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Ok well about this time last year my grandfather died. We were really close, i lived with him and my nana for 4 years when my family was looking for a house. He used to pick me up at school (when i was in preschool) and we would go out to lunch together. I loved to spend time with him and he meant so much to me!I always used to go into his den with him and we would watch The Price Is Right together. I always felt like i could relate to hi b/c he had breathing problems, and i have asthma, so he would always give me cough drops. Well, back in 6th grade I had a bad cold so my doctor put me on this medicine. The medicine messed up the lining in my stomach and i couldn't stop throwing up. It was really scary b/c every time i threw up i got a bloody nose too. I threw up for about 3 days really bad and i hadn't eaten anything for a week, so my mom took me to the hospital b/c i was getting worse. I stayed int he hospital for about 3 days. When i finally started to get better I didn't want to take the bus b/c i get bus sick sometimes and i still had head aches form being sick. So one day i asked my grandpa to pick me up from school. When he was driving me home i noticed he was swerving a little on the road, and that was really unusual for him b/c he was a police officer for 30 years and was really good at driving. When we got home ( he used to watch my sister and i after school until my dad got home) i noticed he was a little shaky,i thought it was normal b/c when i lived with him he was always getting rushed to the hospital b/c he couldnt breathe and he was always sick alot, but my dad asked me about it when i got home and i told him that he seemed different that day. Well, he was rushed to the hospital that night and i found out he had a stroke while he was driving me home. I was only 11 back then so i didnt really know what to think. I just remember being dissapointed b/c i was supposed to go on a cruise with my nana and grandpa in a few weeks, but he didnt get out of the hospital until the day before so he didnt go (and now i wish more than ever he did b/c it wouldve been my last vacation with him) Well off and on for the next year he was very sick. I was used to him being sick and he always pulled through so i thought he would make it. It turns out that he didnt and he passed away on Februrary 13th. It was on friday the 13th and it was such a hard time for me. The last thing i did before he died was kiss his hand and he died early the next morning. I was into making clay sculptures and my grandpa loved them! I made him one that night but he was too sick to notice it. I didnt mind, b/c i knew he wouldve loved it even if he had seen it. Its been a year now since he died and my life has just been going down hill. My cousin was born a few weeks after my grandfathers death with down syndrome. We love him no matter what and hes so adorable, but its still hard b/c ppl with down syndrome only live to be about 45-50. My uncle just recently passed away too and many of my family friends have been getting sick and dying too. I just feel like everything is going wrong and i've just been upset lately. I feel alone b/c no one understands. My freinds tell me i'm so emotional but they really don't understand what i've been going through. I try to explain but they tell me i have a good life b/ i wear abercrobie clothes and have money to buy things and live in a nice house. They tell me my life is so good, but i'd give up everything i have to see my grandpa again, becuase money doesn't matter to me at all. They always tell me that there are ppl that have it worse than me out there, and i realize that, and i have sympathy for them, but i'm going through a rough time too, but my friends just don't undertsand that. I just feel like everything is so wrong, and i also feel like i'm the reason why my grandpa is dead. I always think that if i had just sucked it up that day and took the bus then he wouldn't of had a stroke while he awas driving me home. I just don't know what to do and i don't know how to make my firends understand.
Any advice would be great..and ps. sorry its so long! i can never sum stuff up!! ps. i'll rate high
Im sorry to hear about that! Dont worry im not in this for the high ratings, it wouldnt bother me if you didnt rate me at all! First off, please dont blame yourself for your grandads death, really there is nothing you could of done to stop it, and im sure if he was here now he'd probably think you were silly for blaming yourself and the last thing he would want is to see you upset! Rather than think of him dying think about the good times you had, and it does seem like you enjoyed your times together, and you know.. thats the things you should be thinking about! Everyone at some point feels their life is going down hill but just think your not alone and your not in this alone! Your friends obviously dont understand how things are for you and it probably isnt easy for you to tell them, but aslong as you know deep down that you loved your grandad and your grandad loved you, no one can take that away from you! You have all the happy memories that alot of kids probably dont have these days, so they are the memories to cherish the most. I hope this has been of some help, and please feel free to email me on IxMzFaBuLuSxI@aol.com, it doesnt matter what it is you want to talk about, i'll be here for you! :o)
When I walk in my bathroom, theres always poop on the toilet. I think my dad does it because my pets don't use the toilet. LOL. I know it's gross but how can I find out who is doing this. (It's not my sister or my mom either.) HELP!!!!!!!!!!
You should make a sign for your bathroom saying remember to flush the toilet as you dont want to throw up everytime you go in there!
I have a friend (lets call her gina) and she'll be my friend for one minute and egt mad at me for nothing the next. and im really getting tired of it. its getting old and she's kinda popular and hangs out with a lot of my friends but if i get mad at her, she gets other people involved in hating me and if shes mad at me, so are they. what should i do. P.S, I rate 5's
-Brittany
Hi, Sorry to hear about that! Thats not good and its not what you want from your so called friend! Whether shes popular or not she shouldnt get other people involved, next time she does it just point out to her that, its not cool to treat friends bad, and ask her if she'd like it. Let her know where your coming from! Just remember she cant upset you without your consent! :) Gd luck xx
ok, so i broke up with my boyfriend last year, but i think i still like him. the only thing is he likes my best friend, should i get him back, and how, or let go? my best friend doesn't like him.
Im afraid you should let him go, because he doesnt like you. But remember One guys loss is another guys gain :)
When do you inform a company that you have more than one opportunity for a new position?
You dont! If its another job out of work, then dont tell them, as then they can get rid of you when they like. See if you get the job and then give them the months notice.
Again this boy Roshon has been bothering me. With all the touching me and walking me to class things. I mean he is cool and everything but in the hall I see him doing it to other girls to just not as much as he does it to me. And he still talks about me. This morning when he tried to walk me to class. The only way he will get his hand off me if I pull away and say I will talk to you later. And the bad thing is he is only. I don't know how to say it but he goes up to my chest. What I mean by that his height. Do you know how weird that looks? Anyway help please!
I think you need to tell this guy to stop right now. Say it like you mean it else he will carry on. Tell him 'you may be able to touch other girls like that but i dont allow it.. either stop it or i'll have you done' :o)
Hi.
If I don't wash my hair every night then my hair gets and looks so oily.I usually do wash my hair everynight but every once in a while i don't have time. Does anyone know any products that i could use to make my hair less oily or anything i can use so it doesnt look oily....please.
Thanks!
Talc.. or powder.. it absorbs all the oil in ya hair :)
Ok, I have naturally blonde hair and I dyed it black in the sprig and touched it up in the summer. I have not done it since July, so my roots are like, 2 inches maybe 3, and I am getting it dyed professionally. The lady said I could get highlights…but they had to strip the black from those areas first. My first question is, how bad will that damage my hair? Getting all over color and highlights on black…and my second question is I am thinking of red highlights…does anyone have any suggestions of a color?
Yeah it would be best to strip the black out first.. keep with your natural colour and red highlights instead of doing both. It shouldnt do too much damage if you look after it, you can buy a treatment kit it stays on your hair for like 3 minutes and it keeps all the goodness in your hair.
I have darkish olive tan skin and really...I mean REALLY dark dark brown hair. But I want to change the color. I was thinking along the lines of WHITE blonde...I am dessparate for help! I rate! Thankx!
No i wouldnt go white blonde if i was you! Go a few shades down from your colour and have streaks in it if you want a light colour, then if you still want to go lighter.. go lighter than that! but i wouldnt go pure white
okay i have naturally brown hair and i dyed it platnium blonde, but the problem is my hair grows so quick its hard to keep up with my roots and my mom only lets me dye my hair every 6 weeks. what is good way to make my brown roots not show as bad like a product or hair style? and i dont wanna dye back to my natural hair color. thanx! i rate
Well 6 weeks is the only recommended amount of time to dye it. So putting more on it wouldnt be good. Try to dye it a more suttle blonde so it blends in then you wont see the roots as bad!
Right now, my hair is REALLY blonde (i just dyed it, but it was still really blonde before i dyed it), and i want my hair the color of Paris Hiltons. Does anybody know if she bleaches her hair? or how does she get it that light?
xo
Yeah it will be bleach. And also she will have another bit of blonde in highlights to break it up, even though you dont notice.
I have hair that is a little longer than shoulder length, layered, and stick straight. I would really like to do shiny mermaid waves in my hair---you know, those waves that are very un-frizzed and soft looking...does anyone know how to do these?
Yeah i know what you mean. You can buy a curling tong but not as harsh as proper curls. The appliance is called 'Angel Curls'.
What is the #1 thing a man can do to make himself more attractive?
What is generally the least attractive thing about a man?
Confidence is attractive! Also when he takes care of his hair :)
Is there any way to remove the skin under your armpits? Like any excersizes. Please no surgeries.
I dont think there is any surgeries and if there was i dont think id advice for you to go ahead with it.
I was wondering what straighteners are good to use? like not get it chemically straightened but with a flat iron. ive been looking for a good one but i cant find one. what is the name and where can i find one? also is there anything to put in my hair like after a shower or somthing that would make it straighten better? thanks
( will rate )
Ghd's are great straighteners. Lee Stafford Poker straight hair serum is for after youve had a shower it calms your hair before straightening and also stops your hair from getting static at the top! xx
Months ago I meet this guy,fell in love,he was the 1 who said he loved me 1st!! Then we broke-up,but we'd still tell each other we loved each other. Every time we were together something would happen ether we'd kiss or have sex!! (this is after months of being apart) But I'v told him am not a sex toy. & Resently I told him I still love him, he said that he does love me but he doesn't know how strongly, in what way or if he loves me like I love him any more!! I asked him what he wanted to happen between us but he said "I don't know just now" Am so confused & I know no1 else can tell me how he fells but can some1 at less give me some advise on what to do??
Well its only him that can tell you how he feels! Ask him again, and explain that you are getting confused with it all. If he cant answer you then maybe you should consider why your in the situation with him.. gd luck x
I have a business plan to do and I'm opening a nail salon. Should I name it "Paint" or "Tips and Toes"? thanx for your input
I like tips and toes.. you could call it Tiptoes!
ok i think im in love with my ex boyfriend. and i just cant stop thinking about him and i really really miss him. even though im going out with one of his best friends, i just like him, hes ok. but anywayz, i went out with him for 6 months and we got a long great, but then when he broke up with me, i thought i was gonna like die because he broke up with me for this other girl, and now hes going out with her again, and im really upset. when i was talking to him mom, she told me that he still kinda has feelings for me. but i wasnt sure. but now i really want to tell him, but i think hes gonna like not talk to me ne more because hes like one of my good friends and we talk alot.. so what should i do?
I think you should move on and look for someone else. Its a straight up answer but thats what i think is the best option for you. Your bound to get upset because of this, let your the girl have a chance with him, and you look for someone who your better off with anyway.
This kid in my school, Danny, he knows I had an eating disorder problem, so I lost a really lot of weight; but everytime he sees me he makes some sort of rude comment. They all tend to be toward my weight. For instance at lunch I asked my friend if they had any money I could borrow because I left mine at home, and he said something rude like "What for lunch? Looks like you've eaten enough". Which totaly goes over my head because I've lost about 60lbs since the begining of last summer. So, how should I confront him, or should I not even bother I know theres got to be a way to shut him up without having to bring the principal into it or anything like that. Or should I just resort to that?
I think you should maybe comment on what he says, because it sounds like ignoring him wont be the answer. If i was you when he makes a comment like that, ask him if he has a problem with you if so what is it. And if he doesnt like it he knows where the door is. Make it a rule of yours to not let anything he says bother you. And in the long run, his words only make you stronger!
today i woke up with a sore throat, runny nose, watery eyes, and just A BADDDD COLD! its the begining of winter break and im tryin soo hard to get better by atleast monday....is there anything i can do/take to get better? im taking halls cough drops and dimetap so far....is there anything better?
Sleep! Make sure you have plenty of sleep. Drink lots of water and keep warm! xx