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So my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time last night. i've heard that girls are supposed to bleed the first time...i mean, it hurt, and he was in all the way, but i didn't bleed. is it normal for some girls not to bleed? or like, next time we do it, will i bleed? just curious.
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Not every girl bleeds their first time. Some do, some don't. Even if you do bleed, it's not very much at all, so you might not have noticed even if you did. Don't worry if you didn't, though. It doesn't make you weird.
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Ok so, I have a best friend, let's call him Nathan. We have been best friends for 4 years. I love being around him, he's funny and smart and just an all around good person. We text each other every night just talking about whatever, nonsense haha. My mom says that he likes me because every time I talk about the one boy I like he texts back "I'm sensing more than cozy between you two" I don't know if that means he's just making fun of me or he's jealous. I took a "does my best friend like me" quiz on the computer, I know they don't work and most of the answers are just made up right off the top of the creator's head but all of them said yes, he does like me. I don't get it though, a while back I liked him and he told me he looked at me as a sister and that's it. We spend every Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday together due to school functions. He's also in my one class (a class I'm not to strong in) and he is always there to help me on something if I'm confused, he used to do that to so that's not a big deal. Just help me, does my best friend like me? (link)
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I'm not sure, but it does kind of sound like he just wants to be really good friends with you. I think that if he had been interested, he would have told you so. The only way that I can be more certain is depending on his body language when he said that he liked you as a sister and nothing more. If he seemed kind of nervous and couldn't make eye contact, he might have just been too nervous to tell you. Tough to say for sure, but I'd go with just friends for now. My best advice for now is just to hang out like you always do and if anything changes, he'll let you know. Until then, just have fun and try not to think about the romantic possibility so much.
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sooo i love this guy who doesnt love me back but loves someone else. its killing me inside. how can i get over this? (link)
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*Sigh*...yeah, I think we've all been there at least once in our lives. I know it really really hurts and it sucks and you probably don't want to hear this, but... if he does love someone else, then it's most likely not going to work. Unfortunately, you can't make someone love you, and the best thing that you can do is to let yourself cry and talk to your friends or whoever to help you unload your emotions.
When I was in high school (about six years ago) I was totally in love with this guy that was also my best friend. He knew it, and even though I didn't see it happening at the time, he was leading me on. It took me forever to get over it because I always held out the hope that we'd be together. In the end, though, it didn't happen and I ended up passing over a lot of really good guys that I potentially could have hit it off with, but I didn't. Don't let the same thing happen to you. You deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you, too!
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Alright, so this boy I like was flirting with me in 2nd hour like crazy, and so I teased him and gave him a hug and all that, and he grabs my arm to keep me from giving hugs etc. etc. and my friend says "Quit flirting, you can do better than him."
Well I told my mom about it all and she says I gotta be careful or people will call me a slut. (I've not even had my first kiss yet though so that's impossible...)
So..... it's not like this happens everyday, the hugging thing I mean. So, am I still ok as long as this doesn't go on all the time or is my image already not very good?
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It's okay to hug the guy you like, but remember to be very careful about how far you take things. I don't really think you should listen to your friend because if you like the guy, you like the guy and even though she's your friend, her opinion doesn't matter as much as your does. I don't want to say "Don't listen to your mom" but I do sorta disagree with what she's telling you. Hugging doesn't make you a slut. Now, if your in dark corners making out all of the time, then yeah... listen to your mom. Otherwise, have fun! :)
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