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lately i have been so depressed. i dont get along with my mom that much anymore & we were soo close. i just cant stop crying & i like cant stand being around certain people that i used to be so close with. i know your gonna say its growing up but this isnt normal. i have tried talking to my mom about getting me pills or something but she just throws in my face how bad her life is which makes it worse. at this point i hate just about everything about me. i think im fat; ugly; worthless; loney; friendless & i cant do anything right. idk what to do anymore. i used to cut but i dont as much anymore and i dont want to but thats the only thing i can think of doing this point. also im getting quite suicidial. i cant see myself going threw with it but i have been thinking. my best friend is the same as me; same problem & everything. we both have very messed up families. also with me thinking im fat it makes me think of becoming anorexic again. i have been threw that also. im 5'1 - 100 pounds. telling me im not fat makes everything worse. i just dont know what to do anymore with myself. i need happy pills or something but idk what to say to my mom. please help. this is outta hand. (link)
Here is one suggestion: Try to do some of the stuff with your mom that you used to do. it may help but if it doesn't then i don't know what to do. well anyway, i hope this helps.


hello,
pls tell how can i test that my friend turned like sister to me loves or not.i am a male 25 years from india and my sister 25 now.we were both collegues at one time but gradually she treated me as her brother and i treated her as my sister.know the problem is both are working in different companies she never calls me even know, but i daily call her on her GSM but she tells that she is busy.know i am started feeling that she does'nt like me.recently we celebrated raksha bandan also i offered her sweets from my hand and took blessings from her as a sister.i was very happy that day, but the thing is she does'nt talk to me very much.so i wanted to know that is she loves me or not as a brother.at times i think that she does not love since i am not in their family blood.so please tell me how to confirm that she loves me or not.because these days i am very disturbed that my friend(sister) is not speaking to me.please sujust me how to confirm that she loves me or not.thank you. will be eagerly waitng for your reply. my email address is crazymayur@gmail.com. (link)
I have a sister too. it might just be a phase she is going through. but if not, I don't know. well hope it helps.


I've never been to a bloc party.
What exactly do you do there.
My boyfriend always goes to them. Do people hook up there or what? (link)
From what i have heard a block party is where you block off your street and have differant activities in homes. I am not sure if people hook up or not but I hpe this will help you.


Okay , so i babysit this sixth grader three days a week. & let me tell ya .. IT IS SOOOOO BORING OVER THERE! All that i ever do is watch t.v., eat, & talk on the phone. Oh yeah ... and i also get on the computer. Any ideas on what else I could do over there? He always goes over to his friends houses all the time , so its not like I can do anything with him. Grrrr , HELPPP! (link)
Have you ever tryd to make him stat home and play a game with you? If not try it. Hope it helps.


I getting to know this really fantastically stunning girl,so I really need help from girls or guys on what do I say to keep the conversation going and be funny? for the girls, what do your boyfriends talk to you about? and for guys, what do you say to girls?, it would help if you listed some topics or joke sentences for me.so far I have talked to her about music, school and subjects, and movies.what else is there????thanks a lot for any advice given. (link)
I have had the same problem. Just try to talk to her about things she might like. Or if that one doesn't work, try to be yourself she might find you to be funny or something.


im starting to absolutely hate rap, hip hop etc. im starting to like 80`s music, like i've fallen in love with it ever since my dad took my to a poion concert. soo i was wondering what are really great 80's songs/bands


thanks. (link)
Well I don't like rap either and I also listen to that music. I would reccommend "We all need somedy to lean on". Hope it helps.


i'm 13, i don't plan on losing my virginity ANYTIME SOON, i'm going to keep it until i'm married. Most of my friends aren't virgins [ages; 13-16] and they don't regret it, but i know in the future they will . but can you guys just give me an amazing reason on why being a virgin is a precious thing and that giving up your body to some guy that just wants to get in and out makes you seem like a hoe. i really need good reasons so that when the other 1/4 of my friends are going to have a sex i can give them great reasons on why not to [other than STD's and all stuff i need other advice] (link)
Other than the STDs the night of your Honeymoon is supposed to be the night you break your virginity. Hope it helps!


My parents have been smoking since they were teenagers. I'm just curious if everyone who smokes has a really high risk of getting lung cancer? It's not common in my family and I'm worried that my parents will get it. (link)
Most people who smoke are in danger of heart attacks, heart diesease, lung cancer and more. I hope that helped you.




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