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I asked my guy friend to buy me a candy bar and he says " oh, ill buy you a candy bar alright" and smirked at me..... (link)
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he was probably just being a dude
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I am about to get a new phone for my birthday and I can't decide what I want. I either want an Iphone 6 or a Samsung Galaxy S7. What should I get? (link)
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I personally think you should get the iphone 6. Now am a iphone user, and i think that i phones have good quality camera, storage, and all that good stuff. but then again i dont use a samsung galaxy S7, so i wouldn't know
BUt something you can do is to look at the pros and cons of getting each. You can ask around your school and take tallies how many people said one thing and how many people said the other.
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I want to love from where we get it ? (link)
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There is no specific place to find love. Ecspecially at a young age. Love is something that finds you. You have sit down and be patent, because the more you go running looking for love, the farther and farther away you get. Trust me, you know that you found love when in the middle of a conversation, all you can think about is how much you TRULY love the other person. It's okay to stay single for a while. You don't have to jump from guy to guy to guy, trying to find your one true love. My mom is 35 and she just got married. And the man she is married to couldn't be any better. They have been through 10 years together. And they difenatley had their ups and downs. but they never fell out of love. Don't go looking for a fairtale / movie love. Those aren't really reality. Trust me when God wants you too, he will send your true love right too you
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Hi, I am 12 years old female, 3 guys asked me out and I don't know what to do, I'm to nervous to say yes to one of them and to say no, I don't want to hurt their feelings and I don't think I'm ready to go out on dates, although that's what I've been wanting for a long time...
What should I do?? (link)
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like adviceman49 said, Your parents probably wouldn't want you dating. You could simply just tell the guys that you don't know if your comfortable dating at this time. that is the best answer to give, so you know that none of the guys feelings will be too hurt. And the school year is almost over, so if you turn 13 in the summer maybe your parents will be a little lineant and let you find someone
but i am also going to say that it is okay for you to ask your parents for advice. They might just be like- NO your too young- but they also might give u advice that you need. And Also i agree that 12 is A young age to date but it might be okay to start dating around 14. because thats when most people are in high school. And old enough to know the difference between right and wrong. I am only 15 years old so i am not going to comepletly agree with the advice that adviceman49 gave but i am also not going to tell you that it is okay to date at your age
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Hi, how do you know if your good friend likes you or interested in you but also he's flirty and teasing frequently however can be moody as well. I reckon he likes me but then he does this harmless jokes with others too so it's hard to know whether he's flirting or joking. All answers are appreciated. Thank you all. (link)
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OK if you really want to know the answer then you have to ask, and there are ways you can do this without being serious or making things awkward. First you can just joke a around and be like- out of our group of friends, who would u kiss. and if he ask who you would kiss be like- um maybe blah blah and blah blah, OH and i might kiss you, if you're lucky. Then he knows that you're joking with him but your not. And if he is also flirty and joking with Other girls, you can put him to a test, you can start asking him if he likes girls later that day after you see him flirting with him, but DO NOT ask sounding clingy. And you can also try to change your aperance al little bit. If you wear sweatshirts alot then maybe its time to try a dress or 2. And lastly its okay to enjoy the friendship, don't obsess over him. Ecspecially if you want to remain friends. because a lot of friends have gotten into relationships, but if they broke up, the friendship would be ruined. i am not saying this will happen to u, but just enjoy the friendship and relax.
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im 15 girl and this guy had sex w me but it barely anything like 2min cuz it hurt bad and the dick was keep coming out but he was wearing a condom and it didnt break,do u think i am fine?like not pregnant? (link)
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Obviously you know that it wasn't a smart idea for you to even to start having sex with this guy. 15 is a very young age to be having sex. And you also want to loose your virginity ti someone you truly love. SO if his semen didn't get into the condom as it was in you then there is 0% chance that you are pregnant. But if he did cum, in the condom there IS a 85% chance that you are pregnant. Here is some girl to girl advice. If it comes out that your worried about nothing, then you know not to take that chance again. If that advice didn't help, then here are some things you need to look out for.... If you miss 1-2 periods then immedietely go see a doctor. And another thing, talk to someone you trust, someone close to you. ( and i am talking about an adult that is close to you.) I hope you took this advice well
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Can someone help me to stop being treated and thought of as one of the guys by my guy friends and by the guy I'm crushing on and I've already tried changing my appearance many of times. (link)
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my guess is that you either have a lot of boy siblings, so you're used to being around them, or you just like being around guys. But having a guy, especially your crush say you are like their little sister sucks.so i am going to give you tips to help you kinda get put out of that name-"one of the guys"
Tip #1 = work on your scent.As ridiculous as it may sound, boys like a girls that smell good. This doesn't mean lather yourself up in the strongest perfume, but it means that if you've been supporting your body's own musk, it would be nice to spray a couple of spritz of a nice perfume
Tip #2 = Change your look. So as an empowering woman, no woman should have to change their look to please a man, but if it is to your crush its okay to go from boot-cut jeans, to some skinny jeans and a blouse or even some dresses
Tip #3 = DONT WEAR A LOT OF MAKEUP. contrary to natural belief, there are very few guys that enjoy a woman with a freaking face of makeup on. Now im not saying that it's not okay to put on a little mascara and eyeliner here and there, but you don't need to do a full blown makeup session every morning either.
Tip #4 = Forgo the farting and belching. If your one of those girls that has had farting and belching contest, STOP IT RIGHT NOW. because that will push you further into the "one of the guys" name.
Tip #5 = Entice him. Okay i don't know how old you are, and if your under the age of 16 don't use this tip. But if you are 16 or older this helps a lot. Make him want you, if there is ever a time when y'all are alone, lightly feel him up and down. give him that sexy vibe without touching his NO NO square. if he's not interested, then you will know that
and some of these tips might not work because crush is too scared to admit that he likes you back because he doesn't want to ruin a good friendship, so if he does that and your really in need of a relationship, find someone else to date. i am also not saying that you should god ate someone just to get over your crush, that's just wrong. I hope my advice helped you
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my 21 year old daughter is in prison for 10 years for killing her friend when she crashed while she was drunk driving. Her friend was in the passenger front seat. She was drinking too so if she had driven it could have been the other way around
We received an visit from her friends parents who are still angry at us and say that a ten year sentence is too light and it should be longer
Obviously, I have no defense for what she did. She did a terrible thing and ruined her life and is paying for it but ten years seems like a lengthy sentence (link)
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Okay so the first thing i am telling you to do is pray. God will surely make a way for you and your family,and he will also help the other family find forgiveness in their heart, so pray it always helps. But that doesn't mean that its going to happen right away either. So pray without seacing. But i am also going to tell you that the parents of the other girl have every right to be upset that they have lost their precious daughter. But they have no right to come to you and tell you that your daughter deserves more than 10 years, because you can't control your daughter's actions because she is a 21 yea old woman. And if the other girl had chosen to take the wheel, it very much well could've been the other way around. So yea i think that at the most i would've given her about 5 years in prison. Don't get upset with my reply because i don't know how it feels to have your daughter be in prison. Remember just pray to God and he will make a way
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15/f
sorry it's kind of long.
lets just put this out here: i consider myself to be 110% straight. i could never even CONSIDER being with another girl.
another thing, i have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. although i've had MANY opportunities to be in a relationship, i've passed them all up. i think i have commitment issues or something, or just a fear of being "trapped" in a relationship.
ONE more thing-i have WAY more guy friends then i do girl friends. I find girls...very annoying and over dramatic, and i try not to get involved in drama. My closest friends are girls, but i get along much better with guys.
anyways, lately, some of my guy friends have jokingly called me prude. they've also told me i was a lesbian. my closest guy friend ASKED in complete seriousness if i was a lesbian (his reason being because i hung out with my best friend alot, who is a girl).
if theres ONE thing i hate, it's being accused of something i'm not. being called a lesbian really makes me upset and angry, and i've made it clear to my buy friends. whenever it comes up, i get quiet or i tell them to knock it off. it's a touchy subject for me.
the other day, i was out to dinner with my mom and my sisters. i told my mom something that was surprising to her, and she says "why don't you just tell me your a lesbian and we'll be all set!" (she said this jokingly) i looked at her and i said "don't joke about that", my natural response. my moms smile fades and she goes "you aren't are you?" and i said "no mom..." and then she was quiet and i started to talk to my sister. when i looked back at her, she was studying me strangely and i asked her what was wrong and she says "you AREN'T, are you?" which made me angry, and i said "MOM, i can't BELIEVE you would even THINK something like that. of COURSE i'm not."
I'm so afraid my mom thinks i actually am a lesbian. because, i mean, it would make sense. never having a boyfriend and all that. my sister TOTALLY didnt help when she said "mom, just because she doesn't have any feelings for guys doesn't make her a lesbian." if there was ever a time i wanted to kill my sister, it would have been then.
It is SO untrue that i don't have feelings for guys. me and my best friend are BOY CRAZY. we think almost every guy we know is either cute or hot. and i have crushes on guys on a regular basis.
it feels like NO ONE (except my best friend) can understand how i feel about all this. it gives me a horrible feeling in the pit of my stomach worrying about why people would have to WONDER if i'm straight or not. i've NEVER done anything to make me seem like a lesbian other than the fact that i've never had a boyfriend (and that's more out of fear than no interest in it).
i just really need to know what to do.
please, DON'T give me the "it's OK to have feelings for girls" talk. because if i saw that i think i might cry in frusturation. i DO NOT have ANY feelings WHATSOEVER for stupid girls. thats why i asked this very long question.
it's not exactly something i can just ignore either. so i don't know if that's a good solution.
please, just reading this whole question and answering it with something would be greatly apreciated. it's a very frusturating and confusing situation and it makes me angry and sad.
thanks so much (link)
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Okay i am a heavily Involved Christian so no one has considered even asking if i was lesbian. So to keep it 110,i'm really not going to give you advice being like.... I know how you feel, because i don'. i am going to give you advice saying i i have close friends that have asked me dumb questions that they know the answer too. So if some of your close friends have asked you if your lesbian, and you have told them constantly that your not and they are still asking, then maybe you need to question how much they really are your friends. Because they should know u well enough to know when you say that your no, then you mean that your not. Maybe try finding more girl friends, so they aren't questioning you so much. With your mom and sister you need to have a serious sit down with them and tell them that you really don't like girls, and that you would apreciate them if they would stop asking. You can also have a sit down with your guy friends and tell them how it makes you feel when they question your sexuality. and you may be thinking, " you don't want to have a talk with them because they wont be serious, or something" but if you are a person who keeps it 110% then you need to keep it 110 with them. Another thing you can also do is if you have a crush on a guy, build up the nerve to ask him out, that will get people off your back. DONT EVER GO OUT WITH A GUY YOU DONT LIKE JUST TO PROVE A POINT. that wont end bad for you or the guy your dating. i hope this long behind paragraph will help u with your problems
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My sweet sixteen is this summer and I don't know what theme I want. I want something big and glamorous, like you see in the shows, but at the same time I know my birthday is in the summer so I want something a little more outdoors. I've never had a beach/ pool party and it sound fun but I feel like it's too casual and I want to dress up. Any advice? (link)
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My sister has had her sweet 16 and wanted similar things to what your asking for. her birthday is in July and she knew the weather would be perfect for an outdoorsy theme but then again she wanted something classy and casual. so what she came up with is a classy yet casual dance glow party. The idea of it was that everyone come in d a nice dress or something of that sort, and inside there would be a little/ no lights on and everyone would be wearing glow in the dark necklaces, glasses etc. Then outside is where the games would be. The games could be regularly played games that would have some glow in the dark things on it. and finally you could have glow in the dark plates, fork, spoons, knives. and you could also have glow in the dark desserts such as cupcakes, cakes and drinks. A few things my sister did that everyone loved was that she had some activites. there was one i remeber, she had a black backdrop, and some glow in the dark accesories, and she used that as a picture booth. and she also had a sign in book where all her guest could sign their name to put some class back into it. they also played some games like how well do u know your partener. and is basically like any marriage game that sees how well you know your husband/wife. Of course this will all have to done at a darker time at night.
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