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I am a good advice giver and i love helping people out and i give good opinions about things so throw them at me! Also I love the color pink. I am a runner cuz im in track im in 8th grade supposed to be in 9th (my b-day) I am single right now but there might be sumin special in the future!;) I am a very happy hyper person and I love talkin on the phone!
Gender: Female
Location: Miami
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
AIM: nicaprincez13
Member Since: July 19, 2004
Answers: 23
Last Update: July 30, 2004
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I waz talkin on da phone with him...& i wuz about to he off....& he said ok iloveyou i paused 4 a min. & i didn`t want to hurt him so i said it back...but i totally didn`t mean it....i take iloveyou very serious!thats not the first time he has said that wut should i do?
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I think you should be honest. Why lie because when they find out u didnt mean it itll just be worse. Tell him how you feel

ex. "That day you said u loved me and i said it back but i dont think its fair to you that i lie maybe we should be more careful and actually mean what we say but ..."

so just try really hard to explain if he gets mad then he need some time. He might get over it and if he dosent then you should explain what those 3 words mean to you.

-Jacky


im 13 years old and ever sence i was little ive known i was a lesbian. my parents would kill me if they found out they think its descusting even the thought and they dont know at all. but i really like this girl and i want to just run away with her and not worry what everyone keeps saying and comenting. is it so wrong to love someone so much but not be able to express it cuase of being ashamed or scared...it just really sucks! i hate it...what should i do? please HELP! (link)
Well you shouldnt really care whatother people think. This is how you are. As for your parents its time to be honest. You are what you are and they have to live with it because you cant change and shouldnt because you might not fit in or people dont like you. And if anyone judges you by your sexuality then they dont see the real you. Maybe a suport group will help you through this. Good Luck!


-Jacky


nicaprincez13: HELLO
rivergirl736: hi
nicaprincez13: u need help
rivergirl736: yes
rivergirl736: asl
nicaprincez13: does it matter
rivergirl736: yes
nicaprincez13: why
rivergirl736: are you a b or g
nicaprincez13: g
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: is that a problem
rivergirl736: how do you now a boy like you
nicaprincez13: well
nicaprincez13: there are many types of things
rivergirl736: well what
nicaprincez13: hell talk to u alot
nicaprincez13: hell want to be with u
nicaprincez13: hell flirt
nicaprincez13: all those things
rivergirl736: he don't like to talk and i think heis afrade to let anyone now he likes me
nicaprincez13: then maybe its time for u to show some emotion
rivergirl736: he stares at me smilles at me and whiselsat me and shows off aroumd me
nicaprincez13: and make the first move
rivergirl736: i am afrade to talke to him
nicaprincez13: i had this same probl;em
nicaprincez13: how old are u
rivergirl736: 14
nicaprincez13: same as me
nicaprincez13: ok wait
nicaprincez13: ima going to call my friend
nicaprincez13: hes a guy
nicaprincez13: hell know
nicaprincez13: ok?
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: wait
rivergirl736: you there
nicaprincez13: yes
rivergirl736: so what did he say
nicaprincez13: im asking
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: see i used to like him
nicaprincez13: and it was the same problem
rivergirl736: oooooooooo
rivergirl736: did you go out with him
nicaprincez13: no
nicaprincez13: he just came over to my house
rivergirl736: ooooooo
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: does he bother u
rivergirl736: no
rivergirl736: so
nicaprincez13: he says
rivergirl736: what
nicaprincez13: that because he does those other things then he might like you
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: is that good enough
rivergirl736: if he duse like me what will he do most likly
rivergirl736: other then talking to me he don't do that a lot
rivergirl736: so
rivergirl736: hello are you there
nicaprincez13: yea wait
nicaprincez13: he says to make the first move
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: and so do iu
nicaprincez13: i*
rivergirl736: oooooook and 1 more thing
nicaprincez13: ok
nicaprincez13: what is it
rivergirl736: if his cosent is best friends with you and she said alot of thing he said should i beleve his cusent
rivergirl736: so
rivergirl736: hello
nicaprincez13: wait
rivergirl736: ok
rivergirl736: how old is your friend
rivergirl736: hello
nicaprincez13: 13
nicaprincez13: hes younger than me
rivergirl736: cool
nicaprincez13: but were in the same grade
rivergirl736: so the aser to the ?
nicaprincez13: i say to not jump ahead of yourself because then u get hi hopes
rivergirl736: about if you thnk his cusent is lying or not
nicaprincez13: dont believe anythiung unless u knoiw its tru
rivergirl736: i think it is tru or i wunt it to be
nicaprincez13: what exactly did his cuzin say
rivergirl736: like he wunts to have sex with me and he really likes me and he woudedo any thing for me
rivergirl736: this was in a leter
nicaprincez13: ok'
rivergirl736: so is it trw you think
nicaprincez13: well i think shes probably trying to scare u away
nicaprincez13: and mostly family members are very protective about their family
rivergirl736: it is makeiag me closer
nicaprincez13: ?
rivergirl736: she wunts me to go out with him
rivergirl736: it is making me closer
rivergirl736: so
rivergirl736: hello
nicaprincez13: wait
rivergirl736: so
nicaprincez13: what is it that you want to know all in all?
rivergirl736: what
nicaprincez13: whats the question now?
rivergirl736: i love this boy so much what should i do
rivergirl736: so
rivergirl736: hello
nicaprincez13: wait
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: well
rivergirl736: hello
rivergirl736: so
rivergirl736: hello
rivergirl736: so
nicaprincez13: make a move
rivergirl736: talk
rivergirl736: ok
rivergirl736: bye
rivergirl736: thank you (link)
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