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Hello everyone. My name is Marissa Sage. Many call me by one of my many nicknames; Ritz, Rissy, Rissa, or Miss Sage.

I am 18 years old and I live in the state of New Jersey. Many of you might know it as the harborer for Great Adventure, the amusement park. For those that don't live in the U.S. it is one of the 50 states.

My education is mostly different from those my age. I am an early graduate of highschool. There is a program called Jump Start that allows us to graduate early and attend a community college not to far from my house. We are allowed to take 3 college credit courses that will be transfered to a university or the college of our liking. That of course will not happen until after two years of completing the required classes.

As for my major I am still trying to decide which path I wish to take whether it have to do with writing or another interest of mine. In any case I am poetic. I not only put words on the paper, I illuminate the page with the essence of my thoughts. A picture will evolve with just a few strokes from my pen. The words will have a life of their own. The rhythm of my words, flow as the streams of the mountains which drain toward the pool of dreams. Easily my emotions leak from my pen onto the blank pages, projecting the inner sight of my soul. The enthreal world, I enter, to capture the purity and truth. Eternally will the universe listen, with or without you.

I have a boyfriend, Alex, whom I care very much about. He is a musician, a bass player. Being with him is all that I really need, he has made so many drastic changes in my life. For that I am thankful. March 17, 2005 marked 2 years for us. Many of my friends are envious of the love that we share. Though we have learned not to let anyone come between us.

Thus, comes the end of my tale. If this is anything you want to talk about I will always be around to listen. I am glad that I could express myself, hopefully everyone will read it. Sorry if I made it so long.

Yours Truly,

Marissa Sage

advice

how do you know if a girl is lying to you like when you ask them out and they say something. How do you know if they are telling the truth or lying to make you feel better??

You can tell when they are lying, usually they look down, bite their lip or do something that you can catch onto quickly. If you want the truth just ask them to be straight forward with you and not to sugarcoat anything.

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so u might have remembered me bcuz i asked about the girl who i called "summer".

now she knows we all hate her and shes acting all innocent! and shes totally not and it really bugs me. shes mean and talks about everyone behind there back. and now shes all goody-goody bcuz we all hate her. i mean WHAT THE ****!! and today she goes "why does everyone hate me?" and i just shook my head and walked off. i mean is she really that stupid? please help!

i also rate *high*!

There are two solutions to dealing with people like this, one is to just not come in contact with them anymore, ignore them everytime they approach you. The second one is to confront her and tell her straight out what her problem is and see if she'll correct it.

♥ Behind Blue Eyes

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16/f/California. I hang out a lot with my 15 year old female cousin. Me and her always have a good time. Its not like I want to stop hanging out with her. She's part of the "punk" crowd (but she's only in it because its the trend, and I KNOW thats why, because I know her well, and I know thats not the "real her"...but thats beside the point). And I'll admit, I do say "like" and "oh my gosh" a lot. Everytime we're at the mall or somewhere and we walk past girls that say something like "LIKE...OH MY GOD" she ALWAYS has to say something like "wow...did you just hear those girls? I can't stand those types of girls". And she'll say it loud enough to where they can hear. And I always act like I can't hear her, or I just start to say something else, because 1.) I don't judge people because of the way they talk and 2.) That seriously doesn't even bother me. But if she sees a punk guy or girl walking, she'll stare, admire, walk a little slower to where they can see her, and she'll try to tease her hair more (she has big hair) so she'll look a little more like them. But just because she's dressed like them and they're dressed like her doesn't mean shit. Theres more to that and she judges people SO quickly. And tonight we were at dinner with my aunt and she was explaining how she can't stand girls that talk like that and I quickly jumped in and said this:

Me-"you know what I've noticed about you? You judge people so quickly"

Her-"no I don't"

Me-"yes you do, everytime we walk past girls that say something like that, youALWAYS have to make a comment, and its stupid, you don't even know them"

Her-"I'm just saying I don't like girls like that, I'll talk to them and say hi and stuff, but I can't hang out with them"

Me-"Well, why do you have to say it all the time, you don't have to like them, just don't think like that so fast.... you know why I think you do it? I think you do it just to bring them down and push yourself up and thats stupid."

Her-"[[[[same thing as above.]]]"

What should I tell her? Because after, I just ignored what she said after that. But I'm really not done with this conversation. I hate when people make quick judgements like that, especially when you say it loud enough so that person can hear. That only makes enemies. And whats the point of talking about them anyways? Its not going to make anything change nor is it going to make them go away. What should i tell her. I don't want to just stop hanging out with her, because aside from that we have no problems. I just want her to be a little more opened minded...not just about people, but about everything and also to start thinking for herself. What should I do?

I think you should be telling her exactly what you said in the last paragraph. Sit down and discuss it with her, but make sure you explain to her that you are not trying to cause any conflict between the two of you, and that you are only trying to help her.

♥ Behind Blue Eyes

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I'm just curious at your guys opinion. What's the best way to get a guy? Like him or not.

The best way to get a guy is to be yourself, be honest, and don't try to push yourself on them.

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Well, I've just recently gotten out of a relationship with a guy I really cared about, and another one of my exboyfriends is one of my best friends. I think I must be rebounding, but I keep flirting with my ex and I don't want to, because now we have such a good relationship and I don't want to jeopardize it, but I can't stop myself! I don't know what to do, because he'll flirt back (just as a joke, I think) so it confuses me even more! How do I stop flirting with him and stop thinking about him?

Sometimes flirting can be all in fun just make sure he doesn't get the wrong idea about it. Maybe you aren't rebounding and you do really like it but you are still not ready for a relationship. Perhaps you could not be around him so much, that way it will lessen any chance of you flirting with him.

♥ Behind Blue Eyes

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I amgoing to a party on Friday and there is gonna be alot of making out.. and I have done it before.. it is just this guy is gonna be there and we prob will make out but how do you prefer it?? Liek slow fast alotta toungue??


I really wanna impress him! soo leave good stuff

Simple dearie, don't rush into it. If you want it to be perfect and impress him just go with it, let the kiss happen.

♥ Behind Blue Eyes

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