okay well i have this friend right? and i've told her so much stuff like shes been there for me and now we're drifting apart and ive said something before. but i feel as if i tell her the truth shes gonna get mad.buz ealier this year we had the biggest fight that lasted about 3 months. and we got over it. and yeah okay but i feel as if i depend on her wayy to much like shes my favorite. and i wanna get over that but i cant. because she just makes me get mad. and then i end up getting all pissy oveer something she says and idk what the heck to do.
Okay! PERFECT question! i know exactlyy how you feel! I hate it when you feel like your drifting apart! Ok, what i think you should do is ask to talk with her privately and tell her how you feel! And tell her PROMISE not to get mad. If she was a true friend or still is i promise she will understand. Just tell her that you feel like your drifting apart and you try so hard not to get mad and fight but it always happens! Try to prevent fighting as much as you can.. like try not to get mad over the little things, because it could cause a HUGE arguement! Well other than that do what you feel is best! i hope i helped!
XOXO
Emmm
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emily, hey i no me and u have been fighting...and yea i don't like it. but i really want to stay friends with u. i need some advice.
Okay on what..? HOW TO STOP CALLING PEOPLE? thats a start. HAHA.
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hey emily, i know who this is, well i need some advice what sport should i do next yr, cross country, or drill team.
Im me if u no me, p.s. this is madison cartwright
Okay.. I have known you forever. Well i think you should do what ever sport is best for you. If you like Drill Team go with that! but if you like Cross Country do that. ORR you could do both! it would be hard work. But its worth a try! all i can say is just do whats best for you! Hope i helped! xoxo Em
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ok miss emily. you'll probably figure out who this is by the end of the thingy... but i'll still ask you.
i've been single for like... way more than a year and i'm DEPRESSED. all my friends that has a relationship seems to be going really well... or else they are already forming a new one... ok you know who i like (if u know who this is) and i REALLY like him and i wanna get over him... but i don't know how! i know it's really hard... plus... i kinda like this new guy but i won't name who or anything... puhlease emily help meeeee! I'M SO FREAKIN CONFUSED!
- xoxo lover dreamer (IM me if u know who this is...)
Lover Dreamer~
Yes i know who this is. :] And i care for you 100% and will try to help you as much as i possibly can. I know how you feel! You like them.. and they dont like you back. Its tough. If you really want to get over him,((this is what i do)) try to think of the negative stuff that he has done or about him and compare it to the positive. If he has more negative stuff hes probably not worth it. Thats what i tell myself. I know it sounds stupid.. but when i cant get over someone like that i just say ohh they did this to someone thats really rude.. what if they did that to me? ya know.. and it makes you think ehh hes not too nice or really worth it. But you get the point. And just because your friends are ready for all these boyfriends doesn't mean you have to be. Sometimes if someone has something you dont.. it makes you want it more and you'd do anything to get it just fit in. Im not saying thats you.. but thats what has changed ALOT of people! And the last thing.. is just go with whats right. If you REALLY like this guy, and he doesnt change you towards other people HECK! go for it! But if hes not really that great as you thought..Go for the new guy! see what he's like! Well i hope i helped! love ya!
*XOXO*
Emmm
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ok i have no idea who you are so dont make fun
:-/ but here goes........theres this guys that i went out with a long time ago that ive liked but now my close friend is going out with him and im kinda sad. she is like the BEST but i still wish they werent going out cuz it makes me feel weird somewhat jealous maybe but not really. i mean i get to "be" with him more but its always him cuddling her or them hugging. not exactly want you want to see when thats what you wanna be doin right? ya well
hope you can help or give advice
~AnnA-MariA
AnnA-MariA~
Once again.. anything you ask me on here i have no reason to make fun of you. Okay.. first off i know EXACTLY how you feel! You probably need to talk to your friend about how you feel about the situation and tell her she cant get mad at you. But whatever you do.. DONT try to break them up! it will make matters worse. Tell her to try not to hug or cuddle AS MUCH when they are around you. That it makes you feel uncomfortable.I just had to tell my best friend that recently because it was reminding me of my ex and almost made me cry..but anyways!! It is tough watching it and if its the guy you truly love you really should tell your friend that its making you depressed. And if shes your best friend.. she will understand and she will probably do whatever she can to make you feel better..without having to break up with her bf. Well i hope i helped and good luck!
xOxOxOx
Emmmm
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Em -
okay so i went out with this guy in the 6th grade. We broke up because we were friends and didn't want to be dating. Now after a year I THINK i kinda like him. But im not sure. Do u have any advice of:
1) figuring out if i like him
2) what i should do IF i like him
Thanks SOOOOO much!
~confused?
~confused?-
1.)I know how hard deciding if you like your ex again is. I've been through that myself and its not easy. What i would do if i were you is REALLY find out if you like him. If you dont talk to him chances are hes not gunna like you back.. but i could be wrong! he could be crushing on you and you just dont know it! Thats why communicating is important in this situation.If you do talk.. talk more and MORE! You can never talk enough.I think you should get to know eachother REALLY well before you make that decision.
on to number 2!
2.)What you should do-
I think you should tell him personally. And if you cant do it yourself write it in a note!Or.. you should just keep communicating and find out how he feels about you first BEFORE sending him a note, or discussing how you feel about him. Just to get a good idea of how he feels about you. Well.. I HOPE I HELPED!!
xOxOxOx Emmm
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hi...ok i dont know you and this is why im asking you... you cant make fun of me...there is this guy im dating right now and he great but just recently i meet this really great guy but i still like my bofriend so.. what do i do
Well..first of all I have no reason at all to make fun of you!:) 2nd of all, If you really like your bf which you probably do since your datinggg, I think you should stick with him. Who knows! the other guy could turn into a jerk! Since you dont know him as well. Butttt.. if you get to know this "new guy" well enough to the point where you like him more, then i would consider dating him. Maybe the new guy && you should get to know eachother better first as friends before you make the decision that you like him more or less than a bf. Well i hope i helped! Xoxox && good luck!
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ok...so my boyfriend who i LOVE is totally awsome and all my girls are friends with him but this one impiticular girl is too involved with him and they went out before..like two years before we did so i didnt mind much but now shes flirting with him at parties and stuff and there is this other guy who is super cute and so sweet to me but i still love my boyfriend like i would marry him!that much!!! is to the piot my friends get mad at me when i talk about him because i talk about him NONSTOP! and I can admit that! so what do i do with my "friend" and that other guy should i break up with my boyfriend or try to keep him as long as possible?? relationships are just too confusing! love(even though i dont know you)...hopelessly devoted
Hopelessly Devoted~
The same thing happened with one of my friends. Its still going on right now! What i would do is talk to the girl and tell her what she is doing because she might not notice it! Considering the fact they went out.. she was used to flirting with him am I right? And mostly all i can say about the relationship is do what feels right to YOU! Who cares what other people think. Hes your boyfriend and you love him with a deep burning passion in your soull! If you like him that much, I would keep the relationship as LONG as I possibly could! And who knows the girl might be jealous!! You should definately tell her whats going on. Well thats all i can say! I hope i helped! Xoxoxo && good luck!
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Well... This guy I've known him for two years beacuase he's the cousin of my sisters best friend, But I've never actually had a conversation with him. A few months ago during the end of summer he complimented me telling me I was pretty, And it sounded like he was true. The only thing he actually does is stare at me ... I didn't really like him then but was extremely flattered. Now I see him alot ... And soon I'll have to spend a weekend with him and other people ( In 3 weeks ). I admit I like him, And I know he doesn't have a girlfriend. But yet another factor comes in ... He's as old as my sister and she's 16. And my sister is extremly pretty, But i'm pretty sure I don't have to worry about my sister because she has a different taste then me ... Well anyways, Both of us barely talk get to talk to each other. But we both pass up perfect moments to talk ... Basically all we do is look at each other alot. Should I take it slow and hint to him that I like him, Or just wait for him to do something?
Signed,
Hopeless Romantic.
Hopeless Romantic-
If you really like this guy as much as you say you do you should get to know him a little better then see how much you really do care about him. And if things work out GREAT! and if they dont.. you will atleast have eachother as friends. I dont think you should wait for him to do something because it sounds like he hasnt gotten the idea that you like him. You should make the first move and see how he reacts. I hope i helped! and good luck! Any more questions IM me!
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Hello DArling,
you probably know who this is so who better to ask then one of my best friends wat i should do
ok well im in love like LOve not like omg i like somebody like love!! anyways im in love with him and ive been out with him 5 times and yes its a big deal to me when he broke up with me again!! hes kinda rude to my friends but like i said im in love with him!! and i dont know if i should tell him becasue im afraid of rejction even thought hes the one doing all the asking out!
>>>your love
My Love
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Hey girly well okay there is this boy and he always flirts with me and I flirt with him, well my friend asked him if he would go out with me and he said yes but I just dont want him as a boyfriend bacause I still want to be good as friends as we are now but I dont want to lose him because he is probably the only guy thatI really clicked with but I just dont want things to change when we are together or when we break up :{ signed totally confused
Totally Confused-
I hate being in that situation. When you want to go out with them but you dont want to lose that great relationship you have. If i were you i would tell him you really like him as a friend and that you dont want to hurt his feelings or anything but you want to stay friends. And tell him how you feel about your relationship and how you would feel if that got taken away from you. Other than that all i can basically say is.. follow your heart and do what feels right to you. If you REALLY like him hey! go for it! But if you dont want to lose what you have together i would talk it over. I hope i helped! love you lots!
xoxo
*Emmm
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Im so lost (again)
Well There is this one guy that i was building up the courage to ask out but then right hwhen I was about to he was like guess what and im like What and hes like "i got a girlfriend" i was like omgsh so now i have to buid up the confidence again I mean he asked me out before i started to like him and i said no and now right when i start to like him i get crushed ggrrr well I dont know you but I want to cuz you sound like an awsome person well thanks for the other question you helped me tons signed Im so lost
Im So Lost-
Im proud to hear you took my advice. And im so sorry about the dude having a gf. I know exactly how you feel. Thats happened to me so many times its not even funny. But if you ever need any more advice im always here for you!
xoxox
Emmm
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hey em, I want a boyfriend because i like that extra compfort but i dont really like to think that someday anyday we could be over just like that and i dont really want to have my heart broken like with my last boyfriend who was really sweet please help me i will love you tons!!! signed I'm so lost
Im So Lost-
I know EXACTLY how you feel.. I wasnt sure what to do either, Because i hate the thought of my heart being broken. So, if you know me personally.. or like go to my school just find me and talk to me and i will help you as much as i can. But other than that all i can basically say is follow your heart. If it doesnt feel right chances are it might not work out, and before you ask him out make sure you know him a little, because believe me.. it will make the relationship last a LOT longer. Well i hope i helped! love you tons!
xoxo
Emm*
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ok there's this guy i really really really like and i think he knows i like him. everytime i see him a big smile appears and he likes to touch my booty iono what to do cuz i want him to ask me out and his friend asked me if i would ever go out w/ him and i said yes but iono if he likes me! do u think he does? and what should i do?!
Okay.. I think you should tell the guy how you feel about him, and if not show how you feel about him. If you really like this guy go for him and if he doesnt ask you out right away just wait a little longer and you never know he just might feel the same way. well i hope i helped! thanks for asking Em and good luck!! xOxOxO
Em---
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what if one of ur best friends like you ?!?!
well... I dont know exactly what to do.. But heres my best shot. I would talk to them and ask if you'd want to take your relationship a step further or stay friends. If you really like eachother then you should take your relationship to a higher level. But thats all i can say! Hope i helped!!
xOxOxOxOxOxOx Em
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I have 4 friends tat i ve known 4 along time. They all go to diffrent skools now so i dont c them at all. I really miss all of them. They've been my bff. But now they even care bout me anymore. I always say i miss them. I call them but there always somewhere else.I want us to be friends but i dont know how cuz im not goin 2 c them for 3 years.
Well.. try to talk to them more and tell them how you feel about them "ignoring" you. I know how you feel cause i have moved before alot! But just do your best to keep in touch. Hope i helped good luck!
xOxOxOxOxOx Em
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Sometimes I steal money from my moms purce and buy extra cupcakes at lunch.
what should i do???
signed
shane
haha DONT STEAL! for one.. and stop eating cupcakes!! lol well try to stop stealing and earn money or something! but dont steal!!!!
xOxOxOxOxOx Em
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emi, i like this guy in the 8th grade. He likes me back, its just he kinda still likes his ex too. He'll be rude 2 me and not tlk, then hell be like, "i love you, i really wanna c u " and it really aggravates me ! iono if he wants me, or he wants his ex! And he made my BFF mad @ me, then denied telling her evrything. I really like him, i just dont wanna b part of all that drama ! Hes a jerk, but a sweetheart, and its soo confusing !! What should i do ? still like him, be friends, or forget about him ? i need alot of advice !!
signed, love hurts
Dear Love Hurts,
Talk with him on the phone, AIM, one on one, and Ask him who he actually likes if you reall care about him that much, to have a relationship.He is probably confused on who he likes thats probably why he is blowing you off like that. And he probably doesnt mean to hurt you, guys are just guys that way, they dont realize how hurt we get when they say the tinyest things. But Just do the best you can and be YOU! Hope I Helped!
xOxOxOxOx Em
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hey girl!
ok see i like this guy and he's kinda a "bad boy" well i think he might do drugs and stuff like that and iono if he would eevr go out w/ me i mean cuz i guess I'm a good girl but i really really really like him but no1 knows and i have no idea what to do
Try to flirt with the guy a little more if you REALLY like him..If your really Uncomfortable with his "drug problem " i know i would be too. SIt down with him and try to tell him to set a better example and to quit drugs, if you really love him tell him how you feel. Thats all i can say! Hope i helped!
xOxOxOxOx Em
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okay! i like this guy but he is in ninth grade! i never really see him except on sundays, wednesdays, and fridays! that isnt that much but we could talk on the fone and stuff. he is like the perfect guy! nice, funny, sweet, hot! what should i do?
Talk to him about how you feel, and maybe if he likes you too im shure he will understand. Try to talk to him about more serious stuff that just normal friends wouldnt normally talk about, so he will get the picture that you like him. On Wed.,Fridays, ect. Try to talk to him about stuff you wouldnt normally talk about and he will feel more comfortable around you. Thats all i can say! luv ya! Hope i helped!
Em------
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