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Well i've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has had sex before and I havent (15/f). For the past couple of days I have really been thinking if i want to do it or not. My boyfriend is perfect, but im kinda nervous about the whole thing. Dont get me wrong, I do want to have sex with him, but its only been to months and i think its kinda soon. I have been sort of leading him on, but i really thought about it today and im jsut not ready. What ways can i tell him that im sorry for leading him on but im just not ready yet?????
Please help
well sweety, only YOU can decide whether your ready or not...but hey, if your having doubts about it, i honestly wouldnt go through with it :) thats just my personal opinion though, because if I were dating someone for 2 months and i REALLY liked him...and i was doubting having sex with him...i wouldnt go through with it just because if i were SURE i wanted too..i wouldnt have to question myself you know what i mean? Also, if you do decide to go through with it...just think about why your doing it...is it because you really likehim...or because you want him to like you more? Who knows :) lol and oh, one thing i would MAKE SURE to know...is if you guys are looking as if your going to be dating for a while, because some guys get sick of just one girl, but im not judging because i dont know him :) so just look out for yourself hun!!
good luck, hope I helped!
-Jenn
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ok i like this gurl and i want to tell her and this is my plan but i want to kno if its corny or not. ok i was gonna ask her to take a walk with me and then take her hands and b like "i really like u and i was wondering if u could see me as a b/f?" abd then also if she says yes wat am i sapposed to do and wat do i do if she says no?
aw, i think thats cute! i would do it if i were you :) the worst she can do is say no, and you can say "alright, well i was just wondering, if you maybe want to hang out as just friends sometime?" and that should be good :) But I think its cute, oh, and you should make sure that shes flirtin with you and stuff like that, just so ur not going up to someone who hates you..you know? lol good luck sweety! byee
-Jenn
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Ok ive always kind hav been a ladies man... well latly ive been seeing guys in different ways... im afraid to tell anyone but i really think im starting to like a guy...PLEASE HELP ME
Dont worry about it :) You might just be BI..or if your still in ur teens you could just be going through horomone changes, so dont worry, my best friend is gay, nothing wrong with it!!
-Jenn
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Ok there is this New Guy that has been at my school for like 3 days. And he Sits at my table for lunch, and he also is in my Gym class and my S.S class. And i think he is cute but i don't know if i should tell him or not. Can you guys please tell me if i should your not.
You should definitley tell him hunny! Being new is hard, sad, and uncomfortable...Ive done it 10 times, and I know for a fact that it would feel AMAZING if someone said that to me, and It would make a new friendship :) hun you should go for it, plus! he'll be surprised by your boldness, and guys like a girls bolder side, so do it, it cant hurt! go for it ! good luckk
-Jenn
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how can you not have had a bf..i would think that you had a lot because your sooooo pretty,nice,and honest
lol awww thank youu , I dont know, I want one...but i always have trouble getting one...I dont know why, some of my friends say its cuz guys think they cant get me...but im so simple lol I just want someone to hold my hand and ill be SO happy, and i tell them...but they never say anything, so I dont know, maybe theres somethign wrong with me??? lol
ok strange stuff has been happening to me I see like some thing happen in my head then they actually come true and soem times I will cry for know reason and then some thing later that day or week some thing really really sad happend weather its on tv or at home and then I told my friend that my cat might die becuz she was really sick and I promise 5 minutes later the vet called to tell us she died I think I am becomeing a freak
dont worry, ur not a freak , trust me, i cant really explain it because its not my place too, but my family. has this whole thing, mom was brought up in a spiritual religion, and i got the whole physcic thing, my lil sis and big sis all have it, you think things randomely and it happens, its weird and scarey, but you get used to it :) its not physcic stuff, but its kinda like it, i dont know what its called, but it gets cool :) hang in there, ull like it sooner or later, ur not a freak promise! xoxoxxoxoxoxoxox
-Jenn
JSIMT
hi. im 13/f. i was just wondering how to get a bf. i mean, ive never had a relationship or kiss or anything. and i feel bad at school when i hear girls talking bout their bfs. i am shy round guys and...yeah. :( it sux. help please. please dont say "flirt" or crap. what can i do 2 get a bf?
lol hun ur 13. dont worry about it :) Im 16 and ive never had a bf and ive never had a kiss, never done nothing, dont get desperate, its not worth it, and i know i didnt realli help and im sorry i hate it when people dont answer my questions but im sorry!!
-Jenn
JSIMT
ok well i have sweaty armpit and i want it to go away i want to tell my mom but i dont now how to strike up a conversation..like hi mom i need to go to the doctor for my arm pits...what should i say??help please
its not hard at all to tell ur mom...I used to have that problem, just tell them , my mom and dad both knew when i had it and my dad even took me to the dermatoligist, get the medicine that is prescribed through the dermatoligist call "Aluminum Chloride" it complteley stops all sweating :) hope I helped byeee
I was wondering what straighteners are good to use? like not get it chemically straightened but with a flat iron. ive been looking for a good one but i cant find one. what is the name and where can i find one? also is there anything to put in my hair like after a shower or somthing that would make it straighten better? thanks
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well the cereamic straightners are the best, gold plates are really good too, only they are expensive, my ceramic one I got at Wal*mart for 28 dollars....so you should look into that :)
I was told that you can get perscribed medicines to help stop hyperhydrosis. but is there anything *besides deoderant* that you can get at a pharmacy?
Uhmmm well im not sure, if your talking bout over the counter ,there are creams and stuff but thats messy...go to a dermatologist and ask her to prescribe "Aluminum Chloride" works like a charm ;)
Okay this is kind of a gross question.. but i'd like it know.. like when does someone finger you? like are u having sex, or just sitting there.. or something else yeah im really clueless on this whole thing... some people in my grade have been fingered and i'd just like to know what it is... thanks lol
being fingerd, like everyone else said is when the "significant other" lol puts their finger in your vagina. Well. It just happens, normally when your making out and your feeling each other up alot , it just happens, I know a lot of people whove gotten fingered in the movies , int heyre bed rooms, really just anywhere where no one can realli see...its a personal thing between 2 people :)
hope I helped!!
hey i was wondering where in arizona do u live because i used to live there. and what school do you go to?
Well, I moved here in February, and I was living in Scottsdale, and went to Desert Mountain, but then I just moved to Anthem, which is right off of Deer Valley, off of the I-17 and i go to Boulder Creek, BRAND new school, so you probably dont know of it :)
Ok, my armpits are so sweaty. Like after church, I took off my polo and there was sweat all over it. It's so gross and I'm afraid people will like make fun of me. Especially because I wear tight shirts. Anybody know how to stop this. I'm a female and use anti-persperant deodorant. It keeps the smell gone but not the sweat. The brand is Secret. Help! Thanks and I rate.
Go to the DERMATOLOGIST, not a Pediatrition or anything a DERMATOLIGIST and ask her to prescribe "Aluminum Chloride" I swear it works it doesnt just "Help" the sweat, it STOPS it, you put it on everynight, peace of cake, its really good I swear :)
hey..im the one about the sweaty armpits...and you wanted me to write you..by the way your really pretty
Hey Im not sure if you were the one that IMed me on AIM, but hey!, my solution is, go to the dermatoligist, not a pediatric...DERMATOLOGIST, and ask her to prescribe Aluminum Chloride, works like a charm i swear, you wont sweat at ALL, it doesnt just "help" it, it STOPS it ! Hope I helped!! byeeee
-Jenn
JSIMT
i am moving all the way across the counrty....and i dont know how i should tell my best friend! :'( plez help me
aww yeah hun, I just moved way cross country, its a hard thing to do, but yeah, I moved from Virginia to Arizona, and well, I just straight out told my friends and I was like * You guys, Im moving* and if they ask where, just tell them, you can still be friends with them, I still fly out to virginia a bunch to see all my friends, and a LOT of my friends here in arizona ALL moved, actually...all my friends here are new, one from ohio, one from nevada, one from Minnesota, so i mean, dont worry about it :) Im sure youll be okay!!! Hope I helped!
- Where you moving from and too???-
-Jenn
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Okay well my boyfriend just recently moved away ((yesterday)) and we are doing a long distance relationship. and i knew lots of people hated me when he was here and lots of people hated him to but when he was here i didnt care what people thought of me and now that hes gone i just want to move away. i am sick of it. i have dealt with people being mean and talking bad about me all of my life and i am just getting so fucking sick of it. i need him here to help me back to my old self. but now i just cant handle it. i am losing friends now because they are saying i should break up with him and im like no i love him. i want to move to virginia with my boyfriend life was better with him. what should i do?
Try to not care what people think of you, do it for your bf ...he'll be glad you did!!
where in Virginia did he move too??
-Jenn
JSIMT
what happened when a guy gets an erection? can he get one from making out?
lol I noticed that everyone told you that yes men can get erections from making out, and yes they can...Its also called a "boner" as teenagers call it, theres a bunch of other terms for it, pretty much exactly what it is, is normally a penis is soft, meaning its just hanging there, when he gets an erection, the penis stiffens, making it hard, which means they are aroused, if you do stuff with him , hes gonna become hard, and most likley ejaculate. So :) I hope I helped! ask me anything else if you neeed!
-Jenn
JSIMT
ok well this is kind of embarassing(sp)but i have sweaty arm pits..even when im cold..i no i should see a doctor so i can get some med. but i dont want to tell my mom cause its embarassing(sp)should i tell her?im going on vacation in feb. and i dont want that problem to effect my good time because its going to be hot there..and in school people always ask why im always wearing a hoddie..and i dont want to tell them..but i want to tell my mom so it will stop but like i said it embarassing(sp)...please dont respond if your going to make fun of me
hope you can help!
Hey hun, write me k?? I'll help you , only it does involve going to the dermatologist...:) but i swear it helps! write me!!!
JSIMT
i want to gain more confidence and have an attitude that gives the impression that i don't give a damn what they say! anyone have any advice that would help me obtain this attitude?
I used to care what others thought about me, and everything...Then in 9th grade i just looked around and i thought...whats the reason for them putting me down? and then I thought " well, its not cuz there jealous, but its because im probably an easy target" I changed myself right there, I made it so i wasnt an easy target lol, and now...I have people scared to cuss me out and stuff because they know i dont care theyre just scared to say stuff about me because they know i wont be scared to comfront them and make theyre life miserable. Like this one chick...she tried to make my life a living hell. didnt work, we were both in chourus and i have her mouth numbing stuff that LOOKED like Lipgloss, and she made a fool out of her self and NEVER did she try to make my life a living hell again, she actually came up to me and said " You are absolutley unbreakable, I cant get under your skin, so i give up" , now, dont get me wrong im not mean and im not a bully, im actually only 5 feet tall...and I have a realllllly big heart, just not to those who try to mess with me :) and i never have anythign against anyone until they do something to ME persoanlly, just keep your head up and dont care at all!
Ok, this isn't exactly a friendship question, but i didn't know what else to put it under.
I'm going to turn 14 in about a month, and I'm in the 8th grade. This year my parents are letting me have a party, and I need some good party ideas for my age. Skating is out of the question because i had one for my 13th birthday party.
Any suggestions?
Have a DJ come over and have a dance party :) thats what I did one year it was AWESOME, you should def do it!
-Jenn
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