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Hey.. ok I got a lil problem! See.. there's this guy & I really like him but he's already told me that he dont want a g/f right now. Ok.. I was cool with that.. then 1 day he asks me if i would fuck him. I'm like huh? (I'm 14 btw.. he's 16) He's like let's fuck.. ok well I was like umm.. I dont really wanna do that right now but I was really flirty with it like I was playing hard 2 get.. which I kinda was but see.. now EVERYBODY knows that we might do something & he keeps bugging me about it but I still kinda like him.. what should I do? (link)
that's not a good idea... I mean if he hasn't shown any signs of affection and then all of a sudden asks you to have sex, there's something fishy there! It leads me to think that he's doing is as a sick joke or something. I don't think you should do anything with him. You can find someone better, trust me. LUCK


Ok, well, i'm planning to pierce my belly button next weekend by myself. Wut would be the best way to clean it, and which would be the best way to pierce it? (a needle or a belly button ring)

thank you so much-
roxy (link)
Well... I dont think you should be attempting to do it yourself. My mom's a nurse and has had many cases of people getting really nasty infections from doing it themselves... BUT if you must use alot of alcohol, and clean the needle you're piercing it with. A needle is definitely better than a belly button ring because you won't have to try as hard to get it in, reducing irritation. LUCK


ok there is this boy that i really like and he gave me my first kiss.And when-ever he was in trouble i was there to help him. Also his dad hit him alot and one day he and his dad were fighting real bad. Then his mom and his dad left. so he called around looking for me. i know this because all my friends started calling to to tell me that he is looking for me.we finally got to talk he asked me to come over asap. so i dropped everything and went to his house. i thought it was an emergency so i ran. it usually takes me 25min to get to his house but this time it took me only 15.min. but i got there he answered the door(he had a big mark on his face)(from his dad) and looked at me i helded his face and asked him what happened and he told me.i gave him a really big hug and i kissed his bruse.But my question is now he wont talk to me. But he tells all my friends that im the ONE for him but he continues not to talk to me and he ALSO has a girlfriend Please help me...... i beg you.... thank you!!!!
Ohhhh by the way not only does he tell my friends that im the ONE for him he brages that im a great kisser!please help me!i rate high....(16-FEMALE) (link)
it sounds like he is very shy around you. but also, he seems very anxious to spend time with you! First I think he should turn his dad in to the police, but that's beside the point. Maybe he wants you more than his current girlfriend and doesn't know what to do! I say give him a chance, maybe flirt a little bit, see what comes out of it! LUCK


ive had a shag b4 and everyone said it wuz sexy then my mom made me cut it and i got pissed should i try to grow it again??? (link)
do what you want! If you want my opinion, I think short hair on guys is sexier than long hair.


Well here's the thing, my best friend(23) has just recently gotten engaged. She has asked me(19) to be her maid of honor and I have said yes. But come to find out she has been lying to this guy(20) the whole time they've been together. I didn't realize what she's been doing until all of us started to hang out with each other. He's really nice and really loves her. But I don't believe she feels the same about him. She is what you would call a user. If you have something that she could benefit from she attaches to you and try's to get you for all you have. She has cancer and is getting a divorce from her present husband now, there goes her medical, this new guy is in the airforce and is form a family with money, (lots of benefits and can take care of her). My question is, should I tell him about all of her lies, cheating and sneaky ways or just leave the whole thing alone and let him find out for himself. (link)
i would have a heart to heart talk with your best friend. She needs to know that what she's doing is wrong! Not to mention all of the hearts she could break (and maybe already has). Hopefully you can talk her into apologizing to her fianse and never doing this again! LUCK


i've been on the pill for about 2 weeks now and i was told not to have unprotected sex until i was on the pill for about a month or so. well last night me and my boyfriend were having sex and 2 condoms broke...we were so caught up in the moment that we decided to keep going and he was gonna pull out. well he did and when i looked down it took a couple seconds for him to "go" i'm pretty sure we're safe but what do you think? (link)
well first of all, even though you're on the pill you should wear protection to protect against STD's. As far as getting pregnant, you should be ok, but I'd keep an eye out just in case. Maybe your boyfriend shouldn't put the condom on so tight to avoid breakage. LUCK!


hey! i was wondering if you knew any good singers... all of my friends like rock and punk, and im just not into that kind of stuff! im into oldies! good 'ol fashioned rhythm and blues hehe (link)
BOY have you come to the right person... i LOVE oldies, and im in the exact same situation! Im into james taylor, rod stewart, elton john, eric clapton, i can also reccomend alot of good websites that have TONS of songs available for realone player (make a great playlist!)


Does anyone know of a good eyeliner that stays on all day and doesnt smear?!?! I can't seem to find a good one!! (link)
hey! I use liquid eyeliner, and it works WONDERS. i know, at first i was scared to death of it! I was afriad i'd look like a slut or something, but if you apply it with a steady hand, it looks awesome. And if you mess up, use a Q-tip dipped in water to fix it! or you can use it to thin the lines if you made them too thick.


Ok, listen I am REALLY REALLY MAD. Two of best friends got on and asked me all sorts of really really stupid questions. Now, I (out of the kindness of my heart) answerd these questions for the pathetic souls I believed were writing them. Now this is were it get REALLY bad. They got on here and rated everyone of those questions "1" RUINING the once high rating I had. I am SUPER DOOPER mad, but I still love them anyway. What would you do?

Signed,
Ann and Davina (link)
i would STOP SENDING ME MESSAGES


we love you brie... don't kill us... *cheesy smile*

gtg for now...
~vina~ (link)
IT WAS YOU!!!!!! that was MEAN!


my best friend sucks at trumpet... how do i tell her (link)
steal her mouthpiece


Should I get a pink mustang or a lemony yellow one? (link)
if ur gay, pink.


i want to have sex with my cousin, cause he's really hott, but i don't know if i should, what would you do? (link)
move to virginia


I ate like 5 big bags of the peanut M&M's yesterday. Will the peanuts make that more healthy? (link)
nope


i lost the ball game from everyone last night... i'm such a dumbass please encourage me (link)
... be happy


Are there healthy stuff in gum? (link)
it burns calories


Is asprin really bad for you? Or can I take it? (link)
its bad in excess amounts


my sister's a psycho, she sees yellow ponies, sometimes i see pink ones, but that's beside the point... what color ponies do you see? (link)
blue


I don't water my plants that much. Do you think they might die? (link)
well yes, if you read the tiny print on the tags it actually DOES say to use water! i mean i would've NEVER guessed!!!


i hate my kids... they get on my nerves. No matter what i say or do, they do whatever they can to spite me. what should i do? (link)
my little brother's like that... i just ignore him and he goes away




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