i'm 15 and a girl and i have a best friend that is 15 and yes a guy. we like each other more than best friends and we really want to go out like boyfriend and girlfriend. the thing is my parents are very strict portuguese parents. THEY DONT WANT ME DATING UNTIL I'M 50!! i even asked my mom why she wont let me date..i asked if she didnt trust me and she just says well i dont ant any boy to take advantage of you and she doesnt want me to get hurt..and i told her that i'm not stupid & i know the consequences of everything..and its soo unfair because his parents dont mind..and my mom knows him well because he used to be one of her students but my father doesnt really know him at all..how do i get my parents to allow me to have a boyfriend? any tips? thanks =]
--jess
wow that stinks! we'll you should tell them I'm old enough to make my own descions. & let them meet the kid that you like. Just keep on talking to them i'm sure it will work out hunn.
xo Erikanne
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This is very embarassing to ask, but im sure you`ve heard worse so bare with me here.
Awile ago I had sex for the first time.. and it was towards the END of my period....so there was no disgusting stuff or anything like that..
but anyways
he didnt wear a condom so i was afraid i would get pregnant.. but 4 days later i started taking the pill..(birth control not the day after pill)
which i THINK kills the sperm when you take it..
so there`s no chance i could be pregnant right?
I mean I was on my period, it was my first time, AND i started taking birth control 4 days later.
Im pretty sure theres nothing to worry about hunn. It's a good thing you took the pill. But next time you have sex just make sure tha he is protected for your sake. =). Hope i helped you hunn.
xo Erikanne
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i've been feeling sad for a couple of months now because i felt that my bestfriends are drifting away. then yesterday, i was with my friends at a school basketball game and my bestfriend got mad at me out of nowhere. then i started thinking like always, but i started crying. i pulled one of my friends to the bathroom with me and stayed in there. then my friends and my bestfriend started coming in and they told me to come out. i came out, but my bestfriend started ignoring me. we went back to the game, but i couldn't stop crying. my bestfriend hasn't talked to me ever since and i think that she thinks it's her fault. i slept for 13 hours but i still feel tired and i've been crying for no reason. i have no energy to eat. what's up with me? what should i say to my bestfriend?
wow well it deff. seems that you need your bestfriend so talk to here about it. Hang out more. Ask her why she is acting like this... maybe that will help you. You don't want to loose a best friend over nothing =).
xoxo Erikanne
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hi people
well you know parents they should help u grow up and stuff but i am 13 yéars old and i dont need stupid parents like mine! they wont leave me alone they say: brush your teeth ever morning dont forget to wash your hair and then when we eat my dad always goes like: your holding your spoon uncorrect blablabla and i am not aloude to say anything than! well i dont know if every parents are like these and by the way once my mom said: dont listen to your music to loud and why dont you listen to jazz and not hip hop I LOVE HIP HOP! well what should i do now? please help!
hey =). I know excatly what ya mean hunn. The thing that you should do is talk to them about it.Tell them your old enough to do your own thing. You should also tell them that you like what you like (hiphop) & they can't change it.
xo. Erikanne
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Theres a new kid at my school. His name is sean. And hes really cute. I have yet to talk to him, but I just feel like its love at first sight. He's very short like me, punk style, like me, and hair down to his shoulders which I love on guys! The problem is, that he's a really bad kid and he smokes and alot of other girls like him. (preps and sluts)
I really think we would have alot in common though. I know I want to be with him and I was wondering if guys could tell me what they looks for/like in a girl and what girls do to impress guys.
♥ Thank you! (And by the way, it has been 5 months since i broke up with my really serious boyfriend and i think im ready to date someone again!)
We'll I think you should tell him before it's to late. You never know he could see something in you thats different than all the other girls like ( preps & sluts). & different is always better. So he's a bad kid...you can change that in him boyfriend or not if you like him you will always be there for him no matter what.
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Ok Im 15 nd having a baby nd will the baby take the fathers last name or mine or is it our choice?
wow it must be tough haveing a baby at 15. We'll...I think you guys should make the descion together. I mean if he wasn't there for you then the baby should have your last name but since it seems like he is there for you then you guys should make it together.
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14-f. Okay, well I have this problem.. I was dating this guy named Mark that lives about 15 minutes away from me.. who's 15. We were dating for a month & he broke up with me because we don't see each other that often. I've liked him for a few months & I still like him now. We still talk and he said that maybe we can start dating again once he gets his license (he's taking drivers ed)Well, the things is, I'm really worried that a year from now I won't have the same feelings for him. My other problem is, I've been best friends with this other guy named Ethan from the same town as Mark & well I've dated Ethan 2 times. I consider him my first true love. The only problem is.. he treats me differently while we're dating then when we're just friends.. like he finds these stupid reasons to fight with me all the time.. and well I think Ethan likes me again, and this whole time.. I've liked him & Mark. I've liked Mark for a few months.. and well I've liked Ethan for about 10 months. I really don't know what to do. I want to be with Ethan yet I don't want to get hurt, yet I want to be with Mark.. because I deffinetly want to be with him when he gets his license. It's really hard. Some of my friends don't like Ethan, yet some of my other friends don't like Mark either because well.. he takes dance class & likes to sing. That honestly doesn't bug me because he's the sweetest guy in the world, while Ethan just hurts me. I really don't know what to do. I'm stuck in the middle & I just need some help. Please help me & I'll rate you! I promise!!
ok this is really hard, but you should always chose the one that will never hurt lie & make you cry. So whatever one fights with you more is most likely not the one. Who cares what for friends think because you wanna make yourself happy not them. Maybe you should take some time off of both of them & have time for your self & just think. Or just think which one you know will treat you right & not hurt you.
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13/f i feel soo bad my bf whos 13 is gettin me all this stuff i found out bi my friend and i dont have any money to realy get him anything he asked me to mesure mr rist size and i was okay w/e i thought it was goin to be 4 some tackey bracelett but no he took my bff sarah with him to a place like tiffanys to buy me a real dimond bracelett and he got me a wicked lott of there stuff but i dont have anything for him and i cant even goto the store bc i got like 4 feet of snow so im like screwed what can i give him would burnin a cd work helpppp and fast thatx illl rate the highest
Yes you should burn him a cd of your favorite songs for him. You should also make him a card that say the things that you love about him. Yeah you will probably feel cheap but it's the thought that counts not how much money you put into it=). & im sure if he loves you w.e you get him he will be happy.
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