Hello all. My name's Bethany, and I'm pretty good at giving advice (or so I'm told.) So, ask away!
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Hi, I am only 14 years old and I have been dating my boy friend for about 11 months. I know I love him and he loves me. We hang out all the time, so as you can imagine, sometimes it gets a little boring and I want to do sexual stuff really bad, but I fear I am too young. How much would be appropriate for some on my age? Please, don't give me the "What ever you feel like is right" because if I knew what was right, I wouldn't be asking. Thanks so much! (link)
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Maybe you should just tone down the love a little bit until your just a little older. I don't think family and friends would really trust you that much if you did get sexual with a guy at your age. Just do a little at a time and wait until your at least 2 years older.
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okay...me n my friend are making these shirts with iron on thingys...but we don't know what to put on them..we can put anything we want because we just need to find a picture on the internet...any ideas of what to put on our shirts?
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Maybe you could put a picture of a guy that you like?
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okay. well i just moved out into my own apartment and i'd like to get a pet. the problem is i don't know what kind. i'd like something that doesn't require a TON of care, but something that i can also play with..can you help? (link)
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Alright, I know from experience that a sheltie is a great pet to have! It doesn't require a ton of care, and they are good tempered. Hope this helps!~Good luck!
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I have a problem with conflicts, well you could say that. And whenever I feel really bad I cut..... It's hard for me to stop, because it brings out anger, I don't really know what to do, and I need help. (link)
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If you're having problems with cutting, then you should tell someone, and they could help you with it. Hope this helps!
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I have had this friend for a really really long time. i am ova her house like almost every weekend and we r soooooo close. people actually think we r twin sisters. but lately this girl has really gotten on my nerves. she sings when she doesnt kno the words and she is a horrible singer and she always treats my sister like crap and when i say something to her sister she tells me not to talk to her like that. i dont kno wether i should tell r not!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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If your friend is really getting on your nerves that bad, then maybe you should each find new friends until you're both ready to hang out again. Hope this helps!
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ARE'NT THERE ANY GUYS OUT HERE?But that was'nt my question.But I do have a problem...Well I think my boyfriend is gay!And I think he's just playing up with me but actually he wants to be with my elder bro.How do i find out if he's gay??? (link)
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If you think your boyfriend is gay then you should just ask him first instead of accussing him. If you really think it's that big of a problem then you should just be friends.
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hi im 15 years old and a guy...and i dig this chick alot, we went out before for like 8 months and then we took a "break" and a few days later shes going out with my buddy and to make a long story short, me and her were hangin out at my house and her b/f dumped her and she acted like we were goin out or somethin and then the next day her and her ex are doin the same thing...what the hell do i do? (link)
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Just dump her. If she tries to get back with you then just say no! Hope this helps!
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I NEED Help i love my ex but she dont like me what should i do im a 13 m (link)
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Well, if she doesn't like you then you should just try to get over it. If that doesn't work then try finding another girl that you love even more than you ex. Hope this helps!
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I have a big problem , I went out with my bf and he's 17 , Im 15 well a really nice gurl to him , he dumped me and went for here..... How do I get over him , He keeps talking about her everytime Im around him..... HE"S HURTING MY FEELINGS!!!!! PLZ HELP Thanks Jenipher (link)
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If he's really hurting your feelings when he says that, then you should ask him to not talk about her around you. He shouldn't be talking about that stuff around you, especially if he dumped you for her. Hope this helps!
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I have this one friend that i just met and he's thinking about commiting suicide how do I change his mind? We all care about him and he just won't listen to us! We have told hm that we care about him and would hate to see this happen to him but he just wont listen to us! What do I do? Keep in mind that no matter what were not going to send him to see a shrink! (link)
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If he won't listen to you then you should find someone that he will listen to. Everyone has a point of being on this Earth. If you're not going to send him to a shrink, then you should ask him why he would want to do it. He's always loved and I hope he makes the right decission. Good luck!
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ok, my so-called bestfriend, is yelling at me, as we speak about a soccer game, because i couldnt breathe and she said i didnt talk to her and went straight to my mum, what do i say to her (link)
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Your best friend shouldn't be yelling at you about a silly soccer game. If you couldn't breathe then you couldn't breathe. It's not your fault. Just wait for her to tell you she's sorry. I hope this helps~ Good luck!
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Okay well I have this friend Casey that is reallie jealous of me bcuz I know alot of guys and I have a bf and all.Casey goes around calling me the worse names in the book like c*nt and sl*t and a whore and all.ANd the funny thing is I only have one bf and she likes spreading rumor to everyone so now my bestfriend is mad at me bcuz Casey said I fucked her bf and now I dont know what to do and evening Stephaine bf told her that we didnt have sex which we didnt and now I dont know how for her not to be mad at me:(So please help what should I do:(
-Kimmy (link)
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Well, Kimmy. Casey obviously isn't a very good friend if she doesn't trust you. In the long run she'll be sorry she ever said any of those things to you, and someday she'll need you. So, just stick to what you know is right! I hope this helps~Good luck!
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