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Q: hey,i asked you the question about oral sex, and i was wondering if i could have your s/n to talk to you about somethings.
thanks :)
okay I'm never on my sn but you can email me at AshleeXox576@aol.com okay =]

Q: hi i was wondering..how to give/recieve oral sex.like how to bring it up to your g/f. or what to say if you want it. and about giving it to them..do you just liek start kissing them and start touching them and stuff?

i hope whoever answers this understands lol..thanks : )
okay i am just going by what I've herd but get her in the mood but like don't ask hay will you give me a b-j right away wate kiss her and hold her and then pull back and kind of nod to your penis. don't be a smart ass and get a huge grin and raise your eyebrows just kinda gestures twords down there you know and if she doesn't get it at first then just ignore it and try it agen later if it doesn't work at all then I'm sorry i tried my beast

as for how to give to her-

A quick way to see if shes ready is to brush your fingers along her stomach, starting just under her breasts and moving down. Once the finger's there, you can immediately see what you are up against. There are 3 major things to check for at this point:

1- Density of the pubic hairs. Look for a trimmed or shaven environment.
2- Intensity of the excitement. Look for an advanced lubrication level.
3- Freshness or not. Look for a pleasant odor.

Once she has passed the finger test, explore a little further. Slowly go down her stomach and approach her to make certain that there aren't any unpleasant aromas. Remember: always have an escape plan. If there is an unpleasant odor, slowly come back up and play around with your fingers instead.


hope i helped even a little bit

Q: I'm late on my period by a few days, and in the three years i've had my period, i've never really been late. I can't be pregnant, that's not what i'm worried about.

I don't really know what i'm worried about, i'm just kind of scared that I have an infection or a disease or something. Paranoia? I'd say so.

I've been having discharge that has blood in it for about a week now, but it's nothing like my period, it's just watery. I don't have any cramps or anything. And if i'm bleeding and it's not my period, what's wrong? Will this turn into my period? Is this normal?
you should most likely talk to your doctor becaus that dose not sound to good

Q: how do you kiss like really good? any instructions please?
you cant be told how to kiss you and your partner have to find out what you both like because some people like a wet kiss with lots of tung and some like a little kiss with little to no tung so its not like you can be told how to kiss for every one

Q: How do you get rid of them?

thanks
work out your abs and quads mostly your quads

Q: Okay, everyone asks these but here goes.
I'm around 5'6, Im not positive of my height.
I weigh around 140 - 150

I want to weigh about 120 or 130
somewhere around there.



Any suggestions.
How much should I be running?
And what should I be eating?
eat healthy and only as much as your hungry for don't eat to much

and run every day to keep your cardio up it will help your matabulisum(sorry i murdered that word) burn fat faster

Q: I have big breast.

and im not sure if i have veins or stretch marks on them.

a) whast the differnce
b) how do i know what i have
c) how to i get rid!!!
this question is kinda hard to answer but I'll do my best to answer all your questions

a-you cant really see the vain in your barest and stretch marks usually like bump up and vains don't

b- i bet you have stretch makes cuz you said it your self you have big barest when stretch marks apper it's usually because where ever they are is to big for your body or like in most cases with stretch marks on the barest it's because they macherd faster then the rest of your body did(witch is not uncommon lots of girls have this happen)

c-I'm not a hundred percent sher how to get rid of them i know there are creams out their but i don't if they work but you could always just try it and some times they just fade away

hope i helped =]

Q: im 15 and i masturbate a lot it feels really good
and my penis sometimes stays hard for quite awhile
is this normal?
well the penis stays erect for as long as you horny so as long as your not taking "happy pills" then i'm pretty sher thats normal

Q: im 14 and ive got a really small penis whats is the normal size for my age?
the average size for a erect 14-15 year old male penis is about 4.5 - 5.0 Inches. When the penis if flaccid (Not erect) it could be anywhere from 2.0 to 3.0. Remember when the blood flows to the penis is makes the skin cells exspand and become larger.

Q: im 14 a guy and i masturbate quite a lot a few times every day i find it hard to stop its not weird is it? my penis is 5.5 inches long is that about the average?
no its not weird. your only 14 your going thew puberty and it's completely normal. and yes your penis is average size

Q: okay i have lots of questions!!
i've only like put the penis in my mouth, & ill go up an down for like a minute but then im too scared, i dont want to bite him..(my boyfriend, of 3 months) and like..what exactly am i spossed to do? im scared im not doing it right or it doesnt feel good
ask him! ask what he likes and ask if he wants you to try anything different

Q: Okay, I dumped my boyfriend a week ago and now Im going out with a new guy.But every day I think about my ex boyfriend..How do I stop thinking about him?Or do you think I still have feelings for him?
my friend just got out of this same issue turned out she still liked her ex and now there going back out but i don't know every thing to do with this but i think you may still have some felling for him but your going out with a another guy so you have to respect his feelings! and if you do dump him to go back with your ex you should at lest enplane whats going on.

Q: im 13 and my boobs are just developing and i only have 1 its been like this for months is this normal
totaly normal thew out puberty they will both grow and at times one will be bigger then the other so yop it normal^-^

Q: i am getting marrie tonight and we both are virgin and dont know what to do,i am confused.but i am littel bit nurves also,that how can i have sex with a virgin girl,she is 24 and i am 25,and from where i have to start first lolzz
answer me please
chill okay your gitting married and you said your both virgins so your partner is most likely just as nervous as you are and it's the first time so its okay if its not the best sex ever. talk to your partner ask if they feel okay if it hurts or if theres anything you can do to make it better.

hope i helped a little!

Q: Ok well I share my stuff with ym friends like drinks and food. Um..I just found out that one of my friends is sexually active.

I don't know if she has anything from it but if it's bad and I share my drinks and food with her will I get it?
the girl two below me is wrong not completely but still mono "the make out sickness" is considered an std so id be supper care full cuz mono is bad and a pain in the but

Q: Hey. I know you guys hate these questions, I'm so sorry.

So, me and my boyfriend had sex Friday without a condom. Well, he pulled out, and it was a few seconds when he cummed. Well, I'm really worried I may be pregnant. What are the chances?
even if he didn't cum inside of you you still need to worry about precum so just to be take a pregnancy test

Q: okay so i want those jelly bracelets that are like meant for that sex game. i dont even want to play it, but i have one and i love the way they look and i want more colors, me and my friends wanna have friendship bracelets. this is what mine looks like.

http://i171.photobucket.com/albums/u283/supermoeee/jelly.jpg

i want something like that or exactly that, where can i get them?

wall mart target hot topic clares some times the $ stor almost any were ^_^

Q: how hard is it to deep throat on an average sized guy? how does a normal bj compare to deepthroating?
same difference but most of the time when you give a bj u don't deep throat the thing is when you deep throat you have to relacks you throat so you don't gag on the pines and you have to work with the angle of the pinis

Q: Okay I know what a blow job is and everything.

But what do most guys like you to do when youre giving them one?
How long do they usually last?

Feel free to include anything else.
If you're dealing with a soft penis, you don't have to wait until it's hard to start the show. Put it in your mouth when it's soft (or semi-hard) to get acquainted. Kiss it. Lick it. Explore the different textures, especially the roughish tender head and the soft skin of the shaft.
You can do more wonderful stuff with your mouth than just suck (and remember--the harder you suck doesn't necessarily mean the better it feels). Mix it up by licking the sensitive underside of the shaft, the nerve-ending-loaded head of the penis, and the testicles. Softly blow on the moistened areas. The combination of sensations will feel incredible
Give your blow job a hand. Grip the cock around the base and slide it up and down, hand-job style, in tandem with your mouth. (Some folks like a tight squeeze, others may not, so check in.) This is great because you can cover a lot of the shaft this way without worrying about taking the whole cock in your mouth. You can concentrate on the super-sensitive head and suck as hard or softly as you'and your partner'like. Use lube for extra slipperiness.
Bring some toys into your routine. Experiment with cockrings, buttplugs, or little vibrators for some attention on the testicles and perineum. Hold a vibrator against your cheek to add vibrations to your mouth play. Or try sucking on ice or a breath mint to transmit a tingly sensation to your favorite penis. Again, check in with your partner to see how experimental you should be.

the deed is usuwaly finshed after the guy ejaculate It is ultimately your choice whether or not to swallow. Your partner's diet, health, habits and frequency of ejaculation will determine the quantity and taste of the ejaculate. The ejaculate of someone who ingests lots of red meat, caffeine, alcohol or cigarettes, may taste more intense than that of a non-smoking vegetarian. The most ejaculate you might encounter is a teaspoonful or so. You have several choices if you aren't crazy about ejaculate, but don't want to hurt anyone's feelings:

* you can take it in your mouth and discreetly deposit into a nearby towel
* as your partner approaches climax, withdraw and finish with your hand.
* You can let your partner come on your body and admire the copious amounts of ejaculate
* you can use a condom

hope i helped=]

Q: i have this really bad rash under my left armpit. it burns. its red and irritated and they look like pimples!!! im joining a sport next year and i have and i have had this rash for a year. what can i do to get rid of it.
well it's most likey razer burn so get some extra sensitive deoterint or use sope or shaving creme when you shave

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