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I am angry. I'm sure there are more girls out there who are as angry out there as I am. I am 17. I am so sick of pussy hungry guys. Why does it seem like now days all guys want is sex. They can't stick with one girl for at least a month. Its like, they can't ever get enough pussy at all. I am just sick of it. It's just so selfish and pig like. What is happening? It just seems to get worse every year. I know not all guys are like this, but most of them are...ew...its so irritating! I just want to hear your opinions guys/girls, what you think about what i'm saying. (link)
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Sorry to burst your bubble, but you're wrong.
All guys are like that even the gay ones.
Of course they don't play with kittys...
Just examine history, kiddo. Humans have been having sex as long as humans have existed. That's how we got here.
Of course each of us is an individual and as individuals we have our own individual sexual behaviours and preferences.
Find a person that you enjoy being with even though you are at the worst event you could imagine, then have sex with them whether they are male or female.
Realize that it is your responsibility to find and choose a companion that suits you, whether it's for a nite or a life time.
Otherwise you'll just be a man hating woman for the rest of your life.
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so me and my boyfriend had sex on wednesday the 18th protected. then like an hour later, he put it in for like 10 seconds unprotected and pulled out really fast and said "i could feel it start to come out but i know it didnt" and i could tell it didnt too. i was supposed to start yesterday (the 20th) but didnt, which is fine cause my schedule isnt completely set and is always a few days early or late. but i was wondering, since we had sex only 2 days before my period was supposed to start and we both know he didnt cum inside me, is there anyway i could be pregnant? please dont be mean to me abouot this, i really am nervous already. thank you:)
ps, im 16/f. (link)
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Keep it wrapped up from now on. Use birth control. Unless you want to be a pregnant teen on foodstamps and babymama assistance programs.
Go buy a pregnancy test and find out if you're pregnant.
If you are then time to talk to mom and/or dad.
If not then time to talk to mom and/or dad.
You need to be safe if you're having sex regardless.
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im sorry i hate to even ask this but hopefully someone else did the same dumb thing as me. So i had anal sex the other day not the first time but maybe the third and my ass is so swollen and red i dont know what to do does anyone know? I can barley move let alone walk around someone help please (link)
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Well now, let's take a look see shall we.
First off you don't say if you are male or female so I'll do the best I can.
Anal sex is not necessarily gross. Many many many people ENJOY it up the bum. And likewise many men ENJOY giving it up the bum.
That being said, see a doctor.
Make sure you are prepared to ask the questions you should, such as:
Am I permanently injured?
Should I discontinue with anal sex?
Are there any dangers in anal sex?
Does he have any cream or pain relievers that will alleviate your suffering hole?
I'm told that with time it get's better...
Happy Tails 2 U
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I'm 19 and I'm a bisexual transexual male, i have a girlfriend, but she's homophobic and says gays are nasty. She doesn't know about my transexual lifesyle. Well i think like a woman, feel like one and i told her i want to get a sex change and asked her if she would still care for me...she said no and that she would leave me
So i kinda have been behind her back with this man i really like, and he's gay. He told me that whatever makes me happy and i should go for it and he'll be there for me, boy or girl.
So what should i do, i don't want to live like this all my life
And who should i choose. (link)
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..............I say CHOOSE YOU...............
Dude, gender confusion is one thing, but sex change is SERIOUS.
But first things first, the girl is clearly not for you. She is homophobic and you are clearly behaving like a gay guy by sleeping with a gay guy so you should drop her. Just like that. After all, HOMOPHOBES are NASTY, right.
Now if being with a guy makes you happy, then try that for a while before you do the CHOP CHOP STUFF STUFF. That can't be reversed.
Besides do you have any idea the money and time and psychiatrists and surgeons it takes to turn a healthy boy into a psuedo non orgasmic female.
Just be yourself. Keep your body the way it is. You're beautiful the way you are man...that's my advice...
You could also watch "Priscilla Queen of the Desert" and "Torch Song Trilogy" with Harvey Fierstein. "Cat on a Hot Tin Roof" with Elizabeth Taylor might even do you some good.
Drink some cocoa and lay in bed with your man while you watch them.
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Okay i have a girlfriend, and I'm bisexual (mostly gay) and she doesn't support me at all. I want to break up with her so badly not that i want to hurt her but for 6 months now I've put up with her downing me. She lives with me and her family moved out of state, i want to break up with her but i don't want her to be on the streets or end up moving out of state. Because i want to still be friends and i slightly don't want to lose someone that's close to be. But when i think about it i get depressed. But i can't live my life like this and i don't want her feelings hurt either
Her feelings matter too, so please i need as much help as i can get.
Love Beau (link)
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Okay Beau,
Here's the skinny...
Many bisexual men see men on the DL (Down Low). They are satisfied with one woman and they keep their bisexuality secret. Some have one male lover for long periods, some keep several guys on call, and some sleep with random men anonymously. The women never know.
Some gay guys who want to hide in the closet date girls with low self esteems that will tolerate their bisexual affairs. Although eventually those can fall apart with her blowing up his spot.
It sounds to me like you are accepting that you are gay and not bi. You're just a gay guy who needs to talk to your girl "friend", because that's all she really is to you. Am I right? She wants it to be more, but you don't have it in you. They used to call those "fag hags".
You are not responsible for her, she is a grown person. Tell her that she's wrong for putting you down. If she gets angry and leaves, she'll find a place to live. But tell her that either she accepts you as you are or she has no place in your life.
I'm paraphrasing a line from the movie "Torch Song Trilogy" with Harvey Fierstein when he tells his mother that if she can't respect him then she has no place in his life. You should watch it, "Torch Song Trilogy" that is.
At any rate, stop wasting your precious gay time with this intolerant hag and find you a nice handsome gay guy who doesn't down you.
Or live the lie of the closeted man and cheat on your future wife.
It's ultimately up to you, it's your life.
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When I met him he was basically a prostitute. He was willing to sell himself to anyone for 50 dollars. I watched him do it. Later I convinced him that this was wrong and that he should not do that. I think he still does from time to time. He thought I was rich so he didn't try to charge me. Instead made me feel like I was important. He even moved in with me and became my best friend and secret lover. I guess with time he lost all hope of getting money out of me. Then one day he just up and left. Moved in with someone else. Told me it was platonic, but I soon learned that he was lying. He played a crazy game of roller coaster with me as all good players do. Kept seeing me the whole time he lived with this other person. He would even make plans for the two of us to travel together. Once he offered to pretend we were on our gay honey moon if I would buy us a vacation to Hawaii. He said often that he always wanted me to be there for him. Some of it was real. I mean he no longer thought I was rich. So he does care about me. I know that. But not as much as I care about him. When I met him I picked him up, brushed him off, and got him off to a better start in life. And he wanted to repay me. The thing is he has always lead a double life. The kind of double life that many gay or bisexual men have lead throughout history. Not being aloud to be with the person of their choice because society will shame them. So they hook up with someone more acceptable to society and then forget that they are living a lie. He will never change. So my question is...Do I tell this person that he has been "cheating" on them with me for their entire relationship? Or do I just walk away and let the chips fall where they may?
Everyone in this discussion is over 18 years of age. (link)
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Put the thing down and walk away slowly. If you want any chance of seeing this guy again DO NOT EXPOSE him as your SECRET LOVER. He will grow tired of living the LIE. You'll find another. Maybe he'll come back to you. Haven't you ever seen "Torch Song Trilogy" with Harvey Fierstein? You're trying to play this out like "Cat on a Hot Tin Roof" with Elizabeth Taylor.
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