Hey my Katie!
I'm thirteen years ld in live in none other than FLORiDA!
I'm a really cool person. I get along with almost anyone who talks to me wihtout an attitude.
My history with boys is like way BAD.
One gjy used me to get closer to my best friend.
Three guys cheated on me.
And another asked out another girl wile we were still dating.
etc.
SO love life wowzers!! lol well there is
this guy his name is Tanner and
i absolutly "LOVE" him!! MUAH TANNER!
lol he is soo awsome and i love being around
him, he makes me laugh and smile
even when i should be in tears! he is
defantly the guy i have been searchng for!
love ya babe!
moving on
I love giving advice.
and its something I'm pretty good at.
Give me a question!
And guys I'm looking for the right one. Prove to me theyre not all the same. ((stupid and rude))
E-mail: Shortbutsweet702@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida BABY!
Age: 13
AIM: shortbutsweet702
Member Since: December 20, 2006
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okay so me and my best friend are still really close but she has become friends with a different friend group and i would really much so want to be friends with them. i guess you could say they were the "punk/emo" kids. i talk to a few but whenever i'm around them when i'm with my bf i don't really talk. i get like shy and block myself out. i feel like anti social. what do i say to them to start like becoming friends. i've never really had to try to become friends with anyone like this. it just kind of happened for me. help. (link)
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Making new friends is never easy, but always rewarding.
Just start talking about what kind of music they like, what are their hobies. you know try to find something that you guys have in common.
Once you guys find you have something in common, things will get way easier.
Make plans to hang out at the movies and go shopping, Dont be shy, when youre shy you might as well be "anti social". Just be your self and have a good time.
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Ok so I've know this girl forever it feels like. Shes is soooo my best friend. I mean lately we've been getting in a LOT of personal fights. I think that it has something to do with how much time she has been spending with her sister. ((step sister)). . .
Her sister isnt a good influence. Together they have been completely inseperable. But I mean her sister is like three years older than her. And her sister HATES me; for no reason; she doesnt even know me.
I mean with out her sister around Megan and I are like the BEST of friends.
What do I do?
Signed,
Confused && Broken! (link)
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Woah its so ME! HEL ME GUYSES THIS IS MY QUESTION I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!
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I've already asked a similar question to this one before, and recieved an answer. Just incase you haven't seen my previous question, here's my problem:There's this boy at my school who's always flirting with me and touching me affectionately. The problem is he has a girlfriend, yet he keeps flirting with me as if he doesn't. I really don't have time to be getting into any fights this year, so i try to show him that i'm not interested through body language. I know I should just tell him straight up that i don't want him, but i still kinda do. I just don't want to show him my feelings so he'll leave me alone and I won't have to deal with his girlfriend.(even though i would kick her ass!) Like i said before in my previous question, it's getting REALLY hard not to let him know that I like him, so PLEASE HELP!!!
*Angel*
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Sometimes this is the harder thing to do. Admitting you dont like someone can be tough but admitting you lied about liking is even worse ((in other words its best to get it done with now))
An easy way to show youre not interested is just by writing a simple note. Tell him that ght no is not a good time for you and besides he has a girlfriend who loves him.
If this doesnt waork sometimes the only way out of it is by going straight to the girlfriend.
Just tell her straight up what is happening. It is best for her to hear it from you than anyone else. ((make sure she understands that he is making all the moves and it is not you))
This convo should be made FACE to FACE! and no other way.
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I have "aquaintences" in my town. i've never acutally had a "main group" or real friend. i've never had someone say "aww,,i love you ______!!" in a friend way. and it makes me really sad. because i want to be close with people but i just feel like they dont like me. and i dont know how to open up or be friendly or start convos. how do i do that stuff? im not in the "loop" or anything. and this girl that i dont really like hangs around me ALLLL the time and i think that makes people not like me. i really dont want to be rude to her but seriously i dont like it at all. how can i find friends that care about me? any help, tips? (link)
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Finding "true" friends these days is very hard. But easy at the same time.
First thing to do is to find someone in your town; close by,that has the same interests as you.
((its hard to be friends with someone who you have nothing in common with))
Next is to just hang out, go shopping, or maybe even do lunch.
The last thing to do is to aask them for advice about a serious life problem that you are curently expeirencing.
Although it may be hard at first it is a releaf when you finnaly get everything out on the table.
I understand that you may think that "no one" likes you, but it probably because you dont let pople in.
Which is totally understandable. But remember you only get to live life once, so live it to the fullest.
hope i was a help!
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so i like this guy i hardly know him but we've flirted online and he seems pretty interested and i am too. but the thing is i know it wont go anywhere. he drinks and smokes and does weed. i have never drank or done drugs or anything i am a goody goody but i still like to have fun! if this had happened a while ago i would be like ew no way but for some reason this guy has me interested in him. should i start backing away? i realy dont want to. could it work out even if he does drugs and im a good girl (link)
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You see this is defantly a difficult question to answer but its so obvious.
Even though you may have feeling for him you still have to keep in mind your own life. Is this guy actually worth your life?
I mean there are plenty of guys out there that would make great boyfriends, and arent interested in doing illegal drugs.
I know people who have done drug and even sold them. I support them in rehab, and I think that this is a great chance for you to help this guy.
If you honestly think youre ready for a rollercoaster chance then GO FOR IT! But if you think youre still into being this "good goody" then I say sit back and be "friends". . . . .
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how can i tell whether or not my bf is using me, or if all the kissing & stuff is out of affection? weve been together 5 months, and the farthest its gone is like fingerin n stuff, and thats the most experience for either of his... but still.. i mean maybe im just afraid of being used? he doesnt pressure me into anything...
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The truth is that there is no way to absolutly tell what your "BF" is thnking. Most of the time if you question his affection than it isnt true.
I dont know what else to tell you.
On the other hand though, there are times that girls just get a little confused and stressed. Stress can honestly make you start wondering what is happenin in yor life. I mean I say if you "love" him then try your best to make the relationship work. Every minute counts, every word makes a difference, and every kiss means the world. Always remember that.
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I do not know what to do about mixed signals. all i want to know is how the guy feels because he likes this other girl but throughout this year it feels like we have something but its like you dont talk about it. But he still likes that girl. One week he flirts with me alot we make eyecontact and he just comes up to me,eats lunch with me, calls me,etc. But then the next week he will just drag me along.lets just say its very dramay! How do i know wat do because i feel like i just want to know without just staright up asking him. If he has no intentions of anything then i will try to move on but i just want to know!and do u think that what he is doing is deliberate because of the drama and the "history" or is it in my head? (link)
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Ok I'll be honest. It is never easy to tell if a guy likes you. Guys are just geneticly less emotional. But thats beside the fact.
((Anyways)) You just have to trust your insticts. Let it all out.
Tell him things that you tell only your most trusted friends. you have to show him you trust him. Eventually he will trust you too.
But to make sure he likes you dont ask him face to face ((that always ends in an ocward scilence)). It is best to ask him through email or even AIM or MSN or YIM. All those are good choices. My fav. is the IMing because he can respond right then. The next day just go on like you usually do.
You have to ut your whole heart into it. Live your life the way you want. Only you can change whats going to happen. Take a chance and try your best. In the end if things dont work out then it was worth the wrld to knwo the truth.
Hope It Works Out!
~KaTiE~
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Alright well me and this girl were in a relashionship for about a year and a half.we were great together,well a few months ago she left me for this guy i hated to begin with and omg he treated her like shit.well lately ive bearaly been able to get over her and try to move on well i found this girl i absolutely adore.well guess what i find out,the girl he broke up with to be with my ex is this girl and shes not over him and to tell you the truth i dunno if im fully over my ex.shes sooo great though and sweet to me,and we have soo much in common.she knows the way i feel about her,im soo confused though,what should i do,i really want to be with her.and let me restate...i hate him lol.
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In my opinion you should take a shot with the new girl. It seems like you guys would have a greatt ime together. If the other girl left you for another girl after almost a year then she isnt worth it. No girl who is willing to just give up after that long is worth the time of day.
You might not be completely over your ex now but eventualy after spending time with the other girl you will slowly but surely get over your ex.
Its not easy ((BELIEVE ME)) But eventually things will get better.
You just have to give it a try. . . .
Hope It works Out
~KaTiE~
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