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Well, there's this guy in one of my classes and I like him a lot. I've written him two notes now. The first one asked if he wanted to hang out the weekend of halloween with me and some friend and I gave it to him on a Tuesday. He never wrote me back so on Friday, I told him not to worry about writing me back because I guess he didn't want to hang out anyways. Well, then he told me that he didn't write me back because he was busy this weekend with some friends. Well, he started talking to me more since then. Last week I gave him another note saying that I didn't think he wanted to hang out with me or just be my friend or anything like that and he never wrote me back. I'm not sure what's going on, but since that note he talks to me a whole bunch and will just start random conversations with me. By the way he is very shy and doesn't talk too much, but now he talks to me a lot. I'm not sure what to think about all this. Do you think I should just confront him and tell him that obviously what I said in the note was true? Please give me some great advice! It would help a lot!
well it kinda seems like he is starting to like you, just try to get to know him better and talk to him more. Be friends first and then see what happens. But just be yourself around him and talk to him alot after a while when you feel that it is right just tell him how you feel. Hope this helped!
im a 13 year old female. I went out with this boy "Sam" for about 2 months, which i know isnt very long, but i have also been freinds with him for over a year now. he is really a great guy. and he really liked me but i ended b/c it was just to weird. im not prude or a jesus loving "goody goody" but i wouldnt make out let alone kiss him along those 2 months.(in fact i am eagerly waiting to get my first kiss) but anyway, now he has another girlfreind and well...she is the kind of girl that has already lost her virginity, comes to school stoned...just not exactly a model citazen. and i know this girl too and she is SOOO SWEET, but im just really worried that this girl may change "sam" and he may start making horribly wrong choices. supposedly, they have already made out and have been going together for 2 days. i just dont want to lose him to the wrong people. can anyone give me any advice on this situation?
well i think that you should write him a note or e-mail him about it and tell him how great a guy he is but you like this gril and stuff but you dont want him to change. Because that happend with me and my x and he is a horrible guy now an i miss how he use to be... well you should say sumtin b4 he changes an quick! hope this helped!
ok im kind of a shy person and recently i started making friends at another high school so im mainly with them. they are all so pretty...a lot of guys like them and they're so nice.i just want to fit in with them because when when im with them,i feel like the outsider. i want to b able to open up more...basically what i want to know is how to open up more!? plz plz help i really need it.
Just be yourself around them they are your friends then you should be open to them and learn to trust a little. Hope this helped!
Okay there's a school dance Friday night and my boyfriend asked me to go. Heres the problem...I haven't ever been to a school dance and I want to go but yet I don't and I don't know what to wear and everything...I am in eighth grade at weightman middle if that helps any.
If you know that it isnt like dressy or anyting wear like a cute skirt and a really cute skirt and do your hair nice to. Alot of people lik to get really dressed up but most dont so dont worry! hope this helped
OK theres this one boy that i have a HUGE crush on and he only likes my 1 best friend bc shes popular.. and shes pretty well everytime i go to my locker, hes always standing by her, it makes me feel like im not good enough or something but her locker is like 6 lockers away but hes always just standing around her..like all the other boys do and stuff and hes asked her out and hes asked out my best friend, why hasnt he asked out me? What am i doing wrong.. i mean i think im pretty.. but i guess thats not good enough for him=[ Plz help me=/
well you cant really control who you like at all or you cant control anyone to like you. Just be yourself around him and maybe he will start to like you talk to him more and try to get to know him better and just be yourself. if its meant to be then it wil happen. hope this helped!
Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help.
Well you can tell her that your body spray smells so good and be lik u wana try sum that will atleast help it for awhile ! also you could get another friend to say sumtin to her, hope it helped
i still have not gotten my period and all my friends that are even smaller and shorter then me already got theirs if it helps im in 7th grade and im almost 13
Yeah that is normal i got mine in 7th but it also depends on your wieght i think bc i didnt get it until i wieghed around 105 lbs and same with my friends to . my friends are really skinny so i just watched who got it first. lol i kno it sounds werid but i think that is wha happens. also everyones body is different and i wouldnt be in a rush to get it it sucks! u lik get leaks in school but i understand i wanted it to, hope it helped!
You see, whenever I get my period, I start getting a lot of zits on my face and my back. How do I prevent them whenever I have my period?
you really gotta wash ur self alot seriously i know alot of people that happens to . well ya kno bath and body works? well they have that body wash that is lik creamy and nice so that works really good and alos u should get one of there body scrubs bc that makes it better to. this doesnt totally take them all away but it helps my frnds go away better and you cant see them as much! i dun wana sound lik a bath n body works spokesman but this does help! hope this helped u !
Ok art lets call her ms.bob(new teacher at the skool) ok so ms bob is kinda weird and makes the class read out of the art book and she is all like you can only learn art from a book. and we are all like how is the book going to teach us?? how could the class tell that we learn better without the book cause all we do is pass notes and no1 pays attention to her what can i do??
just get people in the class and try to talk to her an tell her you want to draw art and stuff not look at it in a book, tell her the book is cool but you also wana do lik things you can do with your hands and stuff and be creative hope this helps!
like omg i just want to do a man in the butthole but my girlfriends dont kno i want to hug up dudes what should i do.should i do a guy in the ass or keep it a secret
do what u want to do... but dont let ur gf find out im sure she wont lik that. hope this helped thanks for askin me! i guess...
hello there l0r! i am a freshman in highskol n my mom wont let me shave. and she hides all of the razors from me. so my legs are reali hairy! it is reali embarassin! ok wel ther is this guy tha reali liks me n i reali lik him n he didnt see my legs yet n if i go out wit him im afraid 4 him 2 c my legs. and if i get reali close 2 him im afraid 2 do stuff wit him lik u kno... cus i cnt shav nethin!!! can u plz help me i dnt kno wha 2 do cus is i shav my mom wil kno even if i shav down ther cus she cheks occasionly! i need ur help plz!!!!
well u can borrow a shaver from your friends and then shave your legs. But if your mom checks then i have no clue what you can do unless u kno some way to get the hair bac on ur legs lol!i hope this helped at least a little thanks for askin me!
Hi lor this is Brandy and i think that iam a lesbian but im not sure. Because there is a guy that i lik but im attracted to girls to ! i dont understand it! I think that i like my best friend cindy but i dont want to tell her bc she thinks all that stuff is werid! but i im so confused with my sexuality! i dont know what i like boys or girls help me please!
Well brandy i think that you are bi. bi means that you like both girls and boys that is why you lik a guy and a girl. I hope this helped a little thanks for askin me!
so theres this girl that likes this other girl what should they do there names are lauren somthing its this tall like red head girl and thers this blonde girl but there afriad to hook up what should they do
oo shut up ppl this is a person tryin to make fun of me ! im not a lesbian ther is nothin wrong wit it but im not one ! who ever this is i will find out lol
hello again this is the 14 year old male i have another question for you..i slept over my friends house and i gave him another kiss, and he woke up and i told him it was a bird and he said no its not, whos kissing me is it you, and i said i think it was your step dad he always does that to you, and he went crazy abd he talked to his mom and she is divoreicg the sep dad beaucse she thinks that hes a petifile
i need ur help!!
omg just tell him you were kidding around and it wasnt his step dad! say you didnt know what it was! If you dont want him to kno it was you. Unless you think you can tell him it was you! or you can tell him he might has just been dreamin! tell me what happens! i hope this helps!!!
ok im really stressed out! first i have this one friend who says my guy friend likes me and then i have this one friend who said that he hates my guts!! and then she keeps nagging me of how bad she has it off and she doesnt have one crap what the hell im talking about! and then i got my first b in 3 years and then now i just dont know what to do!! and with this guy thing i have NO clue whats going on, and hes still not talking to me and everythings just going wrong!
if you and this guy are really meant to be then it will happen. Sometimes when you fall for someone there not always ready to catch you. And i think your friend that tells you that he hate you must like him . And she is just jealous of you and him. Even if you and this guy will just turn out to be friends im sure it is better than nothing, talk to him and try to be friends first then he will get to know you and hopefully he will like you. thanks for askin me!
hello im a 14 year old male and im pretty hott too.. ne ways ive always liked girls ever since i was around 13, then all the sudden this past summer i felt less and less attracted to them.
I didnt want to have a girlfriend and i really didnt interact with them. i noticed that i became more and more attracted to males. i tried to tell my self that i was just loosing it and i liked girls.. but i dont! i tryed and tryed to like them but i had no sexual attraction or weener exceitments anymore. i have sexual attraction 2 males (i like hairy men 2 for some reason) i think im gay! i havent told anyone about this freakish urges of male attention because i wont be accepted. all my friends will make fun of me n wont talk 2 be anymore, i really am inlove with my best friend and i cant tell him either. hes is sexy i love 2 sleep at his house, one time i gave him a kiss when he was asleep and when he woke up i told him it was a bird, anyway i dont know what i should do, should i try to like girls or be the gay cat i was meant to be.
please help me i think im a woman trapped in a males body!
Just be who you want to be. If your friends wont except you for the person that you really are they are'nt your true friends. Just be whoever you think that you are and you will find a way to get through it all. thanks for askin me!
ok look me n my boyfriend live so far apart now that he moved away and i barely get to see him except on weekends and stuff like that. So i dunno if he is cheating on me or anything! im defenitly not! should i be thinking this ?!?
it is perfectly normal for you to be thinking this, ezpecially because he lives so far away from you. But also if you know that he cares about you, you should know that he isnt doing this type of things. I wouldnt say anything to him about it unless you really think that he is because he might get mad and think that you dont trust him. So if he cares about you, you shouldnt worry ! thanks for askin me!
hey
i dont know where egg corns come from!! please tell me
OMG tiff u spell it acorns jus so u kno! Sorry people if you are reading this! this is my physco friend who didnt know where acorns came from lol now she does but this is a joke she is so odd! Well i will tell u the story if u wana kno ..... well me n her wer walkin bac frm the bus stop an we were on my way to my house n she picked up this stick and she said "OMG THIS BRANCH HAS ACORNS ON IT!!!!" and i was lik "yea tha is were acorns come from, branches" and then she was like "oh i thought that they came from leaves, wait leaves are on trees, and branches are on trees!!!" and i just lost it i didnt kno she was that stupid! but she is my best frnd and the best vija in the world if ur wondering what that is i will tell you that later lol i lov u tiffy!
I'm an only child. Through my childhood, I spend a lot of time at home. I didn't have THAT many friends at school, and I didn't have any friends in the neighborhood, so I was at home a lot, and I spent a lot of time being with my parents. When dad was at work and mom had to go somewhere, I would go. When I was a little girl, I spend SO much time with my mom. And my dad. My friends and other family members would say that I went everywhere my mom went. By 7th grade, I started to get a little...crazy. I got very moody around them, and every little thing they did would bug me. I felt like I needed to get out of the house and get away from them. I got to the point where I would go to my room and cry because they bugged me so much. They weren't abusive, they weren't mean, and they gave me everything I needed and more. But just having them around and nagging bugged me. I disliked them so much. But I didn't tell them, because I had no reason to. They just thought I had developed an attitude. Now, I'm in the middle of high school, and my mom has threatened to leave before because I treat her mean and I get mad at her all the time. And I really shouldn't, I know that. She's a great mom. But now, its like she's always nagging at every little thing and calls me like every 5 minutes (not to 'check up' but she has to have me do something for her, or she has to tell me something that I already know). She doesn't understand anything. And she's nosey. God, I just don't know what to do. I do have an attitude towards my parents, they've given me everything I needed, etc. I just spend way too much time around them. I even told that to my mom one time, and she was crying and yelling at me, saying "Well then from now on, I don't even want to talk to you! You're always so mean to me! From now on, you find your own rides and I just won't have nothing to do with you!" When she told me that I started crying too. I don't totally want her out of my life...I'm so confused. What am I supposed to do?
omg i understand you so much my mom does the exact same thing and im in the exact same position,my mom wants to move away. And she keeps threating me to. I dunno if i should go with her or not n she nags all the time to and my dad jus doesnt understand anything. my parents are divorced. And now my dad is having a baby with my step mom and i dont want to stay with him if my mom moves. But i think it is just being a teenager that your growing and you want your own privacy. Your mom is gona get mad because she is looseing her little girl. You guys got really close. And she doesnt want you to grow up and just leave her. She doesnt understand everything your going through but you should try to understand how she feels. I hope this helped
Hey lor i hav this b/f that like wants to do alot of stuff that i dont think that i should be doing at my age. and he keeps pressureing me to do it and i kno if i dont do tha stuf he will tell every1 that i am prude and that i dont do ne thing wit any one can u please help i really need it!!
thanks
hey! well i hope you know that having a relationship with someone is more than doing things like that. But if you really like him and you think that he cares about you then i really dont think that he does if he is pressureing you like this. If he really did care he wouldnt care if you did any of those things with him. And if goes around tellin people that you dont do anything and then they dont like you for that then i dont really think that you want them to be your friends anyway and atleast who sticks around you know that you can trust them. Dont let him pressure you into anything that you DONT WANA DO! and if he truely does care about you he wouldnt be telling everyone that you are prude or be pressureing you like this. i think that you need to think about it if you really want a boyfriend like that. Hope this helped atleast a little ! thanks for askin