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relationship problems
I have been dating this guy for about 9 months, well actually we just broke up on january the 21st. I haven't spoken to him since. we got mad at each other on that particular day. the problem is we have sometimes went weeks without talking to one another and i dont think that is fair if im supposed to be his woman there should be strong communication. in the beginning it was good he was treating me nice and we were doing stuff normal couples do, however it seems every time we would see each other we would have sex and i beleive it should be more to a relationship then just sex. what should i do i really miss him how would i know if we are really broken up. I mean i know we are not together we havent spoken in so long his last words was dont call me anymore because he thought i was talking to another dude. do you think we are broken up, do yall think he has moved on or what.
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Yo shorty I'm sorry yo man is trippin' but i feel ya i was with my ex for 8 months and tha last 2-3 just sucked, but mostly the last month. One day when he finaly called me back i flipped out on him and set him straight i told him everything i was feeling and how badly he had hurt me. Then he realized what an idiot he was, then we was chill for a week and christmas week of 06' i just for get it i rather just be friends. It took him awhile to adjust but me and him are still homies cuz that's what we were before we hooked up. But now I met tha man of my dreams, lol. Well at least someone that treats me right. So my advise to you is call him tell him whatz good n try not to give in and ask him to take you back because its not worth putting your self through that. There are plenty of other and better guys out there. Trust me.... holla
.Da One'n Only.
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It's clear to me that he already moved on and you certainly should to. Relationships should not be based on sex and should be based on communication. If you were going weeks at a time without talking, that certainly isn't considered a relationship to me. There are way better guys out there than him. You deserve someone that you can spend time with and actually talk to and someone that won't want to have sex every single time you're together.
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