HopefulWishes's advice column

I am a freshman in highschool. my friends always come to me for advice and they said that it really workds well for them so i figured that i would try advinators out. im pretty new at advicenators but im going to give this a shot. please help and support me. thanks.

The one and only,
Brittany

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Should i stay with my kids dad even though I am unhappy? My kids would be crushed if I left him and I just want them to be happy too. Its been 12 years that we are together. Female, 32

im not going to tell you weather you should leave or not but it would be really hard for your kids to go through that i know personally how it feels but if your unhappy then you should leave and be with someone who makes you happy. if you do leave try to at least stay in contact with your kids. try visiting them as much as you can and call them often also. i hope i helped in some way/

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im gna get my haircut soon and i dont know where to get my sideswept bangs

do i get it where my cowlick is.. or the other way where it doesnt show?!!
PLZ REPLY FAST!!

take this advice from someon who know personally, my friend has sideswept bangs and so do I. sorry if this sounds bad but hers looks terrible! she has it where her cowlick is and i have mine to where it doesnt show and i think it looks good. see, if u get it where ur cowlick is then it will make your forehead look big and really bad. if you get it where it covers your cowlick then it looks alot better but thats what I personally think. hope your hair turns out great!

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one of my best friends has recently revealed to me that she has a crush on this boy. howver, we are seniors in high school, and he is only a freshman in high school. what makes it weirder is that my friends brother is a freshman too (he doesn't know she likes this kid). i know that age shouldn't matter, but i just feel the wholse situation is so awkward & weird. he isn't really "matured" yet, so it is SO strange. she keeps on talking about it & it just bothers me that she basically has a crush on a little boy. the kid doesn't even know she likes him, but she talks about him as if they are married. what should i do? am i wrong in saying this is sort of innappropriate?

i admit it is sort of odd that a senior likes a freshman but if she likes him like your saying she does than i say tell your brother to tell this kid that she likes him and tell your friend to talk to him more and let them do as they please. and no your not wrong for thinking it is innappropriate. maybe if she talks to him more she will see that he is immature and not feel the same way anymore. maybe not, love works in weird ways

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i think that im depressed .. hardly anything makes me happy anymore. i hate school my friends my family life .. everything seems to be going wrong all at once im only happy sometimes and thats when im with my boyfriend and thats not even all the time. please help

i competely understand. i went through that and i still am but ive gotten better and so will you. talk to your parents or a counselor at school. maybe if you have a depression problem you could be put on antidepressants, also try to spent more time with your boyfriend and if thats not possible try talking to him more like on the phone or internet. i hope you get better

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how do i stand up for myself at school .. im the type of person that keeps it all inside until i freak out because i get so mad.

try talking to a pet or stuffed animal or pillow or something and tell it what you would say to who u need to talk to about this and once you do that it will let some anger out then at school tell those people or person. talking to an inadament object might help give you an idea of what you need to say. i hope i help

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13/f

k well i'm going to a halloween party and this is what i'm wearing : http://partycity.com/cgi-bin/parties/costumes.cgi?parties=Halloween&productstype=Teen-Female&products=96378&&zoom=1

what shoes should i wear with it? heels are not an option. they annot me and ill feel too trashy lol.
thankks

personally i think that black heels would look good and not trashy unless they were really high heels maybe you could consider ones that are not that high. but if not than possibly black flip flops or those chinese shoes would look really good considering that it is an asian costume

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Okay, so at one point, there was this guy that I was involved with for awhile, and he blocked me on line, and when he blocked me, I made another screen name he didn't know in case he blocked the ones he did...recently I had the idea to start talking to him on that sn to like, attract him in a way, get him to want the character behind that sn, and then once I know he likes (her), I'd suggest we meet, and it would be me he meets up with.
I know it's a lot of lying (sort of), and a lot of deceit, but I almost want to do it. Like, start fresh, in a way.
What do you guys think?
Btw we're in college...^^

i think that its a good idea. it will help you know if hes truthful to you or not and if he does go and meet the "other girl" than that lets you know that he goes behind your back. but is he doesnt then that lets you know hes good to you. it is bad to lie in a way like that but sometimes you gotta do waht you gotta do. btw if you decided to go along with your plan, tell me what he does im kind of curious now haha. BUT if you dont feel like it i understand

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