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hey my name is evan and im almost 16 years old. i've asked some questions on here before about my cancer. i went to the doctor the other day after completing chemo to deal with my skin cancer. i thought i was getting better but my doctor told me that my cancer has advanced to stage 4 and gotten worst. then he went in the hall with my parents and left me alone. after about half an hour my mom came back in crying and hugged me and kissed my head. i asked what the doctor said and she said not to worry about it and then we went home. im really scared. i dont know whats going on from here. im really worried the doctor said im dying. even my brother was really nice to me the last few days and we basically hate eachother. what do i do? i dont want my parents to know i mite know whats going on cause they dont want me to know yet. what should i do? and do u think im right? (link)
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You absolutely HAVE to sit them down and tell them you're feeling this way. In depth and honestly. Tell them you need to talk to them and keep them quiet until you're finished. Tell them you want honesty and that what seems to be their lack of openness with you is causing you serious stress and paranoia. I must also point out that this is not helpful to your health, though I am sure they're doing it because they believe it's the best thing for you.
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Ok. So i just turned 13 this june and i am overweight but i am just a 36A . and i really want BOOBS!Bacause i am entering 8th grade and next year entering High school ! but i am wondering when i loose wieight will i grow boobs ? and also i have already had my period. and i am just about 5'5 HELP ! any advice ? (: (link)
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There's nothing wrong with being an A cup. If you're worried about being attractive- don't! Everyone likes different things and you're sure to find someone who is attracted to you just the way you are.
If you're only entering 8th grade next year you probably have a lot of growing to do. My breasts were still developing when I was a high school sophomore.
You're probably not even overweight, many people at this stage in life think they are when they actually aren't. "Baby fat" is also still playing a big part in your life. As you continue maturing you'll take on a more feminine shape, even if you don't lose weight.
Losing weight though, will not prompt larger breasts. Sorry!
You're beautiful the way you are! If you're so worried about your weight try eating healthier and doing more physical activity- but don't try a diet. They're more stressful than helpful and stress blocks your ability to lose weight.
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Okay, so I'm a 17f, and my guyfriend is coming over tomorrow (hes the same age). The thing is, I've never had a guy come over before and it will be awkward for me to bring home a guy to meet my mom for the first time. We are kinda dating and it just seems strange having a guy around her, cuz she kind of bugs me about dating every guy I know, which I don't do. Anyhow.. how can I have him come over and feel comfortable? Thanks! (link)
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Just let it happen. The more you worry and prepare the more of a climax your stress will come to when he actually does come over. Just tell your mother you're very nervous and explain why and she'll understand (thought it might not seem so).
It's always a little uncomfortable the first time.
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I have been having my period for like 2 years now and I always use pads. My best friend is really pressuring me to wear tampons so we can go swimming next week but I'm afraid to. I really just don't want to do it. I've read things like it can hurt and I really don't want my vagina parts to hurt because I put a tampon in during my period. Im happy with using pads. Is that normal to be afraid to use tampons? (link)
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It is 100% normal to feel that way. Usually when you first use one it feels uncomfortable but it's because you're not used to wearing them and you're aware of it's presence. After using them for a short while you become accustomed to them and don't even give it a second thought.
Don't try them for the first time just before swimming, though. You won't be used to them at all and it'll upset the good time you could be having.
Go to the store and buy some tampons, regular size fits most, and use them. They come with a handy little instructional paper on the inside on or on the box that tell you exactly how to use them. Pretty soon you'll be so used to it that it'll be second nature to you.
If regular doesn't work (which it usually does) then try smaller ones. Remember though, it's going to feel kind of tight where you're not used to it yet. Give it a try before switching sizes.
Just change them frequently (as directed) or more-so if you have a heavy flow.
They can cause a bit of dryness when you first start using them or if you leave them in too long, but otherwise you will be fine.
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hey how can me and my dude do doggy style without me queefing? (link)
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That's a question you have to explore, experiment with, and answer for yourself. There's nothing wrong with it, but if you want to try and find a position where it's less likely try using different methods of being propped up with pillows, the edge of surfaces like beds and tables, or even sex equipment if it's available to you.
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Okay, so I'm desperate for someone's opinion right now. I recently, on July 12, had sexual contact with someone who I really shouldn't have. If I were to get pregnant, the world might explode and my partner and I would be exiled from our families.
So, here's what happened: we did everything, except we did not have sex. However, there was a point where he was on top of me and (I was wearing yoga pants and underwear,) but he pushed himself right into my vagina. I mean, he didn't go inside me, but he was pretty close to it. He might have a little bit, but not much at all. He was attempting to grind into me since we couldn't actually have sex. (He had no condom with him.) And when this happened, it freaked me out a little, so after like thirty seconds or so, I changed positions with him so that he was not doing that. To be honest, I didn't think much of it at all, until now, July 23. About two nights ago, I got a major head ache and some side cramps. The next day, today, I had intense side pains and just a little bit of a head ache when I woke up in the morning. My back hurt really bad, so I took an Aleve. It seemed to somewhat work. Later tonight, I had very minor side pains and lower abdomenal cramps. However, about two or three hours ago, I noticed my body temperature felt hot, but I was cold. I took my temp and got a response of 100. So I definitely had a fever. I haven't taken anything for it. I typed my symptoms into google and got "early pregnancy symptoms." So, of course, I began freaking out and remembered that night where I had sexual contact.
Basically, what I am asking is, do you think I am pregnant. Remember, I was wearing yoga pants.
Should I buy a pregnancy test, or am I freaking out for nothing. Please, please help me. Because if I am pregnant, some serious shit could go down and everyone's lives will be fucked up.
I'm sorry if I sound stupid. I just need someone to calm me down. Just don't lie to me. I'm hoping I am just catching a virus or something.
Thank you in advance! (link)
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You're almost DEFINITELY just scaring yourself but don't sweat it, it happens to everyone when they're at 'that age.' The cramps and headache can be from the stress of worrying.
Chances that you got pregnant from even the most passionate dry humping are slim to none, emphasis on the 'none.' This could be a sign for you, though.
From your question I understand if he'd had a condom you might have had sex? There is a much larger chance of getting pregnant when using a condom than there is of simple dry humping. From the way you described things, this is not a chance you need to take.
An additional word of advice: never make important decisions while sexually aroused. Chemicals in your brain released during stimulation impair your judgement in exactly the same way many drugs do. So don't do it.
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Well I'm not sure where to begin but it seems my past is always afecting every dream every desier and hopes that I have now in the present I was always told that the past is the past and it shouldn't. Be dug up but its always there kicking me in the teeth .I'm not a bad person.in fact I would give the shirt off my back to a complete stranger but people always take advantage of my kindness when I was 16 my mother devorced my dad and I was emancipated as an adult I was living on my own since then I'm 39 now my family has always treated me like an outcast I'm with a woman now we live together as comon law I talk to her about my feelings but I get no comfort just suck it up its ok but its not ok I regret everything that has hapend to me in my past and I can't let. Go of the rejection my family has brought on me maybe its my fault maybe I got what I deseve and just have to live with it the rest of my life and to think nobody understands or even care what I go through everyday I'm still crawling to the otherside but can't. Move forward because I'm in a box and I'm sufacating in my own sorrow is there any hope for me ? (link)
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The problem here is probably that you just don't see people caring because you are so affected by your past. History is a great thing to learn from but not to control your life. This is something only you can change.
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What can I do to be the center of attention at school this year? I'm tired of being overlooked. I dont want to do anything extremely bold though. (link)
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Just be you, but maybe be a bit bolder about it. If you're normally overlooked and tired of it express yourself as you usually would but with a bit more enthusiasm. People are sure to notice you.
Just be sure you're not attracting the wrong kind of attention by doing stupid things. That impresses no one.
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How can I makeover myself before school starts. I'm already working on losing weight but what else can I do? I want to turn people heads at school in September. (link)
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If you just want a fresh look try a new haircut or hairstyle. Perhaps you can try out some new makeup products or styles of clothing. Do whatever you're comfortable with and do it in a safe, healthy way. Don't hide the real you- just accentuate your already existing natural beauty.
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How can I act like a musician at school? I play guitar and piano but how can I show people? I'm not in band so I cant bring my guitar to school. (link)
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It's not about acting the part, it's about being yourself. There is no way to "act like a musician" because musicians are individuals like the rest of us and belong to a group of people more prone to showing it.
If you want to connect with other musicians then talk about your passion for music, meet other musicians, and express yourself in any way that is safe and true to you.
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