hey em this sounds soo stupid but i love attention last year i was a huge nerd now this tear i making so many friends i cant spend time with all of them and losing them can you help plez w/b soon plez (i bet i sound like a freak)
signed drama in tha hood
well.. I know its hard having sooo many friends and they feel left out when you spend time with the other one,but try to spend time with each one of them not hurting the others feelings.Cause i have alot of friends too and they get mad when i dont invite them places. So just try your best to make each one of them feel loved! luv ya! hope i helped!
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hey girly
ok i have this boyfriend and he really wants to have sex and im not really ready for that soo.. could you please tell me what should i do? break up w/ him have sex or just tell him no?
i REALLY need HELP
Well, all i can really say.. is follow your heart. Do what you think is right. If you want to have sex then do it! lol but if your not ready tell him that your not. Chances are he will understand. Luv ya! Hope i helped!
xOxOxOxOx Em
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Ok some of my friends are telling me that I've changed so much. and it's true cuz this year I've gotten meaner and it seems like when i get to have a good friendship w/ some1 i always screw it up!i have no idea how to tell people that i know I'm changing and i have no idea why!!
First of all sit down with your friend and ask him/her how you have changed.. And how you can try and stop it. try to stop your anger coming out of your friends. When you get mad this is sometimes what i do, get a pillow and SCREAM into it! lol believe me! it helps! just try to be yourself! hope i helped!
xOxOxOxOx Em
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ok i like this guy but i dont know if he likes me back.
also im not sure if i should tell him or not
signed
-confused-
hmm this is a toughie. well first of all you should get to know him better so you feel more comfotable around him..Then when you feel the time is right to tell him go ahead and tell him. If you really like the guy tell him how you feel and he will understand. thats all i can say! hope i helped!
xOxOxOxOx Em
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hey em i have this freind who really likes this guy but the guy really dosent notice her she try really hard to get him to notice her but nothing works so what can i do for my freind
sighned dazed and confused
well tell ur friend to get to know the guy a little more, take a chance to get to know them a little better ya know? Talk with your friend and tell her to be herself! dotn change for the guy to like her. he will start to notice her a little bit more and more each time they are together and hopefully they will make a good relationship!! hope i helped! luv ya
xOxOxOxOx Em
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hey i like really need help wit my fasion sence cuz my mom still picks out my cloths and then like yesterday i went to the mall and i wanted to get this really cut shirt at hollister but then my mom said that it was inapropret and that she didnt want to she her only daughter in that and it was like one of thouse button up shirts what do i do {momma's girl}
s plz it is spring break!!!!!!
Try to tell your mom in a polite way the way you feel about her making choices for you. Say im growing up and i think i can pick out my own clothes, mom. Just make shure to say it in a polite way, She will understand eventually. If she doesnt get the message sit down and talk about the way you feel. Mom's can get up in your buisness too much.Just try to explain it to her the best way you can. Hope i Helped!!
xOxOxOxOx Em
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Hey Em. Look you know how much I like this guy but Im not exactly sure how I should be handeling this. See a couple of my friends say I should ask him out instead of waiting, but I'm not so sure. PLEASE help
ok.IF you want to ask him out ask him out. Whatever you are cofortable with. Get to know him a little more, and do more stuff together, then once you feel really comfortable around him go for it! No matter what your friends say do what you feel is right for you. Follow your heart! Hope i helped! luv ya
xOxOxOxOx Em
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Yeah! I'm an unfashionable person and next year i wanna shock all my friends. any advice |unfashionable gurl|
Dear Unfashionable Girl,
well all i can say is dont get too far with your fashion sense. Like become a whole different person. Just wear something you feel comfortable in. And wear somethign you would want to wear, not what someone else wants you too. And if you need any advice on what to wear i'll be here for you whenever! Hope i helped!
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yeah... i REALLY like this dude and i already know he doesn't like me... how can i get him to like me?
ok.. Just be yourself, try to spend more time getting to know the dude.. When you know more stuff about him make plans together and become better friends. He will probably start likeing you a little bit more from time to time. When he likes you enough to ask you out, he will! this takes alot of time and courage to make a good relationship. Hope i helped!
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I am kinda nerdy and i like this guy but the prob right now is he is popular what do i do i am really strugling with this and o yera i am in your science class from science geek
Just be yourself, Try to get the guys attention. Make a " date " a study group or go to the movies, let him get to know you better. Tell him the way you feel when you get more comfortable around him.If you get to know him and still like him take it to the next level do things that have to deal with you getting closer together. Remember dont change the way you are just for the guy to notice you. Try to be yourself and in the end he might see some relationship between you two. Good Luck i hoped i helped.
xOxOxOxO Em
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well i like this guy but number 1 he has a girlfriend and number two i dont know if he likes me or not can u hwelp me pleez!!!!!!!!!!!!
luv ya write back asap!!!!!!!!!!
well to get his attention maybe first hang out with the guy more. But dont get his girlfriend involved. Make plans that just you and him know about and be yourself and maybe he will get the picture. Thats all I can say
xOxOxOxOx Em
good luck
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i have to do a oral presentation tomorrow and i am NOT good at this at all. when i start talking i usually forget and i dont know what to say next so i bascially stumble, so i need GOOD tips on how to focus and i do have notecards butt i cant use them alot so PLEASEE help me !!!
ok heres some tiops on Oral presentations:
1. You can speak in front of your family first and then see how it will feel with a few people.
2. Have friends practice and help you learn your lines.
3.Make Notes on where your going to be if its going to be comfortable and make u secure.
4.Just do your best and you'll do GREAT!
xOxOxOx Em
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i'm a sporty girl and i don't have much of a fashion sense. any advice for this sporty girl? thanks tons!
Dear Sporty Girl,
Just wear what fits your personality. And always make sure you match every once in a while. Just Wear what makes you feel good about yourself and whats comfortable to you.
xOxOxOx Em
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I REALLY like this guy but I already know he doesn't like me back. I want him to like me back and all my best friends tell me to get over him but i can't. He's a really sweet guy and i always see him everyday... how can i get him to like me?
Well.. all i can say is be yourself try to act more emotional when your around him then maybe he will get to like you a little bit more than a friend. If you really like him try to be more affectionate around the guy. Thats all i can say. good luck
xOxOxOx Em
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when you feel like no one cares about you what do i do
Just get involved and get out there and be yourslef and maybe more people will want to hang out with you and they will notice you more.
xOxOxO Em
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theres this guy i like and he knows i like him.he doesnt go to my school! And im trying to figure out how i can pop the question --will u go out with me! He said that he would think about it! What does that mean?? Does he like me??
Chances are.. he might or may not. Just give it some time and maybe their will be a good relationship.
xOxOxO Em
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When is a good time to tell your boyfriend of a year that the relationship is getting too serious and you're not realy for it?
The time when you feel uncomfortable and just tell him how you feel and if he doesnt understand just say how about we be friends until i feel more comfortable.
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