My name is val, i just graduated high school. I have the best boyfriend named Zack, and im 18 years old. I'm going to junior college and will eventually major in speech pathology.
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13/f
i like this guy, lets call him S.
Next month i will be a freshman, but it is not intill late next month intill i get to see him.
about 3 weeks ago his gf broke up with him. So i have not flirted as much as i wanted too becuase i figured that he would like so time to think. But now i want to step up and i would like it if he was interested in me.... but i dont know for sure if he is or not... we talk by myspace. Is there anything that i can say to hint that i like him? or that he can hint to me?
i want to know if he likes me, but i am to shy to ask... HELP PLEASE. (link)
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I'm really happy to hear that you care enough, to wait until he's over that girl and ready to move on. First, I would get his number, and give him yours, and ask to go to a movie or somewhere. It might be awkward at first (well I was always afraid of that) so you can do stuff in groups, so it's not totally obvious you like him. After that, you can casually ask to do something alone. I can understand that you're shy, almost everyone is lol. You can always do the usual -go to a scary movie and jump and 'accidently' grab his arm'- thing. lol sorry, it's corny i know, but it's all I can think of.
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Okay, I understand it's really hard to do, but maybe have your friends become friend with him as well? Maybe they can ask to do group activities with you, and you can build up the courage to ask him to do something, just the two of you? Or maybe he'll ask you after you get to know each other?
Hope that helped,
(16/f)
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ok my friend keeps saying he likes me and he is going out with my friend she is clueless on this whole ordeal and i really like the guy and this always happens to me and hes telling me to wait for him for like 5 more months but he is wanting to kiss me makeout with me hold hands etc. and i just dont no if i should tell the friend or not and should i tell him i loe him to cause i kinda do. (link)
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1. how good is this friend, to where you dont tell her that her boyfriend wants to be with you??
2. why 5 months?
If he wants to kiss you while going out with your friend, what makes you think in five months (i assume he'll dump her and go out with you then?) he wont do the same thing to you, and do things with other girls? I really dont think he's worth it, and i know you like him, but hes not considering your friend/his girlfriend. If he likes you more, and can see himself with you, he better leave the friend and be with you. I would like for you to be with a guy thats respectful of you and your friends as well, who wont cheat or lie, and I dont know this guy enough, but from what i hear, he isnt the right one for you.
Do what you'd like, but I hope in the end you're happy and think of this friend of yours.
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so im dating this boy and hes like 2 years younger but none of my friends no that yet. but im afraid if they find out they will laugh what should i do?
o i do like this kid a lot (link)
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Don't worry about age, as long as you like him, it should work out. If people don't like that he is younger than you, they don't respect your decision. It's your choice who you go out with. A lot of people see age as a level of maturity or "coolness", but I very much disagree. My boyfriend will be 18 soon and I recently turned 16, and my parents HATE the fact that he will be two years older and they think he will automatically pressure me for things. Age is a number, and if people don't respect your decision on going out with him, they obviously don't respect you.
(By the way, look at adults age differences, my parents are like five years apart. As long as you like the guy, that's all that matters.)
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hey!
okay so i am 16 & i just started to get sexual
i had sex with this boy i was supost to get together with and date,but he used me.
and the whole time we were having sex it didnt make me moan or anything but it hurt alot. is something wrong with me,ive been told your suspost to moan and stuff but i didnt.
and theres this guy ive been dating for a mmonth and i want to have sex but he doesnt want to until im ready, but i keep thinking im ready but im scared of what he will think of me (link)
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Well for the first time you did it, (I can't answer with experience though) I would think it would hurt more than feel good. I think after the first couple of times it should be better. I'm REALLY sorry to hear that the guy used you, how long did you know/were you with this guy until you had sex? (just wondering) You aren't SUPPOSED to do anything while having sex, but it's common to moan, but understandable if you don't the very first time. Your body isn't used to it, so of course it will hurt, and you can't even think about it feeling good lol.
The guy you're with right now sounds better from what I understand. It seems like he really wants you to be comfortable for you to have sex. Does he know you aren't a virgin? Is that why you are afraid of what he will think of you? I would think so wait at least a little bit longer to have sex with him, so you don't move too fast.
Hope that helped
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I know this is probably going to sound dumb to most people, but im curious. I've been having sex for over two years now. And I'm just wondering, how do I know if my cherry has popped. Some people say it hurt, some say yu bleed. But I never bled after having sex. (link)
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This isn't a dumb question at all, a lot of people get confused by this. A lot of girls- not all of them- have something in their body and when they first have sex (but it doesn't have to be sex, it can be when first using a tampon, horse back riding, or being fingered) this thing can...pop? and you can bleed. It can still mean you're a virgin, but don't worry if you didn't bleed the first time, you just don't have one. It's like when a guy gets mad at his girlfriend because she said she was a virgin, yet when they did it for the first time, she didn't bleed. That just means she didn't have one (sorry I can't think of the word). Don't worry that you didn't bleed, it's totally normal.
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okay do guys think your easy when you makeout with them on like the first time ya'll meet up to hang out...like what if they try to kiss you but you dont want to seem stuck up nor easy (link)
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I know people that have made out the first date and stuff, but I wouldn't say they're easy. If a guy did that with me, I would hope he isn't using me or anything, but you never know, no guys are the same. If you want to take it slowly, he should understand. If he doesn't he's not worth it because he obviously doesn't want to respect you. Don't let a guy influence how fast or slow you'd like to take your relationship. If he loves you, he will want you to be happy and comfortable.
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ive only kissed somone with my mouth open probally like twice and it wasnt even for long.
i liek this boy and if i makout with him i KNOW ill be nervous expacally because he has hooked up with sooo many girls. can someone give me some good tecniques i wanna make it memorable and i want him to just want more and something we wont forget for a while type of kiss.
advice please ! (link)
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First of all, and I'm sorry if you've heard this a million times, but you have a ton of time to kiss a guy. I can't really say how to make out with someone, but if you really like them, they can understand if it's not a romantic movie (like The Notebook, for instance) kind of kiss on the first time. If he really likes you, he won't compare you to other girls.
My boyfriend and I sucked at it at first, but after a couple times we got the hang out it lol. You've seen movies, and sorry if they've gotten you nervous and possibly intimidated, but I wouldn't worry about it. I was at first, but then I felt silly for thinking like that.
Lol it's like you hear all the time with sex: no one is good on their first time. You have your whole life ahead of you, don't spend it worrying, because when the guy comes around, you won't even think about it when you go in for a kiss, if you truly like him, that is.
And think about it, when you're old and married, you can laugh about how silly it was to be nervous!
Hope it helped
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This guy that I met about a year ago got my # and started texting me a lot, but I was already in a relatinship at the time. When my relationship ended, about two weeks later he asked me to hang out with him. Well, it ended up we started dating but only for a month and then he dumped me and gave me a stupid reason for it. We still talked after that, but only as friends.
Just recently, he asked if I was seeing anyone and I told him about the guy I just started dating a couple weeks ago. That's when he told me the "true" reason he dumped me before, in which it was not really his fault, but he was extremely apologetic. And then he asked if we could start over, but I told him I had moved on, and so he said that whatever happens will happen.
The problem is, now he texts/calls me pretty consistently throughout the day, as if I am all he thinks about. Is it possible that this guy could just be trying to get back with me because he wants sex? Because when we were dating, he would bring it up and I would tell him I wanted to wait. My first inclination was that he was only in it for sex, but now that I think about it, if he only wanted sex, then he wouldn't be spending all this time waiting on me because there's plenty of girls willing to hook up with a guy around here. Should I consider him? (link)
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Was he understanding when you said you wanted to wait? Or did he just get upset and not listen? If you could see youself with him again, i guess you could try it, but not if you really like the guy you're with now. Don't dump him if you have any doubts about this other guy. If you do go with this guy again, make sure you're very clear on what you want (and I'm sure you were the first time). If you think he is being honest when he says you are all he thinks about, I guess you could try it, but think about the guy you are with now.
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I have an annoying friend and she always talks about her self. I like her because we are besties, but she only talks about HER and what she will be doing and who she talked to and blah blah blah... Everytime I talk about me or anything other than her she changes the subject or doesn't listen to me. She also would ditch me to sit at the back of the class or with cooler people, and she doesn't care if i end up sitting by myself. Please help me, I don't know how to let her know she is making me angrier every day. What should I say to her?
PS. I have tried talking to her about it but she refused to listen and wouldn't take in what I was saying. (link)
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I understand she's your best friend, but listen to your description. She ditches you, doesn't listen to you, and won't talk about anything but herself. I think you should consider how good of a friend she is to you. I can't think of much else you can do if you've already tried talking to her about it, except to try again, or just make sure you have friends other than her.
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My best friend is moving away. I tell her everything and she's always the one I go to if I'm sad or angry. Basically, she's pretty much a sister to me. But now she's moving =(
I've moved hundreds of times before...but this is weird because now someone's moving away from me instead of the other way around. And it's just different ya know? I'm perfectly fine usually moving away because there's the possibility of a new beginning. But when she moves away, I'm still stuck here...without her.
Does anybody have any tips on how to cope when a friend moves away? I just don't know what to do. (link)
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I understand, it sucks when a good friend moves. How far away will they be? You can always call them or instant message them, and if they're not too far, maybe like a weekend every so often she can visit, or you can visit her? When my good friend moved, we bought the little computer cameras, so we could talk like on a video online all the time (sorry I don't know the word for it lol).
Of course, you won't be able so spend as much time with her, so keep in touch with other friends. Maybe the free time will give you a chance to make a few more really close friends?
Good luck, and hope that helped!
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okai so I only have 2 weeks of school left and i really wanna talk to this guy i like.
he seems like he likes me as well because he looks quite often and always seems happy to see me. the thing is that hes a year above me and we've never talked :P
i get soooo nervous around him .. i cant even look him in the eye when he's walking by me (he always looks at me tho). I can only look at him when hes far away :/// and his best friend used to fancy me but it never turned out good so im also scared to look at him when his friend is next to him :/
i really wanna talk to him on the bus or something but i get sooo nervous, and i really want him to like me (since he doesnt really know my personality too well)
so how can i talk to himwithout throwing up in his shoes? hahaa.
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thanks
xx
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Well, I obviously say don't walk up to him and introduce yourself and say you like him, you just think he's cute from what I hear. Try to get to know him as much as you can so you don't freak him out, and so you can be sure he's not a jerk or anything. Do you have any friends that are friends with him? If not, (before you eat a meal) go up to him in introduce youself. I'm sure if you are very friendly and smile, he should do the same back.
By the way, you get out of school really late!!
One last point-- don't worry about the age difference! That doesn't make them any different, they'll just be able to do things sooner, like get their license (I'm not sure how old you are, sorry), and graduate.
Hope that helped! And I know it's hard to tell someone you like them, but whatever happens, you'll be glad you did it.
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there's been so many times when i've been talking on the phone to my boyfriend late at night when he falls asleep. but he'll be kinda awake, ya know? and quite often, he blurts out the most random things that i laugh at hahaha, but he doesn't even know he says. if i kind of play along with it, he'll keep talking, but if im like ....what??, it's like he snaps out of it, but doesn't remember saying anything. i've caught myself doing that before too, when i was extremely tired on the phone and basically half asleep. i was just wondering if anyone can explain what exactly causes that? like i specifically remember one time when i was zoned out like that and i said "i need some batteries." where that came from, i dont know haha. i dunno, it's kind of interesting, and i just want someone to kind of elaborate if they know what they're talking about. (link)
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I've done that soo many times when I'm on the phone with my boyfriend! It will be late at night, and apparently I keep up a random conversation. I'll wake up in the morning never remembering hanging up with him or sometimes even talking to him. If it's the same situation, it might be because he's just really tired, and the need for sleep gets to him, and he can't control what he says. When you zoned out, were you thinking about batteries? I wouldn't think so, but your mind can be completely random like that. I was complaining that I wanted chapstick one night!
Hope that helped
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well us girls and boys know when you like someone you cant get enough of them and you like this person so much that you would do anything for them. i feel this about this certain boy and the sad thing is im not sure if he likes me to. we flirt allot but theres this other boy who flirts with me too and hes always getting in the way like he doesnt want us to get together as soon as me and this boy get close he always buts in what does this mean and what shall i do about this boy who i think i love? thankss guyss L.y x
asl-13/f/uk (link)
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Well it's obvious the other guy is jealous, and wants you to spend time with him. Do you like him at all, or are you focused on the first guy? If you think you love this boy, go for it and tell him! There's nothing to lose, and if you think he likes you, you won't regret it. If he doesn't, you're too good for him and can move on, look at other guys, maybe even the other one who flirts too? I know a lot of people will tell you to just tell someone you like them, but it can be really hard, I understand, but I did and I don't regret it. There was a time I told someone I liked them, and it didn't work out how I hoped, but it gave me more confidence.
Hope that helped!
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