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when you date a guy, but he doesn't send anything to you or call you or email you or anything on Valentine's day.
Do you just break up with him? Or you call and ask him what's going on? (link)
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aye chicka lemme lay this down for you, if it gets to valentine night and homeboy aint call or nuttin yet, you never call them, let him realize that he fucked up and he'll call you, no matter how hard it is, DONT CALL, TEXT, EMAIL, NUTTIN...
All guys are idiots no matter what anyone says, and he will eventually realize what happena nd beg for your forgiveness, but if he goes along time like 2-3 days without contacting you, then you send him a text saying, "Yo loser dude did you forget about me? Well I think we need to talk, get at me." or something like that.
But don't panic thats tha worst thing to do, panic or flip out.
See valentines day is my birthday as well, and my man hadn't called me all day, but yet i got calls and deliverys from all my homies all day long, but at 9:30 that night he calls me and tha thing is since he was working (which i knew about) plus he wanted to be tha last one to call me to tell me happy b.day and v.day.. He wanted to be on tha phone longer then anyone who would ever tell me happy b.day, and we talked until 12:30....
So just dont panic okay...
hope i helped holla...
.Da One'n Only.
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Ive known this kid for about 2 years and Ive always had a little crush on him.
We got to be better friends and i started liking him alot and we had sex and all that stuff.
Then, rumors spread and he hated me.
After a while he started talking to me a little then not talk to me for weeks then talk to me again and repeat.
Sometimes it would be a good conversation,sometimes It just wouldnt.
He acts like he hates me ,hes always being mean to me and stuff.
His best friend said he likes me , and he does that because alot of other guys hate me [which is true]
His friend is a truthful person, so I believe him and his friend said he wanted to do me ,etc.
But he continues to act like he hates me and is so mean to me!
I dont know what to do , i love him so much But i cant tell him becuase he has a girlfriend.
I need help!
15/f/CA (link)
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You need to tell ya boy that you wanna know whatz good with you two? If yall having this lovers and friends, or a friends with benifits thing because you don't wanna be treated like a use n abuse.
So just be straight up and tell him even if its hard to let if know and dont have sex with him until he tells you whatz good.
hope i helped holla
.Da One'n Only.
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So there's this guy "tyler" who likes me. I mean REALLY likes me. Now tyler is not the best-looking guy in the world, but he's amazigly nice. He has asked me out a few times, but I've always said no. There are just some things I cannot stand about him, like that he is really into drugs, he's practiclly an alcoholic, and again he's not the best-looking guy in the world. Since we live really far away, we usually talk online, and we've become really good friends this way. When I see him in person, though, I keep thinking about his faults and I can never see myself with him, though I can when we talk online. Because of this, I've come to think that I'm being very shallow about this whole situation...but then I think would I really be happy with him and say I would not so therefore I am not being shallow. It's been bothering me for like forever, so please, what should I do about this whole thing, and am I shallow?
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iight chicka you need to tell ya homeboy "tyler" whatz good because if you dont have feelings for him he might get tha wrong intentsions. He might think that you guys are just talking (getting to know eachother better) when you just wanna be friends. Set homeboy straight and tell him that you are really feelin' this whole drugs and alcohol thing, and let him know most girls arent really into that, so if he ever wants a girl he might wanna think about tha next time he wants to get blasted or drunk. But tell him you ont feel for him tha way he feels for you and you really just wanna be friends.
hope i helped! holla
.Da One'n Only.
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Okay so when me and my bf makeout we sometimes like lay on top of eachother and he will put his penis like were having sex(that type of position laying down) and it will touch me down there and itll like feel good or whatever..and i get this feeling....(the really good feeling is for like 5 seconds)but then like right after its like i lose it and i just want to stop for some reason cause i already hit that point. i dont get it cause i still want to makeout and touch and stuff but part of me doesnt agreee? can someone help me whats going onnnn (link)
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okay homie listen up, first you need to tell ya boy whatz going down if he really likes/ loves you he will understand. But whatz going on wit chu is you get caught up in tha moment but then you come back to reality and you mind and body realized this is what you want at tha time, maybe your just going to quick that's all. You might be physically ready for sex but your mind isn't quite caught up with tha S.E.X. part of your body, and that's okay. You just need to let your boyfriend know whatz up...
hope i helped holla
.Da One'n Only.
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ok so my problem is that i dont know where to find a boyfriend. its not that i want one that bad its just that i hate all the guys at my school. the facts are im 15, ive had 2 boyfriends so far, and id like hooked up with a guy once when i was in europe. Now that i started highschool, i guess i had expected the guys to be cuter, and a bit more mature. well my question is where could i find cute guys to go out with, other than at school or the boring movies or the internet!? guys that arent sleezy and are boyfirend material. (link)
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hey shorty whatz good,
well you said mature, well look for juniors or seniors they maybe in the same school as you but its unlikely they will have classes with a freshmen.
I actually met my one and only in my work. So if you have a job or could get a job try that, or try going out with friends to parties, ive met a lot of guys at parties or threw other friends. Maybe you could chill with your guy friends more they might have other friends or cousins you dont know about...
hope i helped holla
.Da One'n Only.
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theres this girl i like and i think she likes me too but she said she cant have a boyfreind till shes 16, i want to ask her out but shes a realy nice girl and i am kinda shy what do i do? (link)
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lol omg okay i can deffinetly help you with this situation since this was situation up until litteraly yesturday when i turned 16.
I actually have a lot of guy friends who have your situation some are waiting for there girls to turn 16 others are tryna work it out. But me i wasn't suppose to date until 16 either but a guy who was also my closest homeboy waited 8 months for me, even though we quit it before i turned 16. Still because he loved me he wanted to wait, so if you love someone you can wait forever for them, but if its just a crush you will get annoyed with the situation.
hope i helped holla
.Da One'n Only.
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when a guy wants to hook up with you, does that mean he finds you attractive? also, will an experienced guy think it's cute if the girl he wants to hook up with has never been with another guy before? but like he doesn't know i've never been with another guy before. i know he isn't liek straight up using me either. he thinks im cute and likes my personality (his friends say so, and i think i can trust them, but im not sure). and like if my GUY friends see us talking, they can tell that he likes me. by the way he's 2 years older than me, and isn't known for using girls what so ever. what do you think?
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iight homie i feel ya situation especially because of tha age difference. You deffinetly meed to get to know him better even if you think you already know him you never know there could be things he's just not telling you. You know whatz good if he wants to hold your hand or kiss you in public. That's a big step because it's saying i don't care who sees us this is how i feel.
OH AND WHEN YOU SAID THIS....
"also, will an experienced guy think it's cute if the girl he wants to hook up with has never been with another guy before?"
That's really good because guys like girls who havent really slept around that much, especially if they are a straight up virgin because that just lets them know something good about chu...
hope i helped!!! holla
.Da One'n Only.
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Ok My name is Meghan and in 14 years old and i like this boy that goes to my school and his name is Sean and we were like bff's and then i started to like him and he started to like me but we did'nt go out because he had a gf.Well then after we told each other that we liked each other we stopped talking and now him and his gf broke up and were talking again but i don't know if he still has feelings and im afraid to tell him how i feel. (link)
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Hey what'z good shorty iight imma help you out...
First be straight up and tell him how you feel but tell him you dont want it to effect your friendship with him. Because he might still have feelings for you, n you never know he might have broken up with his chick because he has feeling for you, and he might be waiting for you to make tha first move you never know unless you say something. just make sure you tell him you dont want it to effect your friendship because boyfriends will come n go but if you true ride or die friends, homies for life that's never gonna change.... hope i helped holla!!
.Da One'n Only.
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I was in class today and this girl on campus i kind of know was looking in my direction and it seemed liked she was looking directly at me so i looked back at he rnot a dirty look but a half smile look and she begin moving her lips but i didn't know who she was talking to or what she said but whatever she was sayiing it looked like it was being said with an attitude so later i asked her was she trying to tell me soemthing not in a attitude kind of way but like i was asking a general question. Was i wrong and should i feel embarassed? (link)
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iight homie imma holla at cha question! Don't feel embarressed some chicka tryna grill you and all you did was question it cuz you wasn't about to have that. If she starts mean muggin' you again, just be straight up and say yo what'z good.
hope i helped!! holla
.Da One'n Only.
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I have been dating this guy for about 9 months, well actually we just broke up on january the 21st. I haven't spoken to him since. we got mad at each other on that particular day. the problem is we have sometimes went weeks without talking to one another and i dont think that is fair if im supposed to be his woman there should be strong communication. in the beginning it was good he was treating me nice and we were doing stuff normal couples do, however it seems every time we would see each other we would have sex and i beleive it should be more to a relationship then just sex. what should i do i really miss him how would i know if we are really broken up. I mean i know we are not together we havent spoken in so long his last words was dont call me anymore because he thought i was talking to another dude. do you think we are broken up, do yall think he has moved on or what. (link)
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Yo shorty I'm sorry yo man is trippin' but i feel ya i was with my ex for 8 months and tha last 2-3 just sucked, but mostly the last month. One day when he finaly called me back i flipped out on him and set him straight i told him everything i was feeling and how badly he had hurt me. Then he realized what an idiot he was, then we was chill for a week and christmas week of 06' i just for get it i rather just be friends. It took him awhile to adjust but me and him are still homies cuz that's what we were before we hooked up. But now I met tha man of my dreams, lol. Well at least someone that treats me right. So my advise to you is call him tell him whatz good n try not to give in and ask him to take you back because its not worth putting your self through that. There are plenty of other and better guys out there. Trust me.... holla
.Da One'n Only.
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