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well anyway im a sophmore guy and i like this girl. i was gonna tell her on the phone the other night but i couldnt bring myself to do it. how can i build up enough courage to tell her? i told her friend and she wants to tell her, should i let her? help! (link)
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If you let her friend tell her, the girl will feel like you don't like her enough to tell her on her own. Sometimes when you tell a friend, the friend will often tease them about it. Tell her yourself, and instead of telling it to her on the phone tell it to her in person. " ( Name ) I have been needing to talk to you about something and I was wondering if we can have a minute alone." You take it from there. Don't be shy, and don't almost tell her and then stupidly change the subject. If the feeling is not mutual tell her that you would still like to continue being friends.
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i dont know whats wrong with me. lately i have been thinking of killing myself. i dont know why. i have a bf and a wonderful family and friends but it doest seem worth it. i just keep thinking why not? i cant help it. i also draw the pictures of death. im a very good artist so the pictures are really good. i will sit with a pen in my hand and its like they just jump on the papper one mminute i will bethinking of what to draw and then im done and looking at this picture of death.i just think somethings wrong with me. i just want to die you know nothing can help i try leaving my house adn going fro a wlak. i just quit using and am trying to quit cuting but i only have one good friend i can depend on. do you think i have a serious problem? shoudl i tell me mom? shouold i try to get help? do u have any ideas that could help me? im just afraid that one day i m,ight end up trying to kill my self. please help i will rate really high. love the invisable girl xoxo (link)
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I want to start of with the fact that you are not invisable, but you are making yourself seem that way. I bet that your family, friends, and boyfriend love you very much and would suffer the pain of loss if you did commit suicide. Please tell your parents or even a school counselor so you can get help. Instead of cutting yourself, try writing in a journal or drawing those pictures. It seems as if you draw the pictures your stress is a little relieved and it helps a little. Tell someone and tell them everything. Don't be shy about what you should say. Sit down with the parent/guardian that you talk to more and explain to them what is going on. Say, " Mom, I have been feeling very deperessed lately. I feel as if death is the only way out and I am asking for your help." I know that it will be hard because I had to do the same thing but thankfully I am now happy and relieved that someone on here saved my life and I hope i can do the same for you.
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Ok, I need to know what is a good car to get. I don't have much money and need a type of car that doesn't suck up a lot of gas! Can anyone help me?
P.S. I am getting a used car not a new one if that makes a difference!
HELP! (link)
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Hondas are really good cars and they go low on gas. They are safe and affordable, and they look really cool.
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Okay so yesterday I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to go to the movies with me on Monday. He said he didnt know. Well, I should fill you in on the background. Every since we have been going out and before there's been this girl he met this last summer on a cruise. She always leaves him comments about how much she misses him and she's constantly talking to him and leaving really weird comments. Yesterday I looked at her away message and it said "*my boyfriends name*-Call me." But anyways Back to the movies..lol. So I asked him to go to the movies and he said maybe. So then today I was like "Are you coming?" and he said he didnt know it depended on whether or not his friend (the girl from the cruise) could do something since he hadnt seen her since august. My questions is: Should I be jealous? I mean I TOTALLY trust him but its this girl i dont trust. I wouldnt put it past her to try something with him.And plus i really wanted to do something with him since i havent seen him in a week. So do i have a reason to be jealous? Should I talk to him about it? Please help me I need to know quickly. Thanks so much =) Happy New Year! (link)
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In a relationship you should be upfront, honest, and open about what is bothering you and what is fine. If you two don't trust each other your relationship will fall apart slowly, and if you can't trust him to be with his friends just like you can be with yours your relationship will fall apart slowly. Talk to him about that is going on and ask him if anything is happening between the girl and him.
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15, almost 16, female.
Little brother is 12 almost13.
we fight all the time. I try so hard to be nice. and most of the time I am nice. I am always sharing, and even if I getsomething new, I always share it, and I am tollerent of our different taste in music. He likes heavy rap and metal, and those are the two I despise. Although I enjoy love songs, they are not my favorite, he despises them tho.
I want to be a good big sister. I want him to come to me when he has a girlfriend, or when he has girl trouble, or something good to tell me. I want him to be able to come to me. Now when he needs to be driven to a friends house or somewhere with a friend, he despises when I drive, ( I have my permit) but, I know I need the practice so I can get my liscense, and My parents, of course, are with me, and they are okay with me driving my brother and his friends. But I will be getting my liscence in 5months, and I want him to want me to drive him. I want him to look up to me, and like it when I drive him or pick him up from places. I do try to set a good example too!!
Any tips? Is he just going through a stage? How can I be more tollerent when he is bad??
thank you so much in advance!!
-Kelsey-
k2204 (link)
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My sister and I don't get along either. It's normal. He is at the age where he thinks he can't trust anyone, but there is a way to show him that him not being able to trust anyone is not true. You need to show him that he can trust you and come to you for help as well as his parents/guardians. Brothers are hard to get along with because they are messy and always doing the wrong thing but showing him if he makes a wrong choice without anyones help will affect his life in a bad way. For exaple if his friends are forcing him to smoke, he should come up to you and ask you what to do. I would try taking him out somewhere and having some fun with him and talking with him in private. He'll be glad to have a big sister who is always there for him. I call one of my close friends ( he is 12) my brother and it is hard to get throught to him because he feels like his pride and madhood is being squshed when he can't solve something on his own. Try not to pry into your brother's life too much and when he is mad give him his space. Then later talk to him in private and ask if there is anything you can do to help.
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