trust each other and very comfortable with each other.
2)Well every now adn then just out of the blue give her a gift,card,candy,be romantic to keep your realtionship spontanious and fun.
3)Let her do that on her own and make her feel special and show that you care and you can be dependable.
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Two of my supposed friends my friends have definitely been talking about me behind my back. How should I confront them?
Well you should talk with them one on one and just come out and ASK do you have a problem with me but dont hava an attitue .Be nice about it if you can but just tell them you dont respect them talking bout you behind your back and if they have sumthn to say they should come to your face and tell you and not behind your back
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Ok. Well i have recently started hang out with this guy...and i like him alot. Well he has told me many times that im fucking hot and how much he likes me. But when people ask were always like were just friends...Im kind of wondering why he hasnt asked me out yet...and if i should just ask him out...i would definitely prefer him to ask me out..but im thinkin he either doesnt want to go out with me for some reason or he is just afraid of rejection...what do you think?
well maybe he just shy to ask you out n dont kno what to do at the moment. well just simply tell him how you feel and that you rfeeling him a lot to and you want to be his gurl..dont wit to long becuas he can just end up liking a another gurl..so go for it and tell him how you feel and then see if he will ask you out if not then just ask him out you always cant get everything how you want it but so ask him out.
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heyyy, homecoming for my school is coming up, and I have no idea what to wear! I have a pair of chocolate brown gauchos, though, but I have a hard time finding a shirt that will match them.
can someone please tell me what I can wear as a shirt, with links too? thanks so much.
well i s the guachos the dressy type or jean type if thier the dressy kind u want to have a sexy look maybe a silky kinna white shirt that looks sexy not just a plain one but with a lil skin showing and sum white hills and a white n brown purse ya kno(SEXY).
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i wear contacts right now just for my vision..what i'm wondering is if they have prescription ones that are colored? I have light brown hair and baby blue eyes what color should i get?
Yeah i wear just color contacts and i look good n any color really but for you;you should try a light green or just plain green your eys will pop out more will briht colors and you will still lokk great but it would help if u gave a pic so then that would really help .
~ Miss_Diva ~
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Okay so this was the answer you gave me to my question:
okay jes chill and think for a minute... if he really loves you then he would understand that you want to wait..and should respect that. and if he doesnt then jes try your best to forget about him because whats best; having a bf thats willing to wait or not.i would want one that waits n respect my answer towards that.but sit down with him and tell him how you feel about the whole situation and tell him that you want him back and you want his respect and see what he has to say .. get bac to me please i would love to help more.
so my next question is you think i should talk to him? like how in person, email, text, phone call? and u dont think im like giving up my pride? cause thats wat my mom keeps saying but shes a really proud women and i want to get some things off my chest...wat should i do/would you do?
Well i would sit down wit him in person,then you would be able to see all his little expressions to what all you have to say.No your not giving up your pride;your jes doing what you have to do to get that stress off of you.You should do sumthing about it then just wait and let another girl come along and take his love away that he has for you.Remember this expression..."A CLOSED MOUTH DONT GET FEED"...meaning if you dont open your mouth and say whats on your mind nothing will ever happen and you will be stuck wit WAHT IF'S for the future and wonder (if i had said sumthn how would our relationship turned out).So sit down with him (IN PERSON) and have everything that u want to say thought of , you dont want to hold anything back .Tell ALL how you feel.. Hopw i was a big help. *Thanks for writing back*
~ Miss_Diva ~
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i like this really cute guy. i talk to him but i want him to like me more. does anyone know any tricks on how to get the guy you like? ty 13/f
i KNO A GREAT TRICK OKAY.... **just be yourself** becuase soon or later those tricks that you want to spring on him will fade away and the new you will come out then you will need help being yourself .so just be your self from teh start then you will kno if he really like you for you and not those little stunts u make..Get bac to me .
~ Miss_Diva ~
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13/f
OK, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 months. Well, a lot of girls in my school like hiim. They always talk to him and flirt with him, and he flirts and talks back. I have asked him many times to stop and he claims hes just talking. But all my friends keep telling me that he always does this. Plus, he told me he thinks other girls are hot. Should I end our relationship? I am getting really mad at him about this and need help!
okay gurl gone had and end your realationship because you shouldnt b unhappy with who your with because of his actions and you told him to stop and he wont change for you .(Sign#1) he doesnt care(Sign#2)he dioesnt have respect for you..So you should let him go and move on to another sexy hot boy of you liking and that is more respectful or you and your feelings....Get bac to me please.
~ Miss_Diva ~
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i want to dye my hair a shade of red. now like a bright vibrant red, but one thats darker and closer to a brownish color, if you know what i mean. http://img181.imageshack.us/img181/9411/dsc02095oa1.jpg
thats what i look like. its not the best picture of me, but the lighting makes my skin tone show up right, along with my eyes.
so basically, my question is should i dye my hair? and what shade. I really want some kind of change in my hair, besides a haircut.
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If your going to do red pick a volcano red (HILHIGHTS).its nto to dark not to bright but jesss right and then then it would make u look more outgoing and a lil stylish and not the dull dark brown. just keep your hair color now and add volcano red highlights and it will be perfect. or you can get a choclate brown color give you more of a vibrant feel ya know.. hope it works out great for what color you pick....Get Back to Me
~ Miss_Diva ~
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So, i knew this girl like 4 years ago, then one year, i changed schools. now last june, i saw her again, and we talked, found otu we still liekd each other.(question #1= Do you think it was juts because we had'nt seen each other in so long that our feelings were so strong?) so we went out for liek a week, untill she said she was ahving some problems, and could'nt deal with a relationship. so we broke up, and i continued to be there for her. in sepember, i gave her a blur rose(because it was a flower she really liked, along with it's meanining as a flower), and i asked her otu again, she said, not right then, but one day.(#2= was she just being nice?)
So i tried to deal, and mostly did, we were still close. Now then, i tried to move on, get on with ym life, and accept she probably did'nt share my feelings. Now lately, a whiel later, i've really been down, because i've really been missing her, even though i see her everyday.Everytime i see her, and hear her talkign about how cute some guy is, or what her "boyfriend" is like.(she says they are'nt really goign out, but they go otu alot O.o)
I'm wondering mainly if there is: 1) any way to show her how i feel(preferable one that would get ehr back, but thats unlikely) and 2: any advice for dealign with this, and feelign less and less down.
GET OUT MORE EXXXXPREIENCE i kno it hard ive been there before,but the more u think about her the more your goin to be sad for a long time.try something new and just find a girl that you can hagn out with and have fun with.time will pass n you will still miss her but it wont be so strong.Let the girl go and let her wonder what she missed out on and and regret what she did.Let that be her fault not yours and to be all sad n depressed. Youe got a life to now live it and dont let that PUPPY LOVE get in the way of what you think is real. Get back to me okay....
~ Miss_Diva ~
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my bf & i broke up b.c we had a fight. and "sum otehr reason that i didnt want to give in to" if u knw wat i mean. anyway i thought he was gonna regret wat had happened and he is? how can i get him back wit how respecting me. Because i knw- i knw we still both love each other. help me!or should i just forget the whole thing? but i really love him and its stupid to have broken up over this. i just think we need to talk this all out and i dont knw wat to do. plz help!
okay jes chill and think for a minute... if he really loves you then he would understand that you want to wait..and should respect that. and if he doesnt then jes try your best to forget about him because whats best; having a bf thats willing to wait or not.i would want one that waits n respect my answer towards that.but sit down with him and tell him how you feel about the whole situation and tell him that you want him back and you want his respect and see what he has to say .. get bac to me please i would love to help more.
~ Miss_Diva ~
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15,f missouri
there is this guy that i like, we go to the same school and we hang out alot, he knows that like him, and he says that he likes me, but he isn't doing anything about it. My dad said that i can't ask out a guy, it is forward and unapporpriate. So my question to you is how do i convince him that it is ok to ask me out. he flerts w/ me all the time, and i flert back, but i don't know, any help is appriciated. Thanks in advance
~Ash
Well Ash,its proly been on his mind and he wants to make sure thats what he wants.but jes sit down wit him and ask him "do you want to take our friendship more seriously".and if he likes you like u say he does then he should be alright with sayn yes.and theres no problem askin him out b/cuz he might be shy to ask you out n if NOBODY SAYS ANYTHING then of course NOTHING WILL HAPPEN. so take a chance and get your man. bye
~ Miss_Diva ~
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