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Q: After parting ways from the movie today, my guy friend, Erik told me on msn tonight "next time we meet, i demand a hug! :D" what could this possibly mean?
he most likely likes you and wanted it to be obvious, next time you see him deffinitly hug him =]

Q: okay well i think i like this guy, but at the smae time i hate him :P its really confusing. we went out like three times, but my parents don't like him& don't want me to date him because they heard what he did with one of his girlfriends and i think it was a bit much considering he was only 12 when that occured. and they said that if i do date him i can't spend anytime with him. but anyways, i'm always hoping he will be wherever i am, like hoping to run into him also, when i am with him its kind of akward but at the same time we kind of flirt.. like everyone says i act like i like him but i don't know. it's just kind of confusing but it's been like 3 months since we last went out and i still lik have an urge to be with him, but not date him.. err idk. like i was sleeping over at my friends house for her birthday and like i was just laying there because everyone had already fallen asleep and i kept like wishing he ws there and like i know this sounds weird but i just wanted to like cuddle with him.... like idk when we were going out i felt like really safe when he had his arm(s) around me.
sorry if it's long, confusing and doesn't make sense.
you obviously have feelings for this guy.. soo i say you tell him ! it seems like he could like you too!!
soo whats there to loose?
if he likes you too, hanging out together could be a problem, because of your parents ,
you should explain to your parents all the positive things he does

Q: There is this boy named David that I have known as a babe and longer. He is a year older than me and I really like him and is wonderin if he likes me too. Lats year a the end of the year on the last day I saw him talking ALOT to this girl and I'm kinda jealous. What do I do?

P.S this year he is goin to jr. high I'm in middle school.
you should start talking to him, and make him feel comfurtible around you, then as your relationship gets stronger you could tell him how you feel about him and ask if he feels the same

hope i helped =]

Q: im going on a big mall trip today. and its really cold and yucky and crappy out.. so i wanna wear sweats. is that completely bummy? i just want some opinions :) let me know ♥
no lol just wear a cute shirt, and maybe your hair in an up do, and it will be fine

Q: Does anyone know any love songs by some emo/alternative bands that is slow and kinda relaxing. thanks
right here im my arms -H.I.M
ode to serotonin-nightmare of you
thunder-boys like girls
heels over head-boys like girls
razorblade kiss-H.I.M
marry me-nightmare of you

Q: hi, i'm fourteen and my boyfriends seventeen. we've been together for a little over a year.
i live in nj and he lives in virginia. we barely ever see eachother. so i want to send him a letter and make him a little cd with a bunch of love songs and such. and some about distance and blah blah(: he's into like alternative rock and things around that. like the pink spiders, sherwood, ronnie day, etc. the more songs the better. thank you so much

thunder by boys like girls

its not a side effect of the cocaine, im thinking this must be love,
by fall out boy is a really good one

right here im my arms - h.i.m

ode to serotonin-nightmare of you

marry me - nightmare of you



hope i helped =]

Q: how does the lyrics "grammatically speaking, you're adorable" make any sense?
if its the song "crush" by cute is what we aim for i think there actually saying medically speaking your adorable im not sure i mite be wrong but oh well lol

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haa whoops i looked up the lyrics it is grammatically..

Q: I need a song about you changing,
like instead of your friends and you growing apart and stuff,
more like you changing over the years.
photobooth by death cab for cutie

Q: I'm not sure if this is the right category.. but oh well.

I have a bad habit of biting my nails or doing the same thing, but using my hands to uh tear? them.

What can I do to stop doing this ?
& can you make your nails grow faster ?

My nails are pretty short because of the biting..
& I really want them longer.

BUT, I don't want fake nails.

So, is there any way to help stop biting them & make them grow longer ?

Thanks!
hmm alrite to prevent you from biting your nails, put a strong perfume on them, so when you try to bite them it tastes nasty and youll stop lol, im not sure of the exact name of the product but, there are some nail straighthening and growing bottles, they are usually in a regular nail polish bottle only its clear,

Q: I WAS semi-involved with this guy, who has been a really good friend of mine since 7th grade (currently in 10th)he even broke up with his girlfriend for me. i felt really bad about that bc shes my friend. but i thought he must be pretty serious, bc shes freaking gorgeous. so we talked for a while, and we started dating on Friday. then. the next day my best friend calls me and says that he was gunna break up with me.
wtf?
next thing i know, were not dating and he's into his ex again. i feel so freaking used. and. blah.

what do i do? he was one of my best friends and now i cant think of him like that anymore.
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well that was a really stupid thing for him to do.. you should first off ask him why he chose to brake up with you, and why he went out with you in the first place if he still had feelings for his ex.
explain to him that you still want to be friends, and continue what you used to do when you were just friends

hope i helped =]

Q: i have a light greenish color for my eyes.
my eyes are kinda small.
and i have circles under htem but there not like black.
but there not super light.

how should i apply my make up to make them
pop out more and seem bigger?
how do i make my eyes look more green?
first, to cer up the black ness under your eyes, use concelear or coverup, then you can use a brown or black eyeliner and deep blue eye shadow to make them "pop"
=]

Q: omg i'm doing my summer reading. and i hate it. and i probably should finish right now, since its 10:17pm and all, and school starts tomorrow. but i'm so not, bc i am addicted to this site. blablablabla

anyways.
random question, whats a good product for whitening your teeth? mine aren't bad, but i want them to be better bc i'm greedy. :D muahahahaha
anyways. i would appreciate that.
try crest white strips, and also when your brushing your teeth, but baking powder on your tooth brush, it works really good =]

Q: ok, i'm 12/f. my parents have been divorced for over a year now. and all though that seperation, me and my mom have been fighting about all the boys she has dated. she has dated SO many. and we ALWAYS fight about it. i've told her my feelings, and she always says that her kids come first... but shes not doing that. i'm not ready for her to have a boyfriend... she cusses alot, and she calls me crazy for not understanding. i don't understand cuz i always thought that it was supposed to be:
two people fall in love, then they get married, have kids, the dad goes to work, the mom stays at home to help her kids, then on weekends, the family goes to the little brother's soccer game.

but now, it goes:
mom goes to college in the morning and at nite every day of every week, the kids go to school, the kids prepare their on food, then the kids have to wait a month for last month's laundry, then on weekends, they see their father who lets them do anything.

i don't understand!!!!!!!!

now, plzz help me understand what to do.
Dont hold a grudge against your mom..
it seems like shes a really busy woman!
you should deffinitly try to help her around the house and try to understand her point of veiw on her idea of a family, you should tell her that you need to talk to her about things and sit her down, and tell her how you feel.

hope i helped =]

Q: ok so i've been dating this guy for over 6 months and were great together. the only thing is he has a friend whose a girl. and there sorta close and it bothers me.they like talk alot on the phone (like 4 hours once) and shes around him some in school. i know he would never do that to me and i trust him completly , im just more worried about her, b/c i know she likes him. and i told him she liked him before we started going out and he denyed it. and we used to joke about it, but its not really funny anymore and kinda hurtful. and i told him about it and i asked him to stop tlkn to her on the phone, he said he would but he still did.i dont wanna be a controlling gf, but i can't help it. and of course she hates me and i can't stand her. i trust my guy completly and i love being with him. i just dont want this to turn into a big thing. what should i do?

XromanticX
hmm this is a tough one..
i think that you should deffinitly confront him about this because its obviously bothering you, and if any other girl was put in this situation, they would be concerned too.
first off i think you should tell him how you worried about him and the girls relationship, be sure to tell him that you care about him alot, and your more concerned about the girl then him.

Q: hey there!
So i'm entering the eighth grade and throughout the year, student council looks for people with the best eyes.
My eyes are fairly large and they are a medium brown color.
what makeup or anything can i use to bring out my eyes and make them look their best?
blue,green, or pink eye shadow and a little bit of eye liner would comploment your brown eyes

hope i helped =]

Q: So when i was younger i was really popular.
i was friends with all the boys and i was really cool.
then i did something by accdent and everyone was against me. i made new friedns switch schools and everything was okay i guess. i would see the people that went agaisnt me now and then and it would be akward but whatever. now a boy who is really popular and cool and who i was friends with when i was cool is switching to my new school. its going to be really akward and am really scard !! what do i do??
nahh.. i personally dont think it would be that awkward..
just start talking to him, and im sure that will lead to you guys being friends

Q: i have acne on my nose that NEVER goes away. i tried almost everything-- toothpaste, eyedrops, coverup, st. ives, & clean & clear. what should i do? dont say proactive or see a dermatoligist, and if you suggest products ****UNDER $10.**** i don't care how well they work, under 10 bucks please.
rubbing achuhole makes the pimples smaller. soo use that first, and then use a scrub. Also, make sure to wash make up off your face when you dont need it any more, and before you go to sleep and in the morning before you put on make up

Q: Hi, I just got on AIM, and one of my friends that things have been real rocky with lately sent an offline IM that said just this:

******: [Offline IM sent 2d and 20h ago] http://www.elyrics.net/read/b/blue-october-lyrics/hate-me-lyrics.html

He's a guy, I'm a girl. Could anyone tell me possibly what he's trying to say to me by making me read those lyrics? Or what the point of sending those to me are? Thank you.
maybe hes trying to tell you hes sad? or mayb that he likes you lol

hope i helped =]

Q: My cousin met this FINE guy at this party. They clicked instantly & would talk on the phone for hours and laugh. They went to the movies and kissed and held hands. well rite after that she went on vacation for a week. she told him her phone might not work & he still called & left a lot of voicemails. we established that he was "sprung." hehehe... but the bad part is; she kinda used to talk to his year-younger brother, too. she didnt know they were brotheres until after they met. well the little brother 'did her dirty' so they stopped talking. so its been about 2 weeks since the vacation. when she got backed they had a good conversation and he said "oh i'll call you in the morning!" HE NEVER DID. we tried to think of why he hasnt called and i suggested, "maybe he doesnt think that you're that into him because he called you thousands of times?" so she did the same. well, he left her voicemail stating that his mom took his phone and to call the house phoneor cell. she called his cell and left three voicemails and his house phone & talked to his dad because he was at football. N0 CALL... so what do you think happened? why hasn't he called? they were PERFECT for each other but I just don't know about this one!
he prob. was just busy or forgot
dont take it too personally..
he probrably still likes her =]

Q: ok so, my friend posted pics of herself covering her boobs and n clothes on othr then that on imageshack and this guy saw them and saved them to his computer, she said that some other guy asked him to post them back on imageshack. (she deleted them because i told her that some pervert could of gotten them and its just gross,so she deleted them.) so how can she get the guy to not post them and to delete them from his computer? ii told her to tell him that he could go to jail because he has child pornograhpy on his computer, shes only 13, but what else should she tell him?
she cant really delete them from the computer unless she can phycically go on his computer.
But you can try threating him , as you said by telling him he could go to jail.

hope i helped =]

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And no i do not belive that she can go to jail for posting those pictures.. i mean sadly, girls do it all the time..
i am not sure however if he can go to jail...

i hope i helped =]

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CaileyxCalamity

Hey there tart im Caileyy



im thirteen years young


im short


im happy..unless you give me a reason not to be =]


i get mad easily


my friends are kind of a big deal


i lied they are a really big deal =]


i eat yu-gi-oh cards..


no lie


im weird.. u dont have to tell me i already know


im shy... untill you get to know me


i think im funny


i laugh too much


i dont take things serious enough


and i dont know if thats a good thing or a bad thing =]


i have an obsession with nightmare of you


there the best


im a neopets addict..


all day;; everyday


love that phrase =]


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