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Well my names Francyy :)
I lOve helping peOple.
Im a prettyy gOOd advice giver if i dO say sO my self;
Im 17.
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I have a Cuban backgrOund & i was bOrn hear in the U.S.
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I live in miami sO theres always a place tO gO.
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I have 2 questions here, but they relate both to the same problem so I'll ask in one.

I have really oily hair for some reason. Like I wash it one day, then it's okay for the next day but the day after it looks like it hasn't been washed in weeks. So I basically have to wash my hair everyday otherwise it gets REALLY oily. I've been told that's bad for your hair too. That's not my question.

My question is, how can I stop it from going oily so quickly? I've tried heaps of stuff. Different shampoos and conditioners, washing it twice, scrubbing extra hard, not scubbing at all etc nothing works!

My second question is: Straight after I wash my hair, the damp bits become oily straight away. And everytime I wash my hair it's different damp bits, and different oily bits. Like above I've tried everything. I think it's something to do with the way my hair dries. It's only the damp bits which are oily. I can't dry or straighten my hair without those damp bits becoming huge oily parts and it's starting to become REAL annoying and a HUGE problem. What do I do?

well i work with a hairdresser & i knoe that its bad to wash your hair alot so if by the 3rd day its oily juss pik it up in a pony tail. & then the 4th day wash it. & also make sure you towel dry your hair really good befor blow drying or straightening. it could also be the your hair is very silky & shiny. i dont think shampoos make a diffrence.

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ok...Im 15/f...freshman...
These past 2 days I have gone to haunted houses with my friends....one of them has a bro who I've liked since I first talked to him...which was this year....hes a sophmore..which doesnt bother me...one of my other friends likes him too....she was at the first haunted house that we went to and when she...or anybody else...would hold onto him he would yell get off of me...but when I held onto him he just like grabbed my arm and like held it....then at the second house..the one that likes him wasnt there...but again when his sister or the other girl we had with us held onto him he yelled but when I did he did nothing....we all got split up somehow and I was just walking with him and when I would get scared from someone being in my face..he would hold me at my waist and cover my face....on the hay ride there and back...he came and sat by me even though his friends were on the other side...with plenty of room....

does he like me....and what should I do about the whole friend likeing him thing??

HELP PLEASE!!!

girl he does like you !!
if he leaves him friends for you the he does. he seems like a nice guy maybe you should ask him if he likes you. then if he says yes tell your friend tht you like him & tht he likes you back i mean if he dosent like your friend then whats the problem its not like your standing in her way of being with him because he wouldnt be with her anyways

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what are some good ideas for decorating a door way barbie style. my friend and i are being barbies for this halloween carnival at our school for little kids and we don't know how we should decorate the door way. like picture a classroom door closed and you know on the outside theres a little bit of wall on each side. thats what we have to decorate. any advoce would be grreat!! :D

pix of barbie & friends. & flowers & lots of pink. maybe some pix of cartoon shoes & purses & lip sticks :)

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Okay, so I don't know what to go as for halloween.

I was going to go as a rock star, but I sort of want to be a tiny bit traditional this year and go as something scary, but not like a witch or a zombie. Something original.

So then I was thinking about my favourite TV show. They're politicians worst nightmare, and not just politicians normal people as well. Although to dress as them I'd have to be casual and I don't want people to think I'm doing it for the candy. I can't even eat candy anymore so I'll be throwing it all out. I'm doing this to dress up. Plus also it's not really...I dunno it would be weird.

But then I thought they're a politicians worst nightmare. Bingo, why not be a politician? Everyone hates them, and because of their power it sort of makes them scary. I'm not going to be a specific politician but just one in general.

I came here for opinions on if I should be a politician? And if so, how should I dress? And what sorta things should I do and wear?

well lets seee hmmm....
if you wanna be a politician you have to wear a suit and if you want you can pick up one of those masks with a politicians face on it. {sold at "party city" stores} & if you want to get a more scaryy feel to your costume you can add some red paint {also sold at party city or in the hallowween sections of walgreens walmart ect.} to look like blood on the mask. also you can carry around a plastic knive & it'l look awsome !

hope i helped !

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http://www2.victoriassecret.com/category/?cgnbr=OSCLOZZZZZZ

are their clothse only sold through the website? or do any stores also sell clothes?

you can go to thier store located in most malls just google "victoria secret locations" & find the one closest to you !
:)

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Theres this guy that i kinda have mixed feling for hem a year and a half younger. He has a lota friends who are girls but and he talks to them on the phone too but he talks to me sometimes for 2 hour a night and kinda flirts and txt me all the time (like today he wanted me 2 go to the country club with him and i said im not a member and he said so come anyway) but i dont no if hes just bn a friend or if he rally likes me???? One of my friend always asks him on aim if he likes me but he sais were just friends and she goes ya thats wat she said and the guy goes good! Plez dont tell me to ask him if he likes me things would get wierd if he said no! Wat do u think guys does he just wanna b friends or does he like me??? Some advice plez!

heyy girl !
well trust me i have lots of experiance, i think maybe the guys just a flirt. dont kall him dnt text him make him want you girl ! dont chase any guy !!

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i weight 197 any tips to lose weight

Drink lOts Of water. exercise 4 times a week for 30 min each time. dont eat fast food. try and cut out soda out your diet. if you really like it though try coke zero which has no calories. :) try lots of fruits and veggies no bannanas ! they have too much potassium.

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with and not ask for cell phone but email?

Umm sorry but dont understand your question

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ok so i've had a crush on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he said he knows what im capable of and he likes u. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP

ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused

Well to answer your first question.. maybe he dose like you or he might jus want to sleep with you. i suggest you tell your crush how you really feel for him dont keep any words back. & tell the other guy that your not interested in him at all & that you really jus want to keep it as friends & also make sure your lil sister is okay with you dating the guy you like because after everything your sister will always be there if you guys brake up, if you actually hOOk up.

your 2nd questiOn,, since hes going with his eXx. i suggest yOu gO to the game but treat him normal dnt make it seem like your interested. act like if you see him only as a friend play hard to gett guys absoluty LOVE the chase girl !! dress really cute and prettyy do your hair really pretty too. make sure you look your best not to impress him bt to make him want you :) well hope i wass help girl let me noe how it went !

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does anyone know any excuses that i could tell my parents when i come home with a hickey? they would kill me if they knew but i dont know what to tell them if they see it.. help!

a rashh you got nervous and started scratching yourself and it hasnt gone away

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I am looking for advice on a rape victim, keep the kid or not?

16 YEAR OLD GIRL.

Really, it's not the child's fault, they didn't ask to be killed because they were concieved wrong right?
But then again, having the kid will be a daily reminder, and ruin her future.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
ANY ADVICE?



Thank you for the time!

please dont kill him ! i have friend tht was raped and sufficated her child and is in jail. please just have the baby youl love it i garrantee you will.

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OK. Well I have a bf but am not planning on having sex THAT soon but I still have a question.

I have been hearing and reading [on here] that your first time hurts. And im wondering, does it hurt like REALLY bad, or is it worth it?? Because im kind of scared because I do not want it to hurt.

THANKS! any advice is wanted!
14/f

I dnt knoe why every1 exagerates about this. it dosent hurt alot. its a pleasurable pain.

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15/f

I'm mainly attracted to guys but I'm attracted to girls too... I've talked about having sex with girls... And i LOVE being eaten out by my dog... I like the thought of ANY kind of sexual experience (whether it's w/ a man, woman, or animal)


I'd do anything. so am I trisexual?


please don't assume that because i'm 15 I can't know what my orientation is. I passed puberty years ago. just treat this question as if it were coming from an adult.

ThATS jUST SiCkk GiRl ! POOR dOG !
STOP DOiN THT ! YOUR PROBABLy Bi BT DNT FCk UR DOG

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are you supposed to "get wet" when your gettting fingered?

Yea of course thats the point.

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when having sex what does it mean do go slow? and fast?

If you do it slowly it wont hurt as much if its your 1st time. and fast means like if your just soo horney lol.

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15/f if that helps.
ive been fingered before countless times and ive only had sex once but i have never bled.

is my cherry popped? or no?
thanks!

Some girls dont bleed when there cherry pops. its normal soo dont worry

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okay.. hah. well, me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year and blah blah blah. and i still havnt given him head yet. weve done everything else, except sex. and like i do want to do this but i just cant help but think that the idea of it is gross. i just have it in my head that itll be totally disgusting. and its not that im not mature enough or whatever because ill probably always think this no matter what age i am.. that is until i do it. so can anyone offer some reassurance or just personal experiences? thanks.

No you shouldnt do it. Only whores do that. Dont put yourself on that low level girl your more than that !

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16\ f

I am going to lose my virginity to my bf probably this weekend. Im just NERVOUS. Like I don't know what to do!? like he's a virgin too. im really excited AND READY... what should I tell him before we start!?

If you are 100% sure that you want to do it then go for it but remember, that going to change your whole entire life! so make sure that hes the one for you.

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