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I'm 17 years old, I've been a cheerleader basically my whole life, It's a great SPORT.. I love it. I've been through so much in my life that no one really knows about. I've matured so much throughout high school it's unbelievable. I learned how important family is, in the end they'll always be there for you. I've delt with more then normal teenagers my age have. I live in a very wealthy area where most of the kids have parents who pay for everything and they don't understand the value of money. I moved when I was in third grade because my parents got divorced. From experiences i've had to deal with, I have become extremly independent and appreciative of everything I have. I joined this advice website because I was looking for advice on something, but then when I looked more into it I realized that I could give advice to people... I think i've experienced everything that people ask questions about.. and I love helping people out. I'm an extremly caring person.. and I hate drama(who doesn't?) I love to cheer, tumble, workout, be active etc... I had a boyfriend for about 3 years through high school.. 2 years older then me.. we broke up because of college. I can give great relationship advice as well as family/friends or anything else you want to know!!

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so im the only one out of my friends who has actually passed kissing but i've only made it to 2nd base. but they all seem to have boyfriends and guys like them. i mean im popular in school and get along well with guys but i feel like no guy wants me. so my question is, is there any tips to getting guys to like you- i mean besides talking to them or trying to flirt?

I would say.. just be yourself, don't try to be someone your not because guys don't like girls who are fake or stuck up you know.. and don't feel like you have to do stuff with guys to get them to like you.. it's all about the chase.. play hard to get with a guy you are interested in.. make them want to know more about you.. if you are interested in a certain guy talk to them and find things out about each other..! My first serious relationship started summer going into sophomore year.. and my boyfriend was two years older then me, I met him in school and started talking to him.. and then we hung out and just enjoyed eachothers company... I didn't kiss him or do anything for a month..! It kept him interested and made him want me more.. because I didn't throw myself at him.. you know?? Well I hope that helped... if you have any more questions just ask!!

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Hey guys. Im hollister_lover09 and I have cheerleading pictures today!.. ahh.. I have no idea how to wear my hair. Mainly bc I dont know how to do hair.. haha. My hair is to my shoulders and I have layers. I have side bangs. Its real cute, but I dont know how to make it look cute. If anyone can give me websites that shows the ahir style and HOW to do it, I will LOVE you. Or if you have an idea and could explain it to me. I have untill 530 untill I have to leave. Please & Thank You!*

Hmm.. have you ever tried putting your bang in a "poof" ?... you just grab all of your bangs, center them and pull them back across your scalp then twist the end of your bangs and push it foward a little to create a poofy look.. then you can hold then end down with bobby pins.. create an X out of the pins so it holds tighter... if you get what i'm saying.. it's alot easier to do then to explain it.. but it can look really cute with your hair down or in a low/high pony tail..! I hope I helped you!! You can ask me again if you have any more questions..! =)

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what base is a handjob classified as?

At my school it's always been considered 2nd base! Hope that helps? haha ;)

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how do u get kanker sores, and how do u get rid of them?

if you go to walgreens down the medicine isle they have a bunch of medications for those... they're not to expensive either.. I've used them before.. I think the brand is Dr.Scholl's! hope that helps =)

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Okay, I'm getting bored with my workout music and it's not motivating me anymore cause it's so predicatable. So I need to switch it up.

I don't like repetitive techno songs so I want strictly fast R&B/Hip-hop songs or 80's/early 90's songs. As long as they're upbeat.

It needs to last me 60 minutes so suggest as many as you want.
So far I only have
Kanye West - The New Workout Plan
Nelly - Heart of a Champion
Queen - Don't Stop Me Now
Nina Sky - Move Your Body
Ciara - Get Up

I have an upbeat playlist and some of the songs on it are:
Dangerous-yingyang twins
Don't matter- Akon
Find a New Way- young love
Grind on me(dirty remix)-Pretty Ricky
I ain't had no daddy- Teairra Marie
Sexy Back Remix- Justin Timberlake ft. Clipse
Temperature- Sean Paul
RockStar(remix)- NERD
Here I come- Fergie
Jessie's Girl- Rick Springfield
Lip Gloss mix- Lil mama
Holla back girl remix-Gwen Stefani ft. Fat joe
U can't touch this- MC Hammer
Call me- Blondie
Bounce- Fatty Koo
Get it Shawty- Lloyd
Like this- Mims
Flossin'- Mike Jones
Rock You Like a Hurricane- Scorpions
Go Girl- Pitbull
Crank dat soulja boy- Soulja boy

Hope you like them!! ;)

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I'm turning 18 and I want to get a credit card. I'm getting one so I can build my credit. I'm not going to charge everything I see. What would be the best credit card?

(If you can't give me a specific credit card, then I company will be fine too)

Thanks so much!!!

My sister who is 20 has a black CHASE credit card and she loves it... it's extremly important to pay all bills on time or early.. They actually just raised her credit last month! I hope that helped a little! Good luck ;)

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if a girl gets fingered would the guys like it if they shaved before?

Yes... Most guy's like that and find it sexier... make sure you be careful and use shaving cream or special bikini gel to shave with so it will be smoother..! hope I helped you out! Good luck ;)

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Is there anyway to make you a faster runner... like instantly
I'm extremely athletic, but I have to run a 5:50 mile, so I was wondering:
Does like adrenaline make you run faster? Like "fight or flight?"
If so, how can you make your adrenaline higher?
Also, any other ways to make you run a fast mile time?

I run everyday, sometimes on a tredmil, outside, or on a track.. I listen to my ipod and I make a playlist just for running with really upbeat songs that make me happy and motivate me.. try running on the tredmil and changing the speed lower and higher. The more you run the higher your endurance will be.. keep that in mind!.. also do excercises for your legs to make them stronger... calve raises help alot, lunges, and leg presses if you can get to a gym. Hope I helped you out =)! good luck

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i had a hangnail and bit it out yesterday. now my fingertip is swollen and very red in comparison to my other finger. it is sensitive also. what can i do to it to make it go away?
thanks in advance.

ouch!! haha I just did that the other day to my thumb... ice it for 5-10 minutes..and put pressure on it.. after that just put a bandaid over it, then wait it out.. =/, hope that helped a little!!

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Ok, i am starting highschool tomorrow and i am really really nervous! I dont really know my way around the school, i have only been in the hallways and stuff one time. I am also scared that i won't have my lunch period with any of my friends and i will be stuck with people i dont know sophmores, juniors and seniors. I dont really know where the buses will be and i just cant relax. I know i will have trouble sleeping tonight so if anyone can help me, thanks so much! :)

My first day of freshman year I felt that same exact way! I was freaking out.. especially since my school is HUGE. Get to school a little early just to make sure you can find your first class etc... that will make you less nervous. I'm sure you will find someone in your first class you can walk with the your next.. the first few days are tough getting used to a knew schedule and finding patterns to get used to.. but after 2 or 3 days you'll be totally fine. Think of it this way.. everyone is going through the same thing you are whether they admit they are scared or not!.. you'll be fine!! good luck with highschool!

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Okay so I'm going to take a crack at this advice thing. I'm female.

I want to know what the heck is wrong with me. I dont think I am completely ugly and I even lost weight thinking that if I did that then maybe someone would be interested in me. I'm getting older and I am in high school. I've never even been asked out/ been liked.

Are all guys into blonde, stick thin, popular, sort of slutty type of girls?

I'm tired of seeing all my friends have relationships and stuff and im sitting on the sidelines. I hate this feeling. I dont want the advice that i just need to talk to guys and be friendly, because that doesn't work. Because I do talk to guys.

Maybe I'm just unlikeable. I have no clue.

Honestly.. you shouldn't think somethings wrong with you.. have confidence in yourself.. guys love a girl with confidence. Also just be yourself.. there's nothing worse then trying to be someone you're not... don't worry, just let things happen on their own.. don't force a relationship. I know it's hard waiting but sooner or later you'll meet someone right for you. And I don't think that guy's are into the type of girls you mentioned, slutty/popular/stickthin etc., and the guys who are interested in those characteristics are mostly shallow guys ;). In the long run guys aren't attracted to slutty stuck up girls. Good luck.. be confident!! =)

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i'm pretty skinny.
i wanna gain weight on my legs, is there anyway to gain weight on my legs anything i can eat or do?

You know.. everyone's body is different... so it might be hard for you to gain weight in your legs.. but if you want your legs more muscular and toned... then do lunges whenever you get a chance, they work great and you can feel the burn right away. Make sure you do them right though, your knee shouldn't go over your toe and the back knee should almost touch the ground. Do them slow and make sure you feel the excercise working!.. hope I helped you !=)

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i have a bf...we have been dating for about a year...and im ready to go to the next level with him ..all we really do is make out...and i know he wants to finger me and ive given him a hanjob..how do get him really horny and let him know with out telling him i want him?

Letting your boyfriend know you are ready to move to the next level without telling him isn't always easy. The best way to get a guy horny would be to tease him.. lay on top of him and kiss him a few times... keep him wanting more.. that's what its all about.. guy's get bored really easily.. so if you want him to stay interested you have to be mysterious... pretend you are going to give him a handjob and just sort of rub the area with your hand... then don't really do anything.. that will drive him crazy..

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Hi,i was wondering what age is a good age for kids to start dating? Im 14 going to be 15 (freshman in highschool) if that helps at all..thanks : )

I don't think there is exactly a "good age" for kids to start dating... I think kids can date at anytime. Highschool is usually when relationships become more serious, if you find someone you are interested in dating.. then go for it! My first serious relationship was the summer going into my sophomore year in highschool! =)

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