My name is Zach, im a laid back kinda guy i love people and i love sports, i understand people really, really well which is a major strength in making me a people person, iv played sports all my life. mostly basketball and wresteling. if you wanna know anything just ask me
E-mail: Garner_Guy@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: Austin Texas
Age: 17
AIM: Ask me
Member Since: January 3, 2006
Answers: 23
Last Update: January 10, 2006
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i am an 18 year old female. i have been on and off with this guy for three years and have had very good and some bad times...right now we are not going out, but we act like it. we are not seeing others and spend tons of time together. i love him and he used to love me but now he says he is confused about what love is. he doesnt want to go out and i dont understand how the title and how we are now are different. he might be going away for the summer. he is not seeing other people so i am wondering if anyone could explain maybe where he is coming from and if there is something i am not realizing or anything...thanks (link)
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iv had the same kind of thing going on in my life, cept of course im in the guys situation, its really hard to knoq if there is gonna be trust in the relationship, simply for the fact that you guys have been off and on for so long, it seems like its so easy to just run away from the problems because you arn't going out so there are no long term consquences and no restraints that says he has to be tied down to you.
or he could just simmply be afraid of the commitment, ethier because he dosnt know if you are everything he wants, or just the thought of being tied down itself
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Ok well theres two guys that like me, and ive known one has liked me for a while but i just found out recently the other one likes me. Well Mike (the one that has liked me longer) and i have talked longer then Kyle too and i dont know what to do cause i like Kyle more then Mike. I wasnt sure if i liked Mike when we started talking but im sure i like Kyle. And i don't know what to do cause Mike has liked me ALOT for a while now. But When i first met Kyle i thought he was cute but just forgot about it cause i didnt think he would like me. But now i know he likes me i think its cool cause i liked him first time i saw him. But the thing thats holding me back is cause i care about Mike alot and i dont want to hurt him by me going out with Kyle. Kyle and Mike are also friends by the way. So yea i have no idea what to do i really dont want to hurt Mike. I know he likes me alot and it would kill me to hurt him if i went out with Kyle. I have no clue what to do someone please please plleeasee help me. Thanks in advance!!!! And i will give anyone a 5 that is willing to help me cause i really really need helP!
JessIka♥xo (link)
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when i read this the first thing that came to mind was "damn this mike kid must really like her alot, which means that if you did choose mike, he would prly be a really really sweet and faithful boyfriend, on the other hand you have kyle who you sound like you are more attracted too, but posses a bigger risk. now im still kinda confused about how much you do or dont like mike, but as far as i can tell it dosnt seem like your crazy about him. so if you want a long, stable, reliable reltionship, i say go with mike, but if you dont mind the risk, then go with kyle. unless of course you are more worried about them and thier friendship, in which case you could say that you dont want to ruin thier relationship by going out with one and not the other, cuase it would make the other kid jelous.
i hope that helped... good luck
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i love this guy and we used to be friends and he has been acting all weird lately and i think he likes my friend and my friend likes him and she keeps saying well whats the big deal if i go out with him. i really want him back.
signed i love him (link)
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You need to tell her that you still care for him, if she blows you off and keeps going after this guy, then shes not a good friend and obviously dosnt care about you or how you feel, but if she is a good friend, like i hope she is, then she will ethier back off the guy and let you go for him, or you two will both agree to let him go, for the benifit of your friendship
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