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well theres this guy and hes my best friends ex bf. me and him have been talking about going out for a few weeks but we dont know if we're going to yet because my best friend hates him. well, he knows that i've had a friend with benefits for about a year and he wanted me to stop hooking up with the guy. i told him i was going to stop because i thought i would be able to but yesterday i wound up hooking up with him. i don't know if i should tell him what happened or not because he said he trusted me that i wouldn't hook up with the guy and i dont want to loose his trust but i feel bad lying to him. What should i do? please help
Well, one, your best friend shouldn't care if you're dating someone she doesn't like, as long as your happy. Unless she's a bad and selfish friend. About the guy, one, you aren't dating him, so you technically don't have a loyalty to him, unless you think you should. If you think you should tell him, then do it. Since you aren't going out, you have no real attachment to do it, but if you think you should, then you should tell him. And if you really like that guy, stop your friends with benefits. Thats what I think anyway. Good Luck.
I have a new boyfriend. He used to be a good friend of my but we started to have feelings for eachother. I know this question may be a bit cliche` but things are awkward. It just so happens he's my first REAL boyfriend & I'm not used to what's going on. Tonight's our first day & I'm started to have second thoughts. I miss how things were when the two of us were friends but I'm afraid that if I end things, they'll never be the same.
~Violet // 13/f
Being Boyfriend and girlfriend would just be more friendly, not less. Now if things end, you guys can still be friends. Just tell him about it now. I've stayed friends with some of my ex-bf's. It just depends. If you guys have a good relationship, then you should be able to remain friends even if you were to break up. Good Luck.
i have an emergency question, im going to the pool in 45 minutes with my friend and im on my period. tampons are so uncomfortable for some reason, but my period is extremely light. i was wondering if i could get away with no tampon
yes, your period stops in water, well it doesn't stop, but you don't leak in water. ITs wierd. I have friends who do it all the time, and its known that if you stay in the water, you'll be fine. Be careful when you get out though, because once your out of water, not immediately, but still, it will come back agian. But, in the water, you're fine. Good Luck.
I just got a really nasty prank phone call. I never give out my number to anyone that I don't know and I couldn't recognize the voice. They were asking me if I'd like to participate in a lesbian teen porn video so I played along and said yes. When they called, it was a restricted number. I was wondering if there was any way I could figure out the number without having to get the police involved. Just so I can figure out who it was that called. They called my cell phone by the way. So, is there a way I can trace the number?
Well, I guess theres a new site that lists people's numbers, but I'm not so sure about celphones being listed. I don't think you can trace the number. What is most likely, is that they were dialing random numbers until they got a girl, I know people who do that. I don't think you really need to worry about it, they can't do anything to you really. If you get called again, then you should tell the police, but I think it was just stupid people being bored. Good Luck.
my moms friend had cancer and about 1 week ago the treatment finished and he is okay. well the hole company is having a party for him [john]. it is also his 61th birthday. Could i have some suggestions on sayings for him cake.
1) it needs to involve something w. gettin his cancer treated and bein well
2) he loves golf
3) it needs to include something for his b-day
I'm not the best with this kind of thing, but see if you can find maybe little golf balls or something, like the kind that you put on cakes and like decorations like that. You could also have the frosting design be golf-oriented. You could write maybe, "Congradulations and Happy Birthday" or "Glad your better. Happy Birthday" Something to that effect. Good Luck.
ok well ive been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months,and we never go anywhere, and thats because of me, i just dont feel right around him but i like him and all, and im pretty sure he likes me more then i like him, and in the past couple of days, well ive been talking to this boy johnny, and hes absouloutly my type, and i told him i liked him and he said liked me back, he said he would wait till me and my boyfriend brake up, but i like my boyfriend to!, so i dont know what to do cause he likes me so much and i dont want to hurt his feelings, but i like him and johnny, please help im stuck
you need to decide which one you like better. Its not fair to your boyfriend to be talking to other guys about breaking up w/ him for them and its not fair to the other guy talking about breaking up w/ your bf unless you actually plan on doing it. I personally think that you should evaluate the situation and try to think of what you like about both of them and try to decide which one you'd rather be with, otherwise you are all going to be miserable. Good Luck.
I ounce went out with this girl, but then she dumped me. I still like this girl but i dont know if she even likes me the littlist, i cant figure out if i should ask her out or just get over her.
Well first you have to think of why she broke up with you. maybe she just isn't into you, not to be a downer. But, what have you got to lose? The worst thing that would happen is her saying no. You might as well ask, if you don't, you might regret it. But be prepared for anything so you don't get hurt. Just ask, tell her you still like her and if she'd like to go out with you again. Good Luck with that.
hi i just wanna know how your room is set up and stuff like how it is and that kinda thing. like what do you have on what furniture and what do you have in what furniture (this includes closet) what books you have where you shop what the color of your room is and more can you tell me all the details thanx cause i'm redecorating my room and i live in california thanx really your a life saver.
Well, I have a very cluttered room, but I have these shelves that are like boxes made out of wire that my aunt bought me a couple years ago, I have like office supplies in the top one, hair stuff in the middle one, and stuff for when I babysit in the bottom one. I have pictures and notepads on top of that. Lets see, I have my makeup, my water pitcher thing, and a few other random objects on top of my dresser. My top dresser drawer has my like bikini's, bras, panties, etc. My middle drawer has my shorts, skirts, dance clothing like my character skirt, tights, jazz pants, etc(when they aren't in my dance bag). The bottom drawyer has my pants and pj's in it. I have my shirts, dresses, jackets, sweaters, etc hanging in my closet, I have my books on a shelf in there, and a bunch of random stuff I never use, plus hidden food on the top shelf. I have a bedside table with a bunch of random crap in the drawer...I need to clean it out, but in the cupboard part I have random scraps of material because I sew and then hats and stuff in there too. I have a place on a shelf on my entertainment center under my tv where I put my candles, and those cute little shaped soaps that smell really good. So yeah, I have a mirror and a bulletin board by my dresser and posters all over the place. I have a fake telephone, well it works if I plug it in, but I don't use it, its old fashioned and all, but yeah. Thats next to my door along with a whiteboard on my door, and a spot on my wall next to my door where I put post it notes so I see them before I leave my room. I think thats about it, if you have anymore questions, please don't hesitate to ask. Good Luck. Love, Lana.
okay so i have this friend (im 13/f-hes 13/m.)he always seems depressed about everything. he says he really depressed and ive tried everythign to help him.he says he knows cutters and im worried that he cuts.he got out of this REALLY deep relationship with my best friend and he was soo happy with her but without her he seems empty and more depressed. he likes a new girl now and that helps...but im not sure how to help him get outta his "I hate life. It's not worth living." mode.and hes not suicidal-just any ideas? thanks a bunch!!! i rate extremely high!!!
sounds like he's just down. You can't do anything about how other people act. They choose to act and feel the way they do for the most part. Its just a phase, a cry for attention. If something gets serious, then talk to him and someone else, but other than that, I think it'll be okay. If your worried though, you might want to talk to him about it. Be honest. Good Luck.
A lot of times my back hurts when I'm sitting in one position for just a couple of minutes. And I don't know what it is! Does anybody have any suggestions as to what this pain is? I rate high.
sometimes its an injury, sometimes you just aren't treating your body right. Try sitting up straight. If that doesn't work, you might want to check it out with a doctor, just to make sure its nothing, or if it is something. Good Luck.
hi. this is my first time using this..but...i was neading some advise. im living with my dad right now.and its going great.but i grew up near the beach and i really want to live there again.all my friends live there too.my mom lives in l.a with her boyfriend.in about 6t months his contract will end with his business and will be able to move towards the beach. my dad has a girlfriend. but i really dont want to stay out there with him becasue its in the middle of no where. and i lovemy dad and my mom. im happy in both places. i want to go to high school with where my mom lives. but i dont want to break my dads heart. what should i do?
explore our options, pros and cons and stuff like that,then decided which one you really want to live with. ITs about you, not them, so do YOU want to do. Good Luck!
My Golden Retriever named Katie is 13 going on 14, i havent gone through a pet dieing experince my question is there any way to prepare myself in case my dog dies anytime soon? Katie's my First Dog and i love her sooooooo Much i would hate it if she died this Year Month Week Day
Can You Please Help Me Prepare for the Sadest Day of my Life???!?!??!?!?!?
HELP i'll RATE HIGH
Well, there really is no way of preparing yourself for a death of any kind. All you have to do is just spend as much time as you can with her and her remaining time. Just love her, play with her, and just make memories, because memories are the best thing to have after someone, anyone, dies that you knew. Just keep her remaining time happy and take full advantage of it. Good luck with that though. =0)