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Ok.. i've been like really moody or however you want to put it and all I keep doing is pushing my friends away. I also get mad over just little things that don't really matter but still piss me off. Am I depressed or something because I also hate my life. Help.. (link)
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ok if u keep pushing ur friends away all the time then they are defenetlly goin to get mad at u. u need to talk to them.if u r depressed maybe u need a councler, but those always arent the funest. maybe u need a new sport or something, just keep u busy, try new things everyday
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Lately my dad has been wanting to spend time with me, and for some reason I just really don't want to. I don't know why, but I feel uncomfortable. Like, he asked me to go to lunch, and I just said "I'll think about it", and then without telling him I went to a friends house, and slept over PAST the next days lunchtime, just to AVOID being asked again. What's my problem? I mean...I still like the guy, but I really want to b left alone. And lately, I've been liking my mom more. Pleeease help me!!! Thanks. (link)
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ok ur a girl and usually us girls feel more comfortable around them bcuz they are goin thro what we are. n not its not to weird to be hanging around ur dad. if ur want ur space just tell him. but i would give him a try. if u dont like it, then tell him how u feel
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I'm 12 and i like to watch soap operas... am i weird?? (link)
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Nope thats not weird! PLus its the summer and theres usally nothing to watch other than soap operas! lol So dont feel bad.
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what should i do when i really like a girl..but im scared to hurt her if we go out... (link)
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if u dont wanna hurt her then dont ask her out. just let her know how u feel about her. see if she feels the same way. just be super good friends. then u wont hurt her n u wont have to worry about anything bad happening. unless u truely do really like this girl. then go for it. dont be afraid of taking a chance. follow ur heart..it should tell u what to do. good luck dude!
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this guy goes to my school,well used to. and he is REALLY hot! but he had a girl friend,and new that i liked him. he was at a party and him and his gf were fighting. and he kinda liked me to. so he dumped her,and asked me out.now,im not usually slutty like that,but i said yes. well,after the party, i got home and thought about it. and i decided that i didnt want to go out with him anoymore bcuz i felt bad for the other girl,ya no? and so i called him and told him that i didnt want to go out with him.i think he said fine, but my phone broke up,and that was that.
but now,he keeps tellin my friends and other ppl that were still going out. i hate it,it drives me nuts! and im scared to call him up,cuz he always askes questions,and i feel uncomfortable.but if i let it go on, and get a new b/f,what will ppl think?
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u shouldnt care what other ppl think. its ur bussness. let then think what they wanna. even tho its not true. u need to talk to him. let him kno how u feel. even if u are shy, u need to let him kno that he needs to stop telling ppl lies. let him kno ur tired of the way hes been acting and stuff. tell him ur not goin out, and that u never were. u just wanna be friends, and thats it...hope i helped!
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Well i am really conufsed about this friend that i have. One second she wants to talk to me and she seems really happy but then another second she seems like she doesnt want anything to do with me. And i really wanna be friends with her but i dont wanna push it. And she also seems like she cares about some other people more than me. So what do you think i should do because i have already tried talking to her about it but i think she is just telling me what i wanna hear. So please help me!
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hehe i kno who u r but i will keep it a secret! lol ur a great friend n i would hate to loose u. n u dont wanna try to like impress her so she will like u more. u need to tell her that she needs to tell u the truth. its not worth a friendship is she lies to u. tell her if she doesnt tell u the truth then its over. tell her how u feel. talk to her in person so then u will really kno if shes lieing or not. GOOD LUCK!!!
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I like this guy alot, and he's my friends neighbor there no problem. we both flirtall the time (anthony and me). its just that at sometimes he'll go i don like you what are you doen here but he'll say it sarcasticly. and then at other times he'llplay footsie with me. i like him alot. but idk wheter should i confront him, or just keep things the way they are. i see him alot during the summer so that wouldnt b a problem.and hes a grade aahead of me idk if that might be the problemt too. please help (link)
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Definitely go up to him! He sounds like he really likes you, but is waiting for you to make the move. and don't worry about that one grade. some girls date guys that are 2, 3, or even 4 grades ahead, and that can be a problem. here's what i'd do, but if your kinda shy, this might not work.
~ you go up to him and sit right by him. you're just talking, whatever...FLIRTING...must flirt! then like just stop talking...so its silent. then smile and say, "you have something on your face'. he'll say 'where' and then gently, softly and slowly kiss him on the cheek (if your brave...THE LIPS) the relationship should go from there :)
hehe! hope it helps! good luck!
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kay, I'm currently dating a guy named Eric, but my ex keeps ciming around telling me he is going to use me and stuff like that, my ex wants me back, and he's trying hard to get what he wants, i haven't told him about Eric 'cause it's only been a couple days, is he jealous of my friendship with Eric that he knows about or is that just me? (link)
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i think he is jeoulos and he is lieing to u about eric playing u, because he wants u for himself only, i think u should follow ur heart, and if u like eric and if u think he likes u back go for it. ur ex is just making this stuff up bcuz he is jealous and he just wants u back.
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Most of my friends don't like one of my friends, and there is a good reason for this. Last night, I slept over my friends house who is one of the ones who doesnt like the other friend...and she was sayin mean stuff 2 the other friend on IM, and then I got on my screen name and the one who no one likes IMs me and asks "where r u?" so i signed off quick ssayin i hadda go, but I think she might've had an idea i was right there and think i was takin part in it. I just don't wanna get in the middle of the whole thing. There are some good reasons the rest of my friends don't like her, but I don't want to stop being friends with her or any of the other ones. If she confronts me again and asks where I was and finds out I was right there, what do I say? (link)
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Tell her the truth, if she is really your friend she would understand. Just tell her you weren't taking part in it, which sounds like you weren't. I'm sure you were trying to get them to stop, tell her that to, if you were. u cant lie to ur friends. if they dont like u for who are u or who ur hanging out with then there a waist of ur time. thats there problem that they dont like u for who u are. if they get mad at u then u need to talk to them about it n see what u can do to help and fix it. but dont lie to them
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There is this boy named Joseph he his really cute and really sweet and im really into him and he is into me to. But see he is friends with one of my friends his name is Donald. And Donald has a little brother named Bryan. Ok see my problem is all three of them like me and want to go out with me. But see i didnt know Donald and Bryan like me till recently. I asked y didnt they say any thing and response was cause joseph wanted to go with you but see i dont know if i want to go with joseph. I think i might want to go out with donald but i cant do that with out one of them finding out and turning into a big mess but i think i really do want to go with joseph what should i do sign~Triple Trouble (link)
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dont go out with any of them, that way no1 will get hurt. if u really like all of them then u will kno that u cant hurt any of them
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i am 14 and i am a female. i was wondering if i am only making matters worse . i have been helping my crush feel better about the fact that his crush doesnt like him. and at the same time i am trying to make his crush like him. she has a boyfriend. i am doing this bc i thougt maybe if i talk to him more and help him, maybe it will click that he likes me bc i am such a helpful person. should i keep up with my plan or stop it completely? (link)
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no no no dont stop. ur on a roll! lol keep talking to him and giving him advice or whatever he needs. start to hanging around him more like at each others houses or like goin to a party or something and let him see the real u.
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Hey. I'm a 13 year old girl who is obessed with being in a relationship. I can't be alone. I've been with my boy friend for 9 months and we've broken up numberous times and i just seem to get back with him. I thought the world was going to end when we broke up, almost like im obessed with being with someone, like i cant be alone. He doesnt always treat me good, but he does sometimes. I just dont know what to do anymore. Does anyone have any suggestions with what i can do. I've tried to get over it but i keep running back to him, like a lost puppy, and im afraid that this will lead to worse thing when im older and in a more serious relationship. Please help me.
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ok u do not need a guy to make ur life perfect or to even make u happy. thats what ur girls are for. ur just 13 and u should wait awhile till when u kno u r ready for a serious relationship. dont rush into things really fast. wait for the one u kno is the right guy. dont keep running back to him. ur not a little kid and if u keep doin it he will think u r a little kid and that u really are obsessed with him n he wont like it.
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Ok, this guy I met at a party well he likes me and I like him and he told me this and he told me he wanted 2 get 2 kno me better and he also said that he wanted 2 b in a relationship w/ me but yesterday i got an email from him saying this girl he had a crush on 4 a long time asked him out and now they're going out. what should I do? should i email him back and say how i feel? help!!!! (link)
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yes i defenetlly think that u need to tell him how u feel. i bet u he will change his mind, bcuz he will be mad bcuz he missed out on u. so tell him how u feel and see what he has to say
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i have a feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me, everytime i call some girl will answer and she says hes not there and just hangs up the phone without me even getting to say ok or bye, i know its not his mom cuz i know her voice and he doesnt have any sisters, and i know that no family is visiting. what should i tell him?? (link)
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tell him what u think is goin on, of coarse he will deny it but u should find out more clues first. u probablly are right that he is but once u find out that he is for sure..u need to tell him that u are goin to leave him. im sure u can find better then him bcuz if he is cheating on u then he doesnt resect u.
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idk what to do anymore. theres this guy that i met last summer, we hooked up n stuff..then stopped keeping in touch for the longest time bcuz he lost his cell phone...when he finally saw me one day in april, we kept back in touch n everything..we started to hang out agian.. we began doing more things together..but i feel like hes using me. when we're alone together..hes different.. he seems so into me..like he really likes me. hes not one you can trust tho. some of my friends think hes bad news and dont want me hanging out with him n his friends anymore. for some reason i cant do that. hes coming back to my school next year. im going to see him n his friends everyday. i still sorta have feelings for him..i know im going to get hurt. last night i had fun with them..but as the night went on, he started acting diff. idk if i want to deal with him anymore. im starting to like his friends more than him. i told him how i felt..he denies that hes only using me..but i just cant seem to believe him. should i keep hanging out with them..knowing someday i might get hurt..or just end it never knowing what would've happend? please help me im so confused. (link)
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Well if you tell him that you think he's using you, of course he will deny it, even if it were true. In any relationship you are going to take a chance, because anyone you give your love to could hurt you... no matter who it is. In this situation I'd say go with you instincts. Especially since you arent head-over-heals for this guy, you just kinda like him . Obviously your friends see something bad in him that you do too, make sure you figure out what that is and hope its not just fear of a relationship. :) Good Luck with that I hope everything turns out right!!
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I have a neighbor and he likes me he says and i really like him and i have liked him for a really long time and i have noticed lately that he has been avoiding me and it is really bugging me. i invited him to go to our school's fest thing and he said that he would call me back and he never did and i think he hasnt talked to me since then. its making me really sad cuz i wanna go out with him really bad! tell me what to do! (link)
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he probablly is avoiding you bcuz if u guys go out he woundnt ever want to hurt u. and he doesnt want to ruin ur friendship.
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hey umm i went out with someone named Kyle 2 years ago for 6 months and i dont kno what happened but we broke up. For a while now i have been getting all the feelings i had back. I really love him so much and i cant get over him! He likes my best friend and my best friend colleen flirts with him back but i told her i dont like him [[ i lied to her ]] and i really like him but its over. what do i do? (link)
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Talk to him, tell him ur feelings. Maybe he feels the same way about u but u just dont know it bcuz he might he afraid to tell u. U also need to tell colleen how u really feel about him. if shes ur friend she'll understand.
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It seems like everytime I'm happy.... something bad always happens! It feels like god doesnt want me to have a good life! If i meet someone i really like or something and he likes me or w/e..... it never works out.... or people dont seem to be who they really are! and i just lost my best friend!what should i do? (link)
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i dont know what to tell ya but just to keep urself busy. so u dont have time to think about all the bad things in life. And u shouldnt need a guy to make ur life happy or complete. Losing ur best friend is tough. U just need to give it time and talk to them. see whats going. and what u can do to help the situation. im sorry but the best thing i can say to you is try not to think about the bad things in life, keep urself bussy so u dont have time to. And dont always try to put urself down, when ur in a good mood, just relax and take it slow. everything will turn out.
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should i go back out with a guy that cheated on me 2 times?
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hehe i kno who u r but i wont tell any1! lol I would say no, dont go back out with him. If he cheated on you 2 times then hes obviously not the right guy for you and he doesn't respect you the way he should. Because if u go back out with him he just might end up hurting u again. Just try your best to be good friends. Follow your heart, it will tell you what to do.
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