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Okay well theres this guy.. we went out twice and we like just broke up on the last day of school. Im still not COMPLETELY over him.. HOW DO I GET OVER HIM!?!? ahh please help me!!
Signed,
Broken Hearted (link)
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I learned that you can't get over somebody unless your heart wants to. If your mind and your heart both want to let him go, then it will happen. Unfortunately, if your heart doesn't want to them i have no clue if you can get over him. First, it will take time. What I do (i dont know if you are spiritual or not) I just ask God to help me get over him if it is his will for me to.
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I know this boy and i have liked him for a long time and still like him, but recently i found out that he liked me before i liked him. Do you think he will have completely moved on and that its hopeless for me to still like him or do you think he may still have feelings for me? (link)
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Personally, I think that you should tell him you like him. It will be really freaky at first, but you should just let him know because if he DOES happen to have feelings for you then that is good :)
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Hey Le.. you probably know who this is after u read the question...
Ok, so there's this boy and well... I LOVE HIM! But he like HATES my guts because I went out with him before and did something stupid (i broke up with him) I care for him and he does know... but he won't really tell me anything on how he feels towards me. I really want to know and I really want to give up on him! But something in my heart tells me "No... don't... it will just take time for him to realize it's you he wants..."
please leanna... help me!
Love-
Confused Secret Lover (link)
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Dear Confused Secret Lover,
haha yes I know who you are! I don't think he hates you, I think that he is just stunned because you haven't really talked since you went out then all of a sudden you like him and he probably doesn't know what to do! If you want to give up on him, go ahead. But, if your heart doesn't you don't have to! Most of the time, love doesn't go our way; so we have to get used to it. When that special person comes, you will just know it!
I hope i helped!
~Leanna
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Okay.. so theres this boy. And hes really cute! But we dont know eachother very well in real life, but on the internet. Everytime i keep telling myself im gunna say hey to him! i gunna say it! But everytime im about to do it..I chicken out!! What do i do to find the courage to talk to him?
Signed,
Shy and Doubtful (link)
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Dear Shy and Doubtful,
First, you need to find out why you are chickening out. If it is because he might not think you are hott, or if you aren't what he expects, or something different. Now about talking to him, if you say that you will say hey then make a commitment to yourself not to chicken out and plan in advance when you will say hey, so it won't just pop on you. If I didn't answer it right then you can just e-mail me if you want to or if u have anymore questions :) kk or you can post them here again.
Leluvsyew123@yahoo.com
thanks!
i hope i helped!
~Le
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well... this boy, i went out with him before... and i was a dumbass and broke up with him.
I've been having feeling for him again but he HATES me cuz i hurt him. idk what to do!
i want him to be mine
but he hates me...
ahhhh leanna! please help me!
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Well just write him a note saying that you are really sorry about breaking up with him that you were an idiot and tell him that you love him thats all you can really do. Also you can pray.. because everything will work out as God planned for our lives; for the good, or for the worse
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Hey Le! Okay.. i have a boyfriend but we never get to hang out outside of school because the other ones always busy. Whenever i am about to see him or see him my stomache starts to hurtt reallllyyy bad. So i know i like him. But,alot of his ex-girlfriends are my friends and he has broken up with all of them because of some lame reason. And one of them tells me he's a player but idk if its true and i HATE the thought of being cheated on.But i dont want to talk to him about it cuz i would feel like a loser.. What should i do!!?? Thanks for your help!
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Love Crushed (link)
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Dear Love Crushed,
Well just tell him he will appreciate it.. If he doesn't then hes stupid and you shouldn't be with him anyways. Just talk to him about it if he thinks your a loser and breaks up with you then hes missing out. And he would be totally retarded Just plan something in advance or something =] hope i helped!
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ok, I used to be a very spiritual person. I loved God with all my heart. But...most of the time I feel as if He isn't there. I dont really feel it. My family never goes to church and I never seem to have time to read the Bible. I sometimes question whether God is real. Is He there? Does He hear me? It seems like none of my prayers ever get answered. What can I do to become closer to God like I used to be? Is it normal to question these things?
_Doubtful&Distressed_ (link)
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Dear Doubtful and Distressed,
First I used to NOT be a very spiritual person with my head in the clouds i was just doing what everyone else was like cussing. but then one day i just pulled my head out of the clouds and i used to think that i didnt have anytime for God but we do! we just choose not to make time for him just get a devotional and do it before you go to sleep even if you are tired. that's what i do I sometimes question if God is real also but who would make all this stuff up! yesterday at church our old preacher preached a sermon because our regular one wasn't there and he said for 20 years he wasn't able to sleep well he would always have a nightmare like the same thing every night but just in different ways like that he would miss the bus or be late to preach or when he got on stage he forgot shoes or something and when he was getting ready to preach the night before he just prayed God PLEASE take away those dreams let your blood that you shed for me scare those dreams away and God please let me have a good night's sleep and he slept like a baby he didn't have those dreams I know God is there you just have to make time. God put us here and the whole purpose for our life is suppose to be to serve him so you have the time but we just dont do it. As in movies they say "Seeing isn't believing, believing is seeing" it is the same way with God you just have to trust that he is there. yes it is normal to question those things I do it! everybody who believes in God does it God might not answer your prayers because he doesnt think that it is the time for them to happen or it might not be his plan for your life. You just have to keep praying it if you pray it once he might not answer it but if you do it like every night until it happens or something i'm not sure. But just don't give up on him yet he is always there for us.. always. I hope i helped some!
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Okay.. these 2 guys that are my really close friends are fighting cuz someone told one of them i said that the other one was starting crap about him. So now, they are both pissed and wont even talk to me.. i told them i was sorry and that i didnt do anything that was meant to hurt them but what else should i do to get them to trust me again?
Signed,
Caught-In-The-Middle (link)
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this is weird because the same thing happened to me last year some girl told one of my best friends that i was talking crap about her and then they started just telling random people i called them a bitch or something well i think that you did all that you had to do you said sorry and thats all you can do and if they were really your friends they would accept your apology but just give it some time and it will blow over if you were really one of their close friends.. hope i helped!!
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Ok... all my bffs (i have three or four) all r EXTREMELLY pretty and all have bfs... but when it comes to me I'm not pretty and stuck being single... and they are always talking with their boys and i feel left out cuz i'm stuck there talking to who ever listens... what should I do? *confused and single* (link)
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I bet you are pretty because in the bible it says that God thinks we are ALL beautiful ok I like being single better than going out with people because its just more fun to me if your friends are like leaving you out then just confront them // tell them// i wish u best of luck and i hope i helped !
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I like this person at school, but i dont have the nerve to ask her out, so how do you think i could maybe build up my confidence or ask her out, snce ive never asked anyone out. (link)
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Just have some confidence in yourself!! First you have to like think and if you think she likes you then go for it! if you dont think she does then like just talk to one of your friends and tell them you like her and they will help you build some confidence about it and maybe find out if she likes you or not. Life is about taking chances and everyone has to take a chance one time or another. Well I hope i helped!! thanks for askin me
xox - Le
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mkay here's the prob I like this guy..(yeah i know what a way 2 start of) newayz i like him ALOT..in fact 2 much i think?..and well yeah I asked him out.. but he hasn't said nething 2 me yet..but see after i asked him out he talked 2 me less and well looked at me more..u get what im sayin?.. Well now we talk less but ever time he talks 2 me he's asking me something like "Do u like this" blah blah also he trys 2 make me laugh ALOT.. and he's sorta mean 2 me but in a funny way u get what i'm sayin?...am i blinded by my doubts of him likeing me? *ConfusedNlove* (link)
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Well it is obvious that he probably likes u. First of all you could ask one of ur close friends to ask him if you are goin out u no wut i mean?
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I'm 25/f and i have a 5 week old baby boy. I've been on my own since I was 13. My parents were horrible so I ran away. Because of my parents I started to drink and use drugs. I stopped using a week before I found out I was pregnant. I've been clean for 9 months and 7 weeks. I got this little apartment and I've been working two jobs to support me and my baby. I have been trying soo hard and I love him more than life itself but I can't do it anymore. I'm not being fair to him. I barely have enough money for food. We live in a tiny little apartment. The heat doesn't work half the time and I just feel like I'm not being fair to him.
My question is does anyone know a way that I can make more money to take care of him? Or are adoption agencies good at taking care of babies and finding them GOOD homes where he will taken care of like he deserves to be? (link)
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Well I don't think you should have to give up your baby just because you don't have enough money to feed him. Since you love him more than life I bet you could find a way. I'm have no idea what else to do. All you can do is just pray. hope i helped some!
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I like this guy.. and i really want him to like me back, im not sure if he does. How can i be sure he likes me?
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Helpless Love (link)
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Dear Helpless Love,
i know how you feel because when i was little people used to call me fat and ugly all the time so i am emotionally wounded now eventhough ppl say im pretty and i used to be scared because i would wonder what they would say and i didnt want a broken heart but I think personally that you should tell him on the computer somehow and ex out of the box so you wont have to keep looking at it and maybe he will like you back or you could get one of your friends to ask him if he likes u or you could tell them to tell him for you thats what i used to do it helps alot not having to do it in person and well i wish you the best of luck!!
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my life has been hell ever since my mom divorced my step dad she remarried this terrible husband and ever since then she hasnt been a real mom.... and everybody thinks that my life is s0o0o0 good n my life cant possibly be as bad as theres....but how can i stay happy with my mom?
__-depressed one-__ (link)
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Dear Depressed one,
Well probably your mom is stressed because she can't find the right husband for her and you should just tell her that you dont like him and work things out and start trying to do more things together and stuff and i hope things work out for you and your mom!!
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My dad is making me sooooo mad, i just can't help it, but i keep getting madder and madder and i can't stop myself from being angry at him, and at the same time i wanna respect him, cuz tha bible says, but anyways, i need help
signed, i wish i could respect..... (link)
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you could go to paint and just practicly write your feelings out thats wut i do bcz u can delete it and well no one is perfect and we all needa respect our dads and i no its hard sometimes but like just read the bible
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Hi my brother threw a ketchup package at me what should i do??¿¿ (link)
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throw one back haha
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All my friends say im pretty... But still no one notices me. And i think im really ugly! What can i do!!!
_ Ugly Baby Guh _ (link)
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Dear Ugly Baby Guh,
well i used to think i was ugly all the time until my friend taught me that if u think that you are ugly then you will be ugly and if you think you are pretty them you seem pretty to people(unless if michael jackson did that) lol Well you friends say your pretty then you probably are pretty and don't feel bad guys dont notice me either. well just think positive and thinga will probably work out. Hope I helped!
.: le
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It feels like all my friends are changing and I'm staying the same. Why does life change like this? _Changeless_ (link)
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Dear Changless,
Everybodys changing i bet you friends feel the same way because we grow so slowly we just don't notic cause we are well.. us! also we are getting older we are maturing into adults :-/ hahaha it might not seem like we are but inside we all are.
hope i helped
-le
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i like this guy but he ignores me. People say he likes me but it just doesnt see, right! what should i do?
Signed,
_ Miss Lonley _ (link)
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Deat Miss Lonely i know how you feel see i have been in those situations alot of times. we just don't know that kind of stuff it's really odd! And also don't doubt youself so much. usually if a girl thinks shes pretty she's pretty and if ppl say they are ugly and keep shoving it in their faces that person will start thinking they are ugly cause they act like they are. You see even if they are the prettiest person in the every bodys life isn't perfect. i hope i helped.. a little
-le
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I'm scared that my friends might be using me. Because once, me and one of my best friends got into this huge fight... then all of a sudden, it was over. How can I tell if it's a true friendship or not? _Used_ (link)
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Dear Used,
well i'm not God and i don't know if she is using you. But when I was younger I was used all the time and I just could tell. You could pray and ask God if she is using you. Also you could answer these questions
does she act like she wants to be around you?
does she avoid you when shes around her other friends if those are yeses she is probably using you well hope i've helped!
~Le~
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