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Okay so I'm pretty thin; 5'4 and 110 lbs. I really don't like fat, at all on girls. I think girls should be thin and wear a pants size no bigger than a 3 or 5. Five is pushing it.
All my friends are thin and have nice figures as well, like me but I have a few that don't. I mean, they aren't huge but they wear like a 5 in Abercrombie pants. And those of you that shop there know that their sizes run bigger. When I see them in like a bikini (we're always at my house laying out and stuff) I want to throw up.
I don't know why I feel this way and I feel extremely bad sometimes because in my head, I want them to loose weight.
Now, I assure you that I have never said anything along those lines to them and I NEVEERR would, ever. I know I have some sort of problem with weight so I know better than so say something to them.
Does anyone have any ideas on how I can get over this?
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Wow! My names Kelley I'm 17 5"4ish and weigh 99-100 lbs...now my question for you is why do you care about peoples weights? That's very judgemental!!!
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ok... yea.. i have this friend that i like alot and he knows that i do adn i was told that he said that he dont like anyone at the moment but when ever we go out to lunch and stuff cuz z group of friends and me go out to lunch from school, he like sits next to me and it seems like he flirts with me and stuff.... adn i like him alot but i dont know if he likes me and i want to go out with him.. so what should i do??? by the way im 16 adn female (link)
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Girl if I were you I'd flat out tell him how you feel, don't be shy just be strong! If you don't you could loose your chance! Good luck
Kelley
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I am a teenage girl. I get really horny and enjoy it when I see girls boobs. I'm not sure if this is unusual or not. I also get horny when I see guys to. I would never act in messing around with a girl. But I would and I have messed around with guys and I enjoy it. Guys give me pleasure, its just I also get pleasure from looking at girls. So do you think I am a lesbians or something?
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No hun if you like looking at both guys and girls...then that makes you a bisexual!!! If you need help my AIM screen name is DirtJumperKelley! Take care
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ok, i have this friend. she's a girl and i'm a guy. we're really close. we kinda flirt with each other but we do it in a friendly way. but she has a bf who thinks that i'm trying to steal her from him. we(me and my friend) keep trying to tell him that we're just friends, but he won't listen. then my friend and i went to a nightclub last night without him. well, the next day he found out that i was dancing with his gf(my friend) and he calls me up and he's like "You better F****ing stop that S**t or else i'm gonna F***ing beat the S**t out of you when i see you!" what i'm wondering is what should i do? (link)
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Hey if I were you I'd back off a little until something happeneds between them...I mean you wouldn't want the boyfriend beating the shit out of you! Just give it time ok? Take care
Kelley
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i just broke up with my boyfriend because one of his close friends told me many things he's been doing behind my back and my boyfriend called me to tell me he loves me and that's all not true, his voice was so sad.. how do i know which one's telling the truth?!! ! please i need help (link)
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I'd believe your boyfriend if I were you because close friends would lie....I know from experience because I used to be in your shoes.
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I'm 13 and i got my period about a year and a half ago and i've always used pads. i just recently tried tampons because i have dance preformances and cant wear pads because they will slide off my costumes. so for my first time, i tried my moms "playtex gentle glide" tampons and they're " super absorbancy tampons" is it okay that i used these? or do u have any beter recomendations?? thanks. i rate 5's (link)
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Hey try anything thats comfortable! I really don't use tampons because they kinda hurt, and I can't really find the right ones...but do whatever is comfortable I hope this helps.
Kelley
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ok here it goes -- my dad treats my mom like she's nothing! He yells, cusses..and so much more. I can't even count the amount of times he's called her worthless. And she can't do anything about it, because that's how it's always been in my culture, women have no say. Now this has caused alot of problems between me and my father, but that's not what I'm here to talk about now..now it's about my mom. Lately, I've noticed..it's been getting to her. She doesn't say anyting to him, but when he leaves...oh my. It can be like "sure, honey, I'll do whatever you please.." after he's said something rude to her. But the minute he walks out the door it'll be like "Sweetheart, tonight..sleep in my bedroom, so your father won't be able to find anywhere to sleep but the couch or somewhere else. And alot more. And I know it's stupid, but it REALLY hurts me. I cry alot about it because..he's turned my wonderful mom to..a miserable, bitter woman" She used to be such a good person, always wanting the best for everyone! And now, she just wants to harm and hurt my father. And it hurts. And I can't talk to them about it. What can I do? And for the record, my mom is a "shrink" and she keeps telling about her analyzations, like once..my dad was yelling at me and my brotehrs, and when he left she said "It's because of his childhood. His parents hated him, his siblings hated him..everyone hates him because when he was young he was always a very bad person who spoke rudely to people, and he was never loved..and blah blah blah, and that's why.." you know? And I don't want to hear that! It hurts ALOT to hear such things about my father, and to know how much my mom HATES him. And like, my mom has no friends, so I want to be there for her, no that I'm a teen, and I want to be someone she can talk to..I know she's doing it to release anger..but still it hurts. It's like the song "because of you - kelly clarkson" when I heard it, I cried all night. Because I totally understand, my mom is totally leaning on me, and she has no one else so I don't blame her, but still...have you seen the video for it? I can totally recognize! And I just don't know what to do!! PLEASE help me! ♥ thank you! (link)
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Hey if it gets worse and your father begins hitting you, I'd go to the police ok? If you need anyone to talk to if you have AIM feel free to IM me ok? My screen name is DirtJumperKelley. I hope you the best luck and your in my prayers
Kelley
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