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Hi ya'll! I LOVE giving advice to people! I mainly focus on sex, which I'm experienced in. (LOL!) I hope you enjoy my answers, I throw some humor in there sometimes!
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ok i think i have a problem, i love sex so much i cant explain and me and my boyfriend only do it like once a week, and when we do he satisfies me alot in everyway but when we're done,10 minutes go by and im ready for another round, he'll give me like two good rounds but i always want more,and he'll be worn out. am i un normal or somethin cause i feel liek i need it all day everyday what is wrong with me.
Most people engage in sex because it's fun. It's nice your boyfriend is satisfying. I'll give you an example of why you have this. My boyfriend and I need to have the entire body before we are satisfied. Maybe the first time he satisfies my vagina by giving me some wonderful oral sex. But maybe that means I didn't get to deep throat his penis. So we go for another round. It's fine! Don't worry. Hope I helped! ~*Jenni*~
Hey guys,
The world has brought together by internet but there are some outstandingly obscene websites and titles which are mentally disturbing. I came across one of the site which shows porn photographs and movies on the sex relationship between Mom-Son, Dad-Daughter. Can it happen? I stronlgy believe that it is highly impossible. The relation between parents and their kids is such a holy and lovely relation, that they can't even imagine such thing about each other. I am really disturbed after accidentally watching that site. Please share your sincere ideas/thoughts/experiences whether this could happen? Thanks.
This is entirely possible. It is more plausible between divorced parents who are single. Perhaps missing the sexual opportunities offered by their mate, they instead form a kind of sexual abuse with their children to satisfy their sexual needs. ~*Jenni*~
im 13 and i want to have sex with my boyfriend of 1yr and i dont no what to do i am goin to have birthcontrol nad condoms but i dont no what to do with him i have tryed masterblating and everything to get ready 4 him but i dont no what to do while im with him!
its my first time and i need help i dont no wut n e thing is so plz explain i may not do sex but some other ways to pleasure me or him!
plz explain ur answers!
thanks
Search the internet. You'll find lots of tips on sex. =) Hope I helped! ~*Jenni*~
im 14 and my b/f's 15. He's a really sweet guy and always tells me that hes going to wait for me for when i want to lose my virginity and hes a virgin too. ive known him like my whole life and he is the sweetest guy ever and he is so nice and would never do anything to hurt anyone. all weve done is make out but everytime i come over or he comes over his older sister and older brother and older cousin will ask what we did and he just says nothing and theyre like well damn have you guys at least made out??? and they tease him sometimes n just be like oo all you guys do is make out??? and all that stuff and so lately i think its been bothering him. i know im young and all but i feel like, "pressured" to have sex with him and like i want to in a way so they stop teasing him, and i also feel that theyre gunna think im some prude kind of person and i dont want them to think that of me, i want them to like me and not talk about us. i dont really know how this is a question but i need some kind of advice, like what i should do and if i should have sex with him or not.
DON'T YOU DARE HAVE SEX JUST SO THEY'LL STOP TEASING YOU!!!!!!!! Sex is a lot of fun and it'll eventually be worth it to lose your virginity, but NEVER give in to peer pressure! Don't have it unless you're SERIOUS! ~*Jenni*~
well me and my boo have been together a year now..and all we do is kiss and makeout but i dont have a problem with that (savin myself 4 marriage)..i was juss wondering anyne have any fun kissin ideas..like if ur bf/gf kissed a certain way that was juss beyond a perfect kiss..i juss wanna spice up our relationship withoutleading to gettin into each others pants!
First off, what's wrong with getting into other's pants? LMAO, though. I respect you don't want sex.
Have you ever Frenched? Or you could play ice cube - you have to hold one ice cube between both your mouths. When it melts, find where you are! Or share a strand of spaghetti and well...be happy.
hey, i have asked like a million people how to make out(on advicenators) and they all have said "it just happens" but i dont konw how to do it. all my friends are starting to do it but im the only one that doesnt know how but im too scared to admitt it..you give great advice PLEASE HELP ME! thanks
First, thanks for the compliment! It's very touching.
Now on to business. Making out is the step right before sex,, so things can get a little nasty. First off, I am going to give advice for a girl, and then a boy.
For a girl: flirtingly and discreetly move your hands to "naughty" places on his body. Grope in his southern area - just explore! You'll be surprised, men have very sexy bodies that are fun to play with. Then, sort of reach down his pants and tickle his penis. This should get him in the mood for what comes next. Then put your arms around his butt or his shoulders or someplace no respectable girl would put her hands (naughty!) Then give him a lusty, passionate kiss. If he's any kind of guy, he wants you to play with him and will totally contribute back.
For a guy: Your girl has breasts, right? When making out, her body is your toy. Reach over and rub her breasts, and tickle her pants while staring her straight in the eye like a hint of what you REALLY want to be touching (her vagina, of course!) Then wrap your arms around her and give her a wild, unresistable kiss. Knowing that sex is the follow-up to this wild love, she will definetly help you on your way.
what is rough sex and how do u have it?
Rough sex is well...rough! Maybe the girl kicks the guy in the penis, which causes an orgasm. Or maybe the guy violently squeezes and touches his chick's breasts. Who knows? It hurts the first time, but after a while it is very, VERY fun and pleasureable. Hope I helped!
What should I do? Me and my best friend let's call him Harry, are no longer friends, because I have a big jealousy issue, I hooked him up with my friend, while liking him. So it bothers me when they are together and I can't stand being around him knowing he's not mine. So I have been mean to him alot, and as a result of that, we no longer friends cause I kinda blew up at him with all my fustration and stuff, cause it was all built up inside... but now I feel bad know that our friendship ended up on bad note, and now I feel like we'll never be friends again. What should I do?
Tell him how you feel about him romanticly concerned and explain why you blew up. He'll understand!
what are the "bases"?...you know like 1st 2nd 3rd 4th, what do they mean.Like when people say "I went to 3rd base with him" or sumthin like that.
1: Kissing, making out
2: Hey, where's your bra and shirt?
3: Ahem...sex
4. Here comes the bride...
okay.. whats the difference in making out.. and french kissing and normal kissing? sorry... but i honestly dont know..
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Normal kissing isn’t that exciting – it’s like the first thing you and your boyfriend do. French kissing is when you feel each other’s mouths while kissing. Making out is the step right before sex, where you’re feeling all over each other, touching breasts and penis’s and kissing really absorbedly .
If your a virgin (( girl )) then how can you get pregnant?
Being a virgin means you haven’t had sex with a guy so no, you can’t get pregnant as a virgin.
- Signed, Jenni. Hope this helps!
Ok I know this may sound wierd and all but the other day I was searching around in my parents room and i found strange things like handcuffs, whips, and wierd looking masks. I remember watching something on television about this sort of thing but im not sure if its really happening with my parents. Can somebody tell me what i should look out for.
Your parents do have sex, you know, that's how they had you. Sex toys like handcuffs are actually fun to experiment with: like, for instance, if the man ties his wife down to the bed it's like she's at his sexual mercy, and vice versa. Your parents are just having sex, that's all.
I asked one of my friends to my homecoming dance and well we had a great time. She was hott and i didnt think we were that close but we were grindin and gettin close and slow songs we were on top of each other. I mean it was slammin'. Now i really like her and i dont know what to do.
-Signed Confused Guy.
Male 14
Talk to your friend about how you feel. How close do you want to get to her? Do you want to achieve sex? Talk about how far this relationship should go. If she's your friend, she'll talk to you, especially if she like's you back! Then again, if you got on top of her and she didn't mind, she probably likes you back.
ok well im really unhappy with my life and ive thought about sucicide but never really wanted to do it because i know that that is just a permanent solution to a temporary problem, but i was wondering if anyone can help me be...happier, or give me some tips
Suicide is against the law. Go talk to a councilor!
what does getting laid mean? what happens?
"Getting laid" actually doesn't JUST mean sex...it means intense sex.
lol, ok, i kno this is dorky and all but, how do u french kiss??? i mean i've always wonder, u kno, like what do u do....lol, i kno, i kno, this is a stupid question
Open your mouth and kind of suck his lips for a bit and then trade tongues...which means lick the inside of each other's mouths. It's very fun and one of the beginner steps to sex.
im a virgin, and i want to know does it HURT alot the first time when u have sex???? how does it feel???
No, it feels like heaven likes you.
hey can i add you too one of my favorite columnist?
Of course! What is your columnist name?
OK well here it goes....I really really wanna have a relationship with a guy....a REAL relationship....But the thing is When it somes to the kissing part....I kinda dont know what to do..... I freeze. How do i deal with this? I am 14 and everybody is like way more experienced than me. I'm afraid. Please can you give me advice! Thanx in advanced!
The different types of kissing:
A peck - this is not sexy at all and is only used if you have to get in and get out (like in the hallway in school)
French Kiss - Tongue action! Stick your tongue in and wiggle it with his
There are more, but to have a real intense smooch, grasp his chin, firmly press your lips against his (but not too hard) and twist your head every second. Make noises like "mmmmm...hmmm...ummmm..." etc.
hey. how long does the pleasure last when ur having sex? i hope it lasts longer then masterbating cuz the pleasure only lasts lyk 15 seconds when i masturbate. i rate high!
It depends. If you and your...b/f or g/f? whatever...are extremely close, it should never stop. If it's not lasting very long, you obviously aren't ready for sex with this person and need to rethink it.