my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie
wow gracie this is a hard question to answer! but if i were you i would tel your mom and have him arrested and then he cant hurt you. no one should have that done to them and if you dont tell someone then hell probably keep raping you. so if i were you i would tell someone but thats your choice.
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So I've always been attracted to other gitls.I don't think guys are attractive at all.I have had ex b/fs and stuff but I think girls are hot not guys.Does this mean I'm a lesbian?Do you think its wrong?
well i think you perfer girls over guys and theres nothing wrong with that. and dont let anyone tell you different because its your life and if dating girls makes you happy then i think you should do what makes you happy.
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whenever i find columnists that i like i tell people to check out their columns... as in i pase their site under my column saying check out these columns, i've done that wit urs, but if u want me to remove it then tell me and i will!!
no thank you for putting my column in there. im glad you like it and i want people to write to me. and i dont want you to remove it. thanks!
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i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do?
well if i were you i would move on! because if he tells you that he likes you and then all of a sudden he likes your best friend! thats not someone i would wanna be in a realtion ship with. so if your choice but if i were you i would move on and forget about him! there are plenty of other guys out there!
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OK, well me and this guy dated for about 4 months and I broke ^ with him cas I never really liked him. but then the next year I liked him so we went back out and we lasted almost 4 months and we really liked each other and I could always talk to him but he just dumped me out of the blue for some older gerl! I was crushed and I still liked him. Then he liked me again but I couldnt go back out with him because of what he did. Now I get mixed feelings about him every so often. Should I be getting these? Help me! Im so confused!!!
yes it normal to have thoses feelings. you went out with him for a good four mounths almost and i know it hurts to be dumped for another girl and what he did was bad, you have to ask yourself.. is he worth the pain? would you risk getting hurt for one more chance? since you are having feelings for him agian my advice is to talk to him and maybe hes changed, whoo knows. maybe youll have another great four months together and maybe not but thats a chance youll have to take.
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hey..there is this guy who loves me soo much, he asked me out and i said yes..then lata that night my friend IMs me and tells me that he is cheatin on me wit about 5 otha girls. i got so mad (but didnt brake up wit him) me and my friend talked about it for a while. then she says that she isnt really sure if he is! he says that he isnt..but who should i believe? what should i do?
signed,
lovein him =/
hey i think that you should go out with him untill you find some proof that he really is cheating on you, since your friend isnt sure if he is. i really dont know what else to tell you only that if he is cheating on you i would hope he can be a real man and tell you that he is instead of lieing and if he comes clean i think you should stay with him but if he lies and you find out its true then dump him. theres plenty of guys out there that wont cheat on you
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Hey i was jus hoping some one could help me. well u se ive been hanging out with this guy alot and weve made out and done some other things. but were not goin out more like *together*.ok so here the problem. my x boyfriend jus broke up with his girlfriend and hes just been some one i could always talk to. and he other nite we were hanging out and did some shit. so woul that make me a cheater? and should i tell the guy im together with. it was jus a one time thing but i dont regret it.ne advice is good! thankx!
ok let me think... your *hanging out* with this guy and you do things with him but your not going out. and your ex boyfriend and you did some things too and since your not going out with the guy you hang out with then its not cheating. if the guy and you were going out then it would be and if you wanna tell him that you did stuff with your ex boyfriend thats your buisness.
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Im a girl and 14...I use to go out with this guy Manuel. We went out for almost 5 months. We were really serious, and we were crazy for each other. At school we were the couple everyone wanted to be. Well...he had told me he loved me. Which might seem kind of weird because we only went out for 5th months of so but he did, and even my mother knew he did. He was great because he would do ANYTHING what so ever for me. I love him I do. But...a while ago we broke up. Because of his bestfriend...which is also my ex.Well i broke up with him, he was really upset. Well he did go out with this one girl Katie but they didnt last. At tha end of this last school year we started talking. After 3 1/2 months of no talking at all. Well i invited him over to go swimming in my pool n later that night we had been flirting alot but then he siad we needed to talk n told me he didnt want to be in a serious realtionship with me. I was really upset but i didnt let it show. We talked fer tha next week on tha phone. And tha least time we talked I had found out that tha previous night he was at his ex-girlfriends house. I got mad but didnt let it show. I havent talked to him now for...almost a month. I still love him n i miss him so much. But im not sure what to do...???????
well im realy not sure what to tell you lol. im kinda confused why you broke up with him and what his best friend had to do with it but i think you should tell him that your sorry and that you want another chance and if he saids no, well your only 14 youll have plenty of time to meet other guys! i know it may seem like the end of the world but things will get better. time heals wounds
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hey! well i`m 13 and i went campin a few weeks ago with my brother and a bunch of other peopl i usually go camping with there all close friends and alot of times we meet alot of kids well this one time we were playin manhunt and we met a kid who just turn 15 and i thought he was cute from the start sorta like love at first site ! well afta that night all i could think about was him we would look at each other alot and talk !! the next night we were suppose to play that game again but we couldn't so we all just went ova to his fire and hung!there were no more chairs for me by the fire so he pulled up a chair for me right next to him and i helped him make a a s`more and then we left and he gave me his s/n the next day we left the campground and i have been talkin to him on line and on the phone alot he said i was hot and we flirt alot but the probablem is age he 15 and i`m 13 and he lives a hour and 15 mins. away what should i do ? can u help ? x0ox
well my advice to you is if you really like him and if he likes you then age and distance shouldnt matter. he could be the love of your life, you cant just not be with him because of a age difference and where you live. and if it doesnt work out then since you dont live near eachother atleast you wont have to see him!
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I think im addicted to cutting.... and i like it but i want to stop.... how do i stop? (My parents know and im not talking to a damn physcologist)
~Kele~
hey kele i know how you feel. i cut myself too and i go to theropy for it. i think you should go see someone and talk to them because as much as i hate to say this.... they really can help you.
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Friday night me and this kid finally met, he was such a sweetie i instantly fell in love with him. We were hugging eachother holding hands and we even kissed once!...I was so so so SO happy because he treated me like i deserved to be treated...Well we all went home and I couldn't talk to him that night or anything because I was in trouble for being out so late, but the next day I started talking to him, and he was acting so weird!...Like he says "...You know i cant talk to you whenever you want me to!" and I know thats not mean but if felt so painful because of how much i liked him!...So today we talked again and he was being so sweet, balling me baby, but then hes like "its as simple as this...I dont wanna date you" I was crushed and broke out into tears!! and i really cant get my mind off of him..The reason im so crushed is because Friday night he told me he really liked me...but now hes saying all this stuff and now saying he has a girlfriend...my heart is so broken, and i cant stop thinking about him...what should I do?help!!=( xoxo // Lyss (I'm 13 and a girl)
aww lyss im soo sorry! but boys wil be boys. im sorry for you pain and i know how you feel on some level. im a 13 year old girl too so i know what its like being that age. hes a butt head! and i know its hard but you gotta forget him and find someone knew! i know you can do it! good luck!
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i just dumped my bf i totally regret it he is hurt he just doesnt wanna go bak out cuz his friend told him not to and idk i need help
well if your boyfriend cares alot about you still then he shouldnt listen to his friend and go back out with you. tell him you made a mistake and you really like him and if he really likes you then he wont listen to his friend.
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should i tell the one i love how a feel even threw a 2 year difference in age and a hour distance in where we each live ?
i think you should tell the one you love how you feel because maybe they feel the same way about you and if they dont then youll know you have to move on and fall in love with someone else.
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