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OK so i have a boyfriend....the problem is is that as much as i love my boyfriend i can't stop flirting with other guys...I am afraid i may do something really stupid and get my boyfriend mad and he may dump me i need to know how to stop flirting with other people or at least to do it less!! (link)
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Flirting is a natural thing i'm not sure you can just not do it. Guys do get mad when their girlfriends flirt with other guys more then them. I would say justtry really hard not to do anything with the other guys and flirt with your boyfriend more then them. Hope I helped
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hey- I know this girl who I was like best best friends with last year. We did so much together, like staying up until dawn talking about things in general. Now, this year she started hanging out with the freshman girls and treats me like a slave. She makes me hold her books between classes then goes to talk with other people. I told her I kinda liked her boyfriend so she slapped me across the face! she even has started calling me thunds, short fror thunder thighs or her slave.She says she is only joking and that she loves me as a friend, but i'm not sure if she is teling the truth. what do you think i should do? (link)
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Stick up for yourself! next time she asks you to hold her books say know. Sit down and tell her how you feel. Tell her to stop calling you names. tell her that you feel like shes not being truthful when she says she loves you like a friend. And SLapping you across the face cause you kinda like her boyfriend is unexceptable you shouldnt take that from her. Tell her its not a joke to you and to stop. hope I helped!
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There's this kid that I like and hes 14 like me. He flirts with me but I'm to chicken to ask him out. If he keeps on flirting with me should i talk to him about, we've been friends since before kindergarden, any adive i could use? (link)
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Talk to him about it. Try and get the courage to ask him out. If you dont assk him you'll still be thinking about it. The longer you wait the more agonizing thinking about it is gunna be. If you wait a long time there is a chance another girl will come along and ask him first. And if you wait to long he may think you don't like him that much. Go for it! Hope i helped
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okay say the group of families you hung out with one of the parents that was married statred to date another dad that was divorced and one of them was your coach and one was just a family friend what would you do and what if the married mother didnt tell her daughter and then divorced her husband for the guy she was seeing while she was married (link)
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I'm a little confused with your question could you please reword it maybe included some names but they dont have to be real names and tell me which one is the coach and family friend. Get back to me.
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there is this girl but she like my best friend and we always hang out and ppl say you should always marry your best friend im 19 done collage we both are 19 and done collage and i really love her sooo much should i ask her to marry me (link)
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My opinion would be that you should ask her. It sounds like you really like her. Remember though if you don't do it you'll probably still be thinking about doing it. You don't always have to marry your best friend though you should marry someeone you love and can talk to that you feel comfortable around. It sounds like you have that so go for it. Hope I helped! Good luck! Tell me how it goes!
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Ok well I had this bf and things were going really great and we would flirt all the time. One day he broke up with me and I was really upset. Now it's been like a month and a half and I still have really strong feeling for him and I can't stop. I really want to move on in my love life but I just can't stop thinking about him. What can I do to get him off my mind?
-Dazed and Confused- (link)
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Hunny, moving on can be a very hard thing to do. One way would be to go out and meet new guys and before you know it you'll have a new crush. or you could just hang out with your friends and try to completely focus on having fun with out thinking or talking about boys. Hope I helped.
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ok there si this gusy who is acting like a total jerk to me he says i dont deserve anythign i get casu eeveryone think im annoying form a certain town on a certain team and he says im annoying and he cant stand me why they heck would he be i doing this to me (link)
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Sweetheart first of all what you need to understand is that guys can be really big jerks sometimes but sometimes they can be really sweet. Don't let him bring you down. He's probably jelous cause your better than him at something or have somehting he doesnt. I'm sure not everyone from a ccertain town on a certain team thinks your annoying. people like to exaggerate. Find out why he's been saying this and get back to me ok?
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say its the 1st date and it just me and him and his friend and my friend but they both went off to leave us alone or are walking way behind us to leave us alone what shoudl i do give me every step u can on how to make a date great
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Well you might wanna start with holding hands and don't be afraid to make the first move and take his hand. Start up a conversation. Don't talk about exboyfriends or what youve done with another guy cause guys hate that. Dont think too hard about what your going to say just let it flow as the conversation moves on. When he looks at you and you look at him smile. You'd probably want to smile the whole time anyway. It also depends on how far you'd want to go. if you want a kiss maybe while your walking and holding hands stop look into his eyes and give him a kiss. once again dont be afraid to make the first move. Tell me how it goes. If you need anymore help just ask. I'm here for ya hunny.
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okay ppl are tring to piss me off because they knwo i like this guys and they dont like him they just want me to get worked up over these stuid thin gbut i dont knwo who it it help me plz i need it for this (link)
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Well hunny there could be two sides to this...
- your friends might realize this guy is bad news but you dont and theyre trying to save you from a lot of pain in the future which is great that theyre looking out for you and you might really wanna listen closely to what they have to say and think about it. They probably are saying the stupid things to get u worked up so you wont like him anymore.
- you should really listen and find out why they dont like him and why theyre getting you worked up.
if you need more help ask me with more details cause its a little vague
Hope i helped! keep me updated.
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okay im 5'3 and im 13 my weight is 110 lbs is that bad for me i play sprts everyday and i play soccer softball and track is that fat or not (link)
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Sweety,
Thats not fat at all thats actually pretty thin. The average woman is 5'4" and weighs 140 lbs your only an inch shorter and 30 lbs lighter. You don't need to be worrying about weight.
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say its your 1st kiss but not ur bfs should you still kiss him or not i woul dbeafraid of being a bad kisser (link)
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Deffinatly if you want to but dont worry about being a bad kisser cause it will come naturally when the time comes. Good Luck! Hope i helped
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I think my best friend is drifting away from me because she moved away to Maine, and we dont get to talk much, other then online, and occationaly the phone. I miss her so much and sometimes i cry, it sounds cheezy, but it's true. I really want to find out whats going on, what should i do? (link)
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Maybe you should try calling her and finding out whats going on. Maybe because you just have one person to contact and she was a whole ton plus all her responsablities and friends in Maine it's hard to be able to contact everyone. She might cry sometimes too cause you or other people haven't been calling her or writing to her She might feel like they've or the people who havent been calling or writing her have forgotten about her. Since its summer call and plan a time to get together for a week or more. I'm sure she's just been really busy abut a reunion would be a wonderful idea. Hope I helped.
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i'm goin into 8th grade and i really liked this guy for like three three yrs then he found out i like him and i found out he was kind of a jerk. now i kind of like this other guy who's way nicer but i still think about the first guy. and i really want the second guy to at least notice me or ask me out but i don't think he likes me. and i still haven't been kissed and all of my friends have. what do i do? (link)
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Tell him how you feel and go with the second guy cause it sounds like you like him alot more. It doesn't matter if you haven't been kissed I know plenty of kids going into 8th grade (cause i am too) that haven't gotten kissed or that even havent hadd a boyfriend yet. And you want a guy who nice to you.
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Hey, I am 13 and i am 5"4 and I weigh 105 pounds...am i too fat for my age and height? All of my friends are always saying I am 2 skinney but i think that i am fat and my doctor says i am skinny for my height but i still think i am fat! what do u think? (link)
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You definatly are not fat im the same age and height as you and weigh more. the averrage hieght and weight of american women is 5'4" and 140 lbs
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Ok, i have this friend, and today i went to the beach w/ her and a bunch of other friends, but this one in particular ignored me. She wouldn't talk to me, i went to sit alone, she didn't talk to me, went off by myself somewhere she didn't come find me or talk to me when i got back, i got mad but she wouldn't talk to me, on the bus back she laughed and wouldn't talked to me, i started crying, she still didn't talk to me, she just laughed she didn't care at all! And she always said that she cared about me, and finally she left laughing and i'm not gonna see her for a long time, what the hell should i do? It's killing me how cruel she was. (link)
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Hunny,
a true friend should not completely ignore you especially if your crying. Do you know why she wouldn't talk to you. Have you tried sitting down and talking to her about it? If not you should and find out why she wouldn't talk to you. Was she laughing at you when you were crying? If someone she was trying to impress was there than maybe she was trying to show off. Although if i were that person i would not be impressed. You should always be there for your friends especially when there crying and stuff. I hate to say this but if she's treating you like that then maybe she doesn't care as much as she says she does. If there is anyway you can contact her while she's away i.e. phone, email, letter then do it and find out why she was ignoring you. Make sure you tell her whats bothering you. You desrve better than that. Maybe she's not worth the pain but only you can decide that. In the mean time hang with some other friends and have a good time try and get your mind off of it. Hope i helped get back to me about it okay..
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anyone kno where i can get cute but cheap bikinis? like any store like walmart 2 the mall? thx, muah! erin (link)
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TJmax can sometimes have cute ones or Target
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okay theres this gusy and we both like each other and IM 11 YEARS OLD and im going to his house by my self but his parents are goin gto place 5 mins from there and we were planning on goign to the river at night and i was talking to hsi friend and that he was gonna put the moves on me i dont mind like a hug kinda thing and the hold hands but im a little worry about a kiss casue ive never kissed soemone before what if i screw it up and what if he wants to make out HELP ME PLZ (link)
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sweetheart,
i've been through exactly what your feeling so if your really not comfortable then tell him, he'll understand. But if you really do want to kiss him then just go for it. You wont srew it up trust me. If you feel comfortable with the idea of making out then just keep in mind your first time will probably be a little awkard especailly if neither of you have had experience. Don't let him force you into doing anythign you don't wannna do. Stick up for yourself. If he trys to do something you don't like or don't wanna do don't let him. Also if you really want to know if he plans on kissing you then ask his friend you were talking to and if you don't want to kiss him and dont want to tell him that you dont want to then just tell his friend to tell him not to take it that far.
Good luck! Have fun! Be safe! hope i helped
anymore questions just ask.
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I'm 13, girl, and my best guy friend is moving tomorrow morning, and last night I w/bein a jerk, and I cussed him out. I have never made a worse mistake in my life. He's always been there for me always, and now he hates me. What do I do? (link)
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Tell him how you feel. He's always been there for you right so he should understand. Maybe bring him some homemade cookies or brownies for the trip. Wish him luck tell him you'll keep in touch. Tell him it was the bigest mistake of your life and that you really do care for him.
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HOW DO YO0 DEAL WITH A BREAK UP (( TEAR )) (link)
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Do a ton of stuff with your friends and dont talk about guys at all go shopping or have a sleep over or something. Chocolate is always nice but not too much dont get carried away.
hope i helped! if u need more advice talk to me ive been through lots of breakups.
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Ok, i have this friend and we're rly close. But now every night i have night mares about her killing me. And i've had about 7 in all. And then she tells me how she's had a dream about killing me twice. And isn't the myth that if u have a dream over 3 times and it becomes tru? Well, now i'm like totally afraid of her, and she's scared too that i might be right. And one day i took a stick and scratched a 7 on her arm on accident, and she realized that 7 is just too much of a coincidence. What should i do? I love her a lot, she is one of my best friends but what if she rly does kill me someday? (link)
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Ok hun first of all i dont believe in myths or superstitions or whatever and its probably nothing at all. Next time you have one of these dreams trry focusing on something else in the dream there may be soemthing else in the dream that will happen or is trying to get something through to you. dont be afraid it will probably just make things worse. Maybe the dreeam means the friendship is dying out and you need to give it more life. Get back to me after seeing if theres anything else in the dream k?
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