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ill be on the road tomorro.. and i just wnt to know some serious good ways to block out the rest of the world.... i need a couple of days to myself... i mean.. my heads spinning.. is there anything wrong with just shutting down for a few days.. or is it like non social... (link)
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your fine, every one need some alone time every now and then, just get a few of your fav. cds and a headset, listen to your music and everything else you want like the world coolin it for a while. lol. will just fall into place it slike a mini vacation on vacation. thats wut i do. good luck.
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okay..for the past couple of days ive started eating two meals a day and excercising..ALOT i feel soo guilty eating..im 5'2 and before i started this stuff i weighed 92 pounds ive got a lot of advice a lot to like not become anorexic or whatever no matter what but i dont no i feel so guilty about food.i need advice!! (link)
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you sound like you want to get skinnyer without really noticing it and you can eat all you want just make it healthy food theres nothing wrong with that and theres no need to be guilty about it. and being active and exercising is fine too, just as long as you dont over do it. youll be fine. good luck.
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I've been with my bf for almost 3 months, And I think I'm in love with him. I never get to see him though. No matter what we do together I have to go pick him up since he doesn't have a car, and he doesn't live that close (it's just getting annoying). The problem is that I thought I might still be having feelings for my ex, so I started talking to him again. It turns out he's still totally in love with me (I like him, but I don't love him). My ex is always there for me and can come over whenever. It's just really hard. Any suggestions? (link)
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3 months is pretty early to tell if its love or not and it sounds like it mite be fading.. besides i think you should DEFINATLEY go for the other guy your ex, he sound like a real keeper i would snag him b4 someone else does.
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i really like this kid , he has a girlfriend though and he lives a couple hours away. Even thought he lives that far away we can still see each other because i am either always in the state he lives in or he is aloud to come here. He cheated on his girlfriend with me and says he likes me i believe him , and i think he just doesnt know what his girlfriend will do if he breaks up with her because she says she is in love with him , she found out what happened with me and him and she still didnt break up with him. But i cant stop thinking about him =( .. what should i do ? i rate thanx! (link)
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i think that maybe you should talk to him. if he really likes you and vise versa and you think it could work out, then he needs to break up with her even tho hes afraid of what will happen if she loves him and she may be sad and disappointed but will be calm and rational about it if she cares for him, as long as its not in a public place. lol. good luck.
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k well most ppl say im not fat but they say if i lose like 5 more pounds ill be anorecsic! I know im not gonna be anorecsic so im trying to find a easy way to lose weight and a way so i still have time to do other things. i dont want to stop eating or overly exercize. Can some1 help me out i really dunno how i can do this.? (link)
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all you have to do to lose just a pound or two is eat healthy i know its not as easy as it sounds but staying busy and eating like protein or heathy foods that should help. good luck.
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i am very self consious on how i look because i am not the prettiest girl but everyone tells me that i am cute. i dont like how i look and i want to loose some weight too. i can sometimes be very confident but at other times i am not. what can i do to stop being so self consious? (link)
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i have that same problem. lol. all i can tell you to help is, focas on something else, dont look in the mirror, look at the t.v. or the track and when you do think of the things you like about your self like for instense i only lik my eyes. thats it. but i focas on that when i am looking at myself and i smile wether i feel like it or not. every one is a little to self concious on their appearence, no worries. good luck.
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Hi I'm 14 and I'm 5'2ish. I weigh 110. I wear a C cup and I think around a 3 in jeans. (Not sure maybe a 5) But the problem is, I look at everyone else and I feel that I should weigh 100 or 105. I was going to do chrunches and things to loose weight. But I'm always too lazy. (lol) I used to dance and do gymnastics ever since i could walk. (not gymnastics, I just started that) But I quit. Um..what's your advice on, if I should not worry about it, since I'm still growing or be more cautious because I seriously don't want to gain too much weight. I want to be considered skinny, not in the middle, which I am now? Also, I love to eat! (lol) I think it's kind of an emotional thing for me. I'm definitely not fat or anything like that but I don't think that I could give up food. Thanks for your help! (link)
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eat all you want just make it healthy and dont worry about your wait at our age it flexs back and forth all the time yes pay attention to it, but no dont worry your fine and skinny people are not always good either if you are in the middle widh i dont think you are that just means your heathier then some underweight or overweight people. good luck.
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K well there is this guy i like ALOT, he lives on my street and well he used to like me. he is 15 and im 13. Im moving in 3 days and everytime i ask him to hang out he doesnt want to. or he has something else. i dont know how to get his attention and i really want him to like me again. what should i do to get him to come here or him to invite me over. I know its maybe not as big of a problem as most ppls but well i never got a boy to lik me before and well this is one of my only chances.. how can i get him to like me in 3 days and to make him hang out with me today or tomorrow.?? PLEASE PLEASE HELP! (link)
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i wouldnt worry about because most likely nothing major could happen in three days and if it did it would make it even harder for you to leave, but if you really want this attention... i think you are getting and dont know it, he is probably trying to talk himself out of liking you becuase your moving, like i told you to do above, he might have that realization already, ive been in that situation b4 (his) and i kept telling myself that i hated him and i told my friends i hated him, he found out i sed that and now he hates me. dont let that happen, hes probably avoiding you to help himself get over you, he obviously admires you deeply if this is the case.
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awhile ago me and my now exboyfriend got in a really big fight. ends up that, that night he took my "best friend" to a hotel with 3 other guys and just her. they ended up having sex. both of them deny it whenever i ask, but i know for a fact it happened. its been over and done with but i still have so much hate for my friend, and for the guy too. i dont know what to do.. or who i should be more mad at. i know i should let it go bc it happened a while ago.. but i cant help thinking about how much they both screwed me over. (link)
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ok, i think you shouldnt be looking at who should i be mad at more, but wh ydid it happen. maybe your guy was still mad and was trying to get back at you.. your giving him what he wants, and your friend i would forgive if she came out and sed it was true and apoligize, so you do have a right to be mad at them, but maybe they wont admit it becuase they feel bad and are trying to forget it happened at all them selves. try to get their side of the story. good luck.
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ok i know this is in the wrong category but.. in about a week im going to the eye doctor... and im 99.9% sure im going to be getting contacts for the first time.. what i want to know is do contact hurt after so long wearing them or.. do they easily fall out somehow.. an stuff like that.. please help! thanx.. ((i rate good)) (link)
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i have contacts. they dont really hurt if you sleep in them for a night by accident or something but if you constantly leave them in they start burning and your eyes will water a lot. thats about it but if yuo leave them in when they burn and your eyes water they mite roll up in your eye, ive had them for 1 year and a 1/2 and that has happened to me 2 times and then i got them to come down by massaging the top of my eye lid. good luck. ther not that bad.
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me and my best friend are really close...i was w/ her when she lost *it* and the sad thing is she didn't even know the guy..she only new him for a lil bit! and then she had sex w/ this other dude but shes kind of dating him...and i told her she shouldn't be doing that bC shes always going out to have sex w/ some other dude...and then i was staying the nite w/ her one nite and we snuck out and she had sex w/ these 2guys that she hardly even knew...and she still talks to one of them she goes overto his house and stuff...but she doesn't need to hang out w/ him either cuz his a lil man whore! well then she had sex w/ this other dude...and then another (but she knew the last one really well)...well last nite me and her sunk out again w/ my boyfriend and one of his friends...and she had sex w/ him...i mean i haven't even had sex w/ my boyfriend yet...and i didn't even have sex w/ him that nite...well my freind has had sex w/ at lest 7guys...how do i get her to stop...i want her to wait till shes dating a guy before she starts haveing sex again!...?? what do i do? (link)
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i think that if you have already tried to talk to her and she doesnt listen or wont cool it for your sake, maybe she can be more private about it, but what she does is really up to her all you can do is be there for her and try to help. maybe its a phase that will pass if you cool it for a while if that doesnt work and she still wont slow down and it bothers you this much.. maybe you should hang out with her less, if she wont listen to you as a friend then she isnt a very good one.
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ok, my boyfriend really wants me to give him a lap dance. I really want too to. lol but there is one problem......I don't know how to give it to him! I'm even a dancer and i'm pretty good too. But i don't know the right moves or anything. And i dont' wanna look stupid or inexperianced. HELP!!!!
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ok, i think that every girl including me at one point or other will feel like they dont know what to do. my advice to you is this.. do it. just have fun, who cares if you think you know how to or not the less you think about it the better off you are.
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