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me and this guy "B" went out 4 a year. he then went 2 a different school, and now starting high school, we go to the same one. were talking again...were eachothers 1st loves...except we didnt lose it wit each other. when we broke up he got with someother girl and they ended up doing it a few times. but when this school year started we have been talking alot laytlee...and well do u think it'll b weird if i lost it with him?! (link)
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I dont think it would be weird if you lost your virinity to him..but i do think that if he really truly loved you he would never of did it with that other girl..Boys will say anything to get in your pants..and i learned that the hard way..they will tell you how much they love you but they dont mean it..but if you guys have been going out for a year then your relationship must be strong..im not not saying you shouldnt do it im just saying before you give up something of yours that can never be replaced think if it is worth it. xOx Tory
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Ok so i really dont understand this, im really nice and funny and everything like serioussly. Its not fair that all of these snobby girls have guys like drooling over them. I dont think im pretty and you'll probably say that i am and blah but how do i get guys to like me? I mean, i talk to guys like all the time and its just stupid that they dont see how much of a nice person i am...
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I understand perfectly but no matter what dont change yourself just to get a boyfriend. Stay the nice funny person you and eventually the right guy will come alonge..it may not be today or tomarrow but he will come someday. Dont try to rush things dont think that if a girl has a boyfriend she has something you dont its just that a guy sees something they like in every girl..the right guy will come. xOx tory
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i am going to the movies with my boyfriend. i was wondering if i should make a move on him? should i kiss him? Im new at this so i dont know what i should do. my friends are coming along too and i dont know if i should make a move because they are also there. would it be weird if i did make a move? please help! (link)
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No i dont think it would be weird at all, but i do think that you should be cofterable with making a move and make sure that your boyfriend is as well. It is always hard making the first move becuase you are not really sure if your partner wants to do the same and it is probably more harder on girls making the first move becuase i think that guys should. But you should do whatever makes you happy and dont fource anything upon yourself and think you have to do it becuase you dont. xOx Tory
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For as long as I can remember, my aunt has always been an alcoholic. My family has stopped being in contact with her because she has caused many problems with my family in the past. There are days she will drink so much she'll pass out and other days she'll become extreamly violent. I never see her anymore and yet I'm worried about her. I'm more so worried about my 10 year old cousin (her daughter). My aunt has been on and off with drinking. Before I was born it was really bad. My mother told me that it was because she was in love with this guy but he was Chinese and his parent's didn't want him to marry a woman of another race so they had to end their relationship. That was nearly 30 years ago. I fear for my aunt. Although I do not have a close relationship with her, let alone any relationship with her at all, regardless she is family and I'm scared she is going to take things too far and hurt herself or someone else. I need to find her help. My mother and my other aunt have been trying to find places to take her but every place said that they needed more information about her problems. We really don't know at all why she is the way that she is. Her husband isn't any help at all. He just sits his fat ass on the couch with a beer in one hand and the TV remote in the other. Their house is a terrible mess and a person living on the streets would be too disgusted to even live there. They have a 10 almost 11 year old daughter and they do take care of her, and as a matter of fact, she's a spoiled brat. I'm still worried because the environment she is living in is in no way healthy for her. I don't know what to do. My family doesn't know what to do. I need to find her help but we can't find any place for her. Please, please, help. I apologize for the length of this question. (link)
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Ok calm down, i would just keep searching for places in your area to get her help, and if all else fails just sit your aunt, your cousin, and your uncle down at a table and talk to them, tell her that she needs to choose. Either her daughter or her alchol problem..try to make her understand that she is risking everything that she has built and that social suvices can easly take her daughter away and put her in a menta house. Ask her if she would rather try to stop or be in an enviroment where she has nothing. I hope i helped. =) xOx tory
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