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I come from a small town in New York called Fulton. not many people in our high school maybe 300 something. But I still love it here. I am most like any other 17 year old girl but I am not all that girly, I grew up with all guys except my best friend who I meet when I was 6. I love to dance, I also love the UFC! I am the biggest dork ever and I just dont care beucase I love it! There are very few people in this world that I love with all my heart. I still act like a little kid most of the time. I can't stand people who are fake and who casue drama. I get along with just about everyone and I tell it like it is.

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i am in love with an awesome guy. there's no need for me to really describe him....because this is my question: i'm moving away and will probably never see him again, and i couldn't find him the last few days of school to get his screen name (idk if he even has one) so what should i do?? I won't be moving till august....someone please tell me, cus im so in love with him (we're friends...but i want to be more). Help. =(

well you should ask many of your friends to see if anyone knows his sn or myspace is a great way to find people! if you can get ahold of him just tell him you want to hang out with him before you move away.

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Hey. Well, I'm 13/female. I always fight with my mom. Sometimes, we just get in little fights, but sometimes huge ones.

She always seems to be in a stressed out, angry,bad mood, and she is always snapping at me and making a big deal out of nothing.

It never fails, that every single night we argue. And to me, it always seems like it's her.
It IS her. I wouldn't have an issue if she would just leave me alone, and let me actually have a life.

I'M 13 YEARS OLD, AND SHE STILL FIGHTS WITH ME ABOUT GOING PLACES WITHOUT ADULTS.
She doesn't let me go TO THE CENTER OF TOWN WITH MY FRIENDS, becuase i'm 'too young'. We don't live in a bad area. It's a quiet place, and nothing ever happens here. I've never even gotten into trouble where she can't trust me anymore.

I want to live with my dad, and go to school in his town. He let's me have a life, without doubting me for a second.
I'm not a bad kid, I've never done anything wrong. Well, atleast not like majorly wrong like drugs or fighting or anything. I've told my mom i wanna live with my dad. She doesn't listen, and neither does he.

What can I do?! I can't even deal with this anymore.

I'm home alone for the ENTIRE SUMMER, and she won't let ANYONE come over for even like an hour while she's not here.

IM NOT A BAD KID, SHE HAS NO REASON FOR THIS DISTRUST.
She thinks just becuase I dress semi -"emo" in her oppinion, that i'm some horrible child that can't be trusted. This is SO GAY, what do i do!?

Mothers are always hard to deal with i think its becuase they care to much becase my mom did the same thing and you need to understand you leagel options here you are old enough to move in with your dad and she can not stop you from doing that. so talk with your dad and see if it is cool with him if you can move with him. just try it out for the summer tell your mom you dont like being home alone and that you are staying with your dad. see how it goes its kinda like test driving a car. your mom just doesnt want anything to happen to you i know it sounds so dumb and everything but she does i personly hate it when my mom does the same thing. hoped this helped!

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I have a really bad sore throat. It hurts extremely bad when I swallow and it's hard to bare. It hurts when I talk but it also hurts even when I'm just sitting doing nothing. I had it yesterday, but it wasn't bad. Last night it got really bad and had 2 glasses of hot tea with sugar. That didn't work. This morning I woke up and it was worse. I had a hard candy "cold-eaze" or something of that sort. It just keeps getting worse. For lunch I had pb & j on soft bread with milk. It hurt so bad when I was eating. I'm guessing I shouldn't work out today? I'm trying to schedule a doctors appt. Until then, any ideas? Also, what kind of soup would you recommend for dinner? I dislike chicken noodle and I don't eat a lot of soup. I like tomato, but is there any kinds with veggies or maybe burger? Thanks!

Try going to you local drug store and picking up a thing called formula 44 sore throat spray by vicks its tastes really bad but it helps alot.

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how do i tell my feelings(not romantic) to my guy friend who i have only know this school year
i have been feelingleft out ever since he had a gf(his 1st if that makes a difference) i never had a bf so i wouldnt no how it feels
im afraid that he will think in weird like a sterotypical gurl who always has emotions
we r both 14 in 9th grade

you just have to let it slid kinda just know that right now he is really into his g/f right now. it will be the same when you get a boyfriend but i am sure when they brake up you two will hang out. but if you feel really hurt just be like i miss hanging out with you we gotta do something soon and im sure he will take time out to hang with you.

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what are some things i could do to make my boyfriend feel good?

and also what are some fun ways to kiss?
like ex. with pop rocks or something

If he is chewing gum steal it from him or to make him "feel good" start to feel him up he will love that. Also try when you are kissing him suck on his bottom lip.

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Any tips for studying for the New York State Biology regents? Preferably from people who have taken this test in the past.
Thanks!

I personly just took it last year chill out it is easy, probly one of the easiest ones you will take if your in ny. what helped me was to go online and take pratice tests. Good luck dont stress over it.

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i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years now and i am really in love with him. but the thing is that i got offered a modeling job in california. and i dont know what willhappen to us. he doesnt want me to go but i really want to. i dont want to give it up and i dont know if he is just tesing me or what i dont want to lose him or this oppertunity what should i do he is also going to college on the east coast next year and i will only be a junior

I think you should go beucase you cant miss out on this. This is to big of a opperunity for you. Im sorry, but you may love him but he should see how much you want this and he should let you go no matter what.

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So I am wondering what other people feel like when there in love. I would like to know why they love their boyfriends/husbands. So please help me out here, I feel in love but its hard to descbribe why I love him.

I think that if you arent sure then you dont really love him. you will just know if you love him its one of thoes kind of things. Its that feeling when you cant breath when he is around you and when he isnt all you do is think about him and you only want to be with him. that you learn every song that he loves by heart just beucase its something he likes. or whenever you kiss him you have thoes butterflies that you still get when it was your first kiss and it never fades, or whenever you see him all you do is want to kiss him. or when he holds you in his arms, its your fav spot in the world. Or the main thing if he hurts you, no matter how hard it is you will forgive him just beucase you dont want him out of your life.

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this weekend i was with my brother and some of his friends and we were all driving around in my new car a 2007 escalade. I was driving adn it was raining and late at night and i have only had my license for about 3 months. we were coming around the corner and hit another car totaling mine and theirs. right away my brother took the blame for it and told me not to worry about it since he has been driving for a few eyars now and wouldnt get in as much trouble as i would. since the other car didnt see i was driving it worked out fine but now i feel awful that he took the blame for this but i know that if i came forward my parents would kill me. what should i do?

Just let it slid and keep it between you and your brother. dont tell them beucase they will proably freak out alot and then freak out at your brother too. so unless you want this big freak out fight thing then i would just keep it on the DL.

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well im a quiet guy. 15/m by the way. and the other day me and a few freinds drank...a lot. and i got pissed, nd i started to pee on one of the streets, and according to somebody, a really popular girl from school saw me, and told her freind "he's(me) disgusting!!" so yeah, should i be freaking? and what do i do if she tells everyone!?

no its normal for girls to say that guys that do something discusting, it doesnt mean anything tho. its just talk really. dont pat attetntion to it just let it slid its not a big deal, seriously i dont know how many of my friends that are guys just randomly piss places. so its all good dont worry about it.

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I have my sats tomorrow and im really nervous as all of my friends are soo itelligent compared to me and always get put in top sets, and then theres me just stuck on my own! Iv been revising so much but its never going to reach there standard im really worried that im going to drift away from them because they are going to all be together discussing things and having fun! I dont no what to do i want to stay with them so much!

Well the SAT's are just a really big test. they dont allow you to talk about them while you are doing the test and your mind will be only on the test and nothing eles. If they have fun with you it wont matter if you are as smart as them or not. Its not big deal just stop worrying about it. Relax and good luck on them tomorrow. I just took mine like two days ago so yeah.

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This year i am in 8th grade and i go to a school that doesn't feed into the high school i am going to. The school i go to is more ghetto and has gangs and bad students, and minority students. I am a black. The high school I am going to is more high class and more white people, I'm scared either 1 everyone will not like me, or 2 everyone will be my friend because i am black, and back stab me behind my back. How can I get over this fear?

There really isnt much you can do to just get over it until you go to high school and just experiance it. I am sure you will be fine. If you are you there will be people who like you no matter what dont try and be something your not just remember that and have funn. no matter where you are high school is the same. Just be yourself and have funnn! Im sure people will like you and you will make true friends that wont stab you in the back.

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i really wanta boyfriend. all my guy friends are like taken. how do i get one?

there is no sure formula to get a boyfriend. You can't force yourself into a realtionship. You have to just wait and when you stop looking then the guy will come it always works like that no clue why just does. But just firlt with a bunch of differnt guys and if one likes you then im sure it will all work out. Good Luck!

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I got my period after like 4 months of not having it ....it was light at first and it just got a little more heavy. My first question is how long can i leave a tampon in and Should i be worried about it dripping into the ocean and attracting sharks. And should i be worried about tss or what ever??? Thanks!!

you cant leave it in for more then six hours. I dont know about the sharks tho sorry about that. But i know it wont drip in the water. if you leave it in for a really long time then you have to worry about the tss becuase it is vary rare

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there's this guy that i would love to date, and i'm pretty sure he'd love to date me too, there's just one problem--he has really bad acne. acne totally grosses me out, and i wouldn't want to be close to him or anything because of it. what would be a nice way of telling him to wash his face or use proactive every once and a while?

There really isnt a nice way to say it, i think you just shouldnt date him then beucase then your whole heart wouldnt be in it. Its just fair to him or you.

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ok im a 16/f im struggling with school.. i bring home an f like everday... and also i still like my xboyfriend and he was my first b/f we made up and everything but we don't talk much.. and i feel like my whole world is faling apart and i feel depressed all the time... help what should i do?

you just have to take it day by day dont worry about guys right now stay away in other wards stay focus on your schooling and that will get you mind somewhat off of guys and get grades up try staying after with your teachers and if you have any studyhalls go and get some help.

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Yesterday i went to a party and i met a girl ahe gave me her number but the problem is i dont know how to talk to a girl over the phone please someone help me?

ok well its really easy just say hi and keep it simple but whatever you dont just have that silince there i personly hate that. Just talk to her like you would any other friend just dont say anything gross until you get to her know more. I hope that helps.

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i want to start using make-up.
well, more make-up, 'cause i already use black eyeliner to line the bottom of my eye.
you can see what i look like here: http://www.myspace.com/dixiencoco
[feel free to add me if you have one yourself]
anyway, in some of those pictures i'm wearing eyeliner, and in others i'm not.
[mostly the older/first ones have me make-up free]
i do have glasses and i'd like to [for now] stay away from things that would make my nose or wear my glasses sit oily, because its hot in florida at school and i tend to sweat a bit making my glasses slide down a bit much.
and um, anything else i'll add later.
'kaythanks.

There isnt much you need to do i dont think but if you really want to try a little eyeliner on the top of your eye too (keep the lower one too) like you have on the bottom just on your upper lid and you would look amazing with switching your liner colors to like purple or blue, you can also try a little masscara but dont use to much just dap it on your upper lashes you dont need a lot of make up.

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What are some songs about these topics

*Getting a new boyfrined
*Falling In love
*First Kiss


Yes, and just bascily being in love and everytihng. Recent, songs please? Not like, Oldies, Haha. Thanks!

International Five-first kiss
Def leppard-four letter word
Mandy more- its gunna be love
Stefy-Love you to death
Stefy-fool for love
christina aguilera- aint no other man



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Ok well i have never really had a boyfriend well one but he doesnt really count because i moved like less then 3 days after we started going out anoywho i get really nervous around guys like i cant even really talk to them if it has anything to do with how i feel or something like i cant ask them out or tell them i like them and even if i did have a friend tell them and they like me i wouldnt be able to talk much i would be soooooooo nervous i wouldnt no what to say or how to say it or anything and i know that if you ask someone out and they say yes that they wouldnt have said yes unless they wanted to go but i would always get the feeling they like someone else or think all negative and what not how do i stop this and how can i be more comfortable talking to guys i like

It seems to me that you have confidence issues and you need to work on that mostly. Stop thinking the negative thoughts! I think yu need to learn how to talk to talk to guys guys are into girls that dont show that they are nervouse to talk to them. just talk to them like you do your friends and show them how amazing you are. Just remember you are beautiful and amazing!

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