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Hey! My name is Kathleen. I am overrall a spontanious person. I love to talk, an all my life my friends and family come up to me an ask random things about how they can make there life better. So I feel that it is only right for me to help others to. Only if you all choose to except me. I am willing to talk about anything. I mean it, I am honest. I wont tell you a lie, I feel as you should all know the truth. I hope everyone decides to welcome me in. Thanks!
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My dad is an obstatrician/gynacologist. Part of his job therefore requires him to be on call somtimes to deliver babies. This I am use to, usually he's on call once a week & some weekends. However, in the past year 3 people have left his practice, so there are only 2 left. Now he is on call every other night & I htink it is tearing my family apart. My mom has seemed miserable lately - she's always crying because my dad is never home. My sister & I really wish my dad would be home more often too. I know there are other families where parents aren't home all the time, but it just seems like it is making everybody miserable. We keep telling my dad to find new people for his practice, but nobody wants to come & practice in CT, because it is too expensive. And my dad is not very proactive at all...he seems to want to take each day as it comes but we all want him to be more active in finding a new partner. I don't know how to handle this, I am only 16. I want my dad to be more active in fixing this problem but he just will not listen to any of us. This situation does not look good with everybody always so miserable. Being just a teenager, is there anything I can do? It hurts me so much too, to watch my mom cry & my dad never be home. (link)
The only thing you can do is try to talk to him.


I know it sounds weird but I am extremely uncomfortable with my forehead. My hairline is pretty far back and my head is just big. I always try covering it with bangs but they get greasy a lot and end up looking bad. I have a smaller body too, and it's probably bigger than most guys and girls. Is there anything I can do? Sometimes I just get really depressed about it. :/
Thanks I'll rate. (link)
Try wearing your hair different ways.


i have had sex several times and it seems to be getting worse. i can not enjoy it like the first 5 minutes is great but then after that im just waiting for it to end. the only time its fun is when were outside. so how can i keep interested? (link)
Try different positions


Lately I've had a lot of stuff going on in my life with family, school, and other stresses. I've never felt so low in all my life. And still I have a wonderful boyfriend who's been supporting me through all of it. I used to have some pretty bad depression and I would get suicidal thoughts, sometimes come close to attempting it. Then, for years, it's gone away. But now, I don't know. I've never felt so strongly like I don't want to live. I don't want to commit suicide and I'm not going to, but I just don't want to go through life anymore. I don't know if I should tell my boyfriend this on top of everything else that he's supporting me with. I don't want to worry him, and I don't want him to freak out or get anyone else involved without my knowledge. (Like school counselors -- maybe regular counselors, but I can't stand the school ones.) Does anyone have any advice on whether I should tell him or not? Thanks in advance. (link)
You should tell him, only if you trust him enough. An tell him you don't want anyone else involve make sure you clear on that part. An if he cares about you enough he will keep it to himself.


How can you tell when a younger guy you work with likes you? Just some signs you think are really obvious that he would like me, would be helpful thanks. (link)
-Catch him staring at you
-Play flirting
-Always hanging around you


what kind of motivation can help me loose weight??? (link)
Yoga, it's awesome. Really it is!! lol It's fun


Hey everyone! I am running for student body office at my school in Washington....and I need some really good ideas for posters that I can hang up telling people to vote for me. I really need help! I need to make them by Monday, but I want to start tonight and I have absolutely NO IDEA what I am doing. Thanx a bunch- *I rate 5's* (link)
Well find something that a majority of your school likes, it doesn't have to be exspencive just something cool. Make your posters bright,

say something like " Vote for me (Your name) I will make things right" Something catchy


My Junior Prom is coming up in June. And I really want to look nice. So I want to know if any of you know any stores or websites that sales nice dresses. Even pictures of specific dresses would be nice. But I want to make sure it is a dress instead of a gawn. My price range is anywhere from $40-$60.

thanks in advance
I WILL RATE! (link)
Here try this,

http://alldresses.com/store/category.cgi?category=0&source=SearchNetwork2cheappromdresses&kw=cheap%20prom%20dresses?trkroi_campaign=43F8A291-C0D6-4087-12EB-B6C0C398252F


Ineed money for my turtles supplies but I don't know how to get it. Allowence isn't an option anymore,neither are lownes. I need something genius that will help me earn enough to buy a special lamp for it. help me. I;m a girl in need. (bubba doesn't mean you're a girl). (link)
Get a job, a local store, babysitting, something easy.


Hey my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old girl and iam babysitting this child who's autistic and he left the house today without telling me what should I do if he does it again? (link)
Trying punishing how his parents do, or tell his parents and see what they say when he acts out.


My boyfriend and I are getting releeee close and like I wanna kiss him. But like, were never really alone, were always with friends. But I don't wanna plan it out, but like how do I just move in to kiss him and make it romantic. It'll be my first but it won't be his, so I'm nervous. Help!!!
Lovies x3 -Jamie (link)
Well when it's quite, just be like wanna go for a walk. An just talk, an maybe sit somewhere then just go in close look into his eyes and just kiss him.


shew.. I've been really depressed lately.. I just feel like crying.. and i don't even know why how could i get un depressed? (link)
Try doing some of the things that really enjoy you, Hang out with your friends. Go shopping, do the things that make you happy.


im a girl freshman and i like this junior. he doesnt know i like him but his friends do. im embarrased to tell him i have a crush so how can i tell him without embarrasment and how do i tell if he feels the same? (link)
You could always write him a letter, an try hanging out with him. See if he flirts, or keep looking out to see if you catch his eye often.


Are there any foods or anything that i can do to make my teeth whiter? ((i already brush and use listerine))

and are there any foods and/or exercises i can do to make my breasts larger? thanks! (link)
You could use the crest strips


okay well i used to use quick time player to put all my music on my ipod (i use limewire). well quick time player got a new version (and my comp was stupid and updated) and so now i no longer know how to do it because the new version has all video stuff! i cant find the old version anywhere!


how can i get music on my ipod but still use limewire! (link)
Try this site:
http://www.faqfarm.com/Q/How_do_you_download_songs_from_LimeWire_to_an_iPod

It has all the information


can any one tell me if there is a modelling agency in egypt or the middle east
i m looking forward for being a model

thanks a lot (link)
Check this site out.

http://www.fashiongates.com/


14/m

ok last month after a 4 month relationship i accused my gf of cheating ... idk sum random girl popped up on aim and told me this and i was the dumbass who believed her. n e ways we kinda stopped talking for a while and i really want her back, i've liked her sooo long i cant even imagine NOT liking her, shes the only gf i've had and im the only bf she's had. and i really want her trust back.

and i dont want the "just start randomly talking to her" thing i want honest answers that require thought, also i would prefer girls answer this question (link)
You should invite her over, sit down. Ask her yourself what happen. An tell her that your sorry for accusing her for something that you weren't 100% sure of. Get the whole story, an just tell her that you want her trust back and want to be with her and make sure you support things an her, with comments


Hello. I am just your average christian that is trying to get out of "wordly" music into something more inspartional. My favorites right now are Casting Crowns, Tim Hughes, Chris Tomlin, and Building 429. Any others would be great. I rate and give feedback :D (link)
White Angels, are good.


How can I get that " beachy hair " look. I bought the Garnier Fructis Surf Wax gel stuff today, but I would like some tips on how to really get that beachy look. Thanks guys :) (link)
Grow your hair out a little, an die it blonde maybe? If your not already


well heres the deal i like this dude (im 14/f) hes 15 i think idk... we flirt and he seems to like me but its not moving fast enough... what are some ways like subtle things i could say to get him to think that i like him ? i want it to be very clear... but not desperate

i just broke up with my bf of 10 months not too long ago if thats any assistance (link)
You could just tell him that you like him, or ask him if he likes you?




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