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Q: hey...my mom is older than some moms and im only 13 aand im scared that something bad is going to happen to her while im still young.
honey i feel the same way im 15 and my mom is 53 im scared that something will happen to her soon also but i hope nothing will happen all you have to do is hold on if u feel like letting go ! hope i helped XoshannonoX

Q: I am doing a project on the diversity in canada and i need some pictures for it. Anyone know where i can find them
go to google and type in diversity in canda! hope i helped XoshannonoX

Q: do you kno the song concrete angel? ya well that is me! i am sick of getting thrown around please help me!! i need all the help i can possibly get. am i going to die? i hope not! please this is all that i ask you just give me advice i need it so badly!!i mean i have gotting stiches 7 times cause of my mom and dad! please help!
you need to tell sumone and after you tell them you need to ask can you stay with sumone without going back to the home where your parents are ! hope i helped XoshannonoX

Q: Do you think its okay to teach your child to hit someone back if they hit him first?
yes i do believe that if a kid hits one kid the other should be tought to defend her or his self and hit them back hope i helped XoshannonoX

Q: when a guy asks you to a dance..how do you nicely turn him down?
say i dont feel like it maybe later though! hope i helped XOshannonOX

Q: how do you know when your pregnent??
you will start to get morning sickness! which means you through up and you crave alot of sweets hope i helped XOShannonOX

Q: what's some tips to avoid/help irratiation from shaving pubic hair?
hunny after u shave put sum deodrant on it and put it on ever morning and night for 3days....hope i helped XOShannonOX


it sounds stupid but it works believe me!it takes care of the irration!

Q: can you have sex during your period?
yes but you would gush blood and there would be blood all over the sheets! hope i helped XoShannonoX

Q: how can u tell if a girl likes you. i had a gf but i asked her out so i really would not know how girls flirt. so will someone please help me.



i rate 5's
ok sweetie when a girl always giggles or stares at you that is a way of flirting hope i helped XosmroX

Q: okay

13/f

this is going to be pretty long.. so embrase your self for a long ride.

okay i like this boy, lets call him jon ♥ and we have all of the same classes, same tachers, same everything togeather. and he is like... MY LIFE! i cant live without him!

all of my friends say "oh he likes you" pointing to him. then i go "oh" then continue what i was doing. but saying to myself (i wish he can acually TELL me or SHOW me that he does like me)

so i like get in trouble like atleast 7 times a day like just like late for classes, wasnt listening, those little things.

so when i was at lmmy locker on friday(yesterday) he was like "okay noow you have to get in touble atleast 8 times today but nothing major okay?" and i was like "okay yeah whatever"

and i was thinking to myself (wow he doesnt want me to get in to deep trouble does he?) and i think that was ONE sign there.

whenever hes online, he like talkks to me the most out of everyone. and like my friend was like "omg jon isnt talking to me is he talking to you?" and "im like yeah he is"

and heres one problem;; my friend LIKES HIM ALSO! and iwas like "i saw him first you know that?" she was like "yeah you two have like puppy love going on there" and i was like "we do?" with a discusted face to hide my exitiment "ehh.."

she said "you didnt know?! its like all around school!!" and i was like "oh" hiding what i really felt i went to the bathroom and screamed...

you probally heard all of the other ones tht i said in gym he would be liike "RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN!"

and yeah... its cute and everyone says me make a cute couple.. but i think it would be wierd if eather of us asked eachother out.. and well then yeah i like just loving him to death but i want to go out with him! any help? sorry it was so long

thanks in advance

and ill rate 5's for good advice..
ok sweetie it sounds to me like you really do need help lol you need to write a note to him asking him out and age is just a number who cares if it one or two year diffrence you'll be fine but oi hope i helped ya XoSmroX

Q: I have a pep assembaly that were doing.. The football players are making us a tunnel I was thinkin about doing this..

Cart Wheel then a Round off strait down into a Split up and then standing up and doing a healstrech then spirting off? too much?


8th grade
13/f
ok yea i think its a good idea just maybe dont do the healstretch ok hope i helped XOshannonOX

Q: I want to lose about 5-8 lbs in 3 weeks..is that possible? And how can i lose this weight fast?
yes you can loose that much in that many weeks you just got to not eat bread and fries or potatos or stuff like that all you can eat it meat for 3 whole weeks believe me its kinda like the atkins diet try it u will lose hope i helped XoShannonOx

Q: i was going to get the first season of laguna beach.. is it worth buying? is it good?
i dont like laguna beach i think its stupid and you are wasting your money sweetheart cause it will be on tee vee again and its stupid its like they make it up!hope i helped

Q: hi everyone

i am at my dads this weekend...and i dont get to see him very often...only like 2 times a month...sometimes not even that,,,so yeah..i want to think of something we can do...like father-daughter sonthing...whatever tonight...before i have to leave again tomorrow...any ideas?
maybe you should cook dinner and maybe watch a movie and tell him how schools doing and ask him about how work is hope i helped SmR

Q: i really like my friend but he doesnt know, i have known him for a LONG time and i just spend like half of the day with him.i dont know what to do because i really like him but i cant tell him how i really feel cause then are friendship might be lost. what should i do???
hunny tell him in a note how you feel maybe that will help you and if he dont believe you tell him in words coming from your mouth hoped i helped SmR

Q: Ok I know this question sounds dum, but what can I do to help me get better faster. i have a cold (runny nose, stopped up nose, and I can rwally breathe! ) What can I do.?

Sign, Sick Ass
ok you need to drink sum hot coca and stay in bed for a little take a short nap dont go outside... hope i helped ~smr~

Q: whats poping a cherry?
when you pop a cherry it means that you are popping the girls extra skin up in her vigina which means when the dick goes up in there and pops it when you get done having sex you bleed for about 3days ! Hope i helped you Xo~Shannon~oX

Q: My boyfriend, Justin, and I, went to a rodeo tonight. This one girl, Destanie, was there. She likes him. Alot. And she doesn't like me at all (for what reason I don't know.) Anyways, she came up and was all over Justin and he was backing off and stuff and she pulled him aside and started telling him how I was cheating on my and walking down the hall with some guy holding his hand and stuff. Which is total BS! I would never cheat on him, I love him so much. Anyhow though, he came up and asked me about it. I blew up (for one reason or the other, I was just pissed because I'm sick of her telling him this stuff, and she's told him other lies like that recently.) He was really pissed off for me blowing up at him, which I can see because it might have came off like something WAS up. But I was just getting tired of all of it. Anyways, we made up I guess, but how can I let him know that I really would never cheat on him? I don't want him getting tired of Destanie saying stuff and break up with me, because I love him more than anything. I can't confront Destanie because she'd kick my butt. I rate high! Thanks so much.
ok you need to go up to him and tell him you 2 need to talk tell him the problem about the girl!
tell him all that needs to be said ! hope i helped XOSHANNONOX

Q: If you where a bra to bed do your boobs shrink?
no hunny they will stay the same size but if you take it off and go to sleep they will grow hope i helped! XoshannonoX

Q: I have to get a root canal :-(. I am really scared and i was just wondering if anyone knows what it feels like? Can someone please help!
ok yea it will hurt alot but my friend but orjael on it and it went away u just have to keep puting it on she was eatin big sandwhiches by the end of the day i hope i helped XOshannoOX

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