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I have a problem...as you may have read ealier I like this guy named Max and he looks at me sometimes. Most people tell me to say hi or strike up a conversation with him and I just don't have the guts too. If you are going to tell me "Oh don't worry what other people think" then don't even bother to answer this question. I need better advice than that. I really don't know what to do. I have been rejected 4 times in the past 3 years...so I'm not all that attractive then. Help!
Why don't you try talking to him a little bit at a time. If you see a cd he has, say "hey - that's a great band" keep it short and sweet. that way, if he's interested, the ball is in his court. just do a little detective work and see what he's into. when the time is right bring it up. i know it's scary to talk to someone new - but this way - it's only one sentence. you can do it! good luck and let us know how it goes! :)
I have a boyfriend that I've been with for almost two months. I feel that I love him, but I barely see him, and he never openly talks to me. I have three other guys who like me, and I goofed the other day and cheated on my boyfriend with one of them. The guy I cheated on him with I really like, but he's got a girlfriend and can't leave her, or he won't have a place to live. I want to be with the other guy more then my boyfriend, but I can't be. Should I stay with my boyfriend?
This sort of stuff can be really complicated. It kinda sounds like you have this boyfriend just to have a boyfriend. That's not fair to him or to YOU! If you've already cheated on him, you're probably not as crazy about him as you should be for such a new relationship. Don't force yourself to be with someone, just enjoy life! Good luck and I hope everything works out:)
Hey look this year has been so hard bettween tryin to be most popualr and all taht and tryin to beat tha skools biggest hotties and all i have totayl gotten lost u see last year i was Queen bee! this year im not and i wouod do tha world to be that again and i dont kno whut to do to win it back
So whut should i do plz help me!
Clueless
I work in schools and see "queen bees" all the time. Those people make other people feel inferior. Why would you want to do that to somebody? I'm sure you don't! Your just scared and feeling alone. A true group of friends doesn't need a queen bee. Take care - things will get better
I have a crush on my best friend thats a guy! He doesn't know but I don't know how to tell him and I know he doesn't like me like that...But how should I tell him I like him? I RATE HIGH AND GIVE GOOD COMMENTS!
I had a similar situation happen to me in reverse. I was really happy my friend was honest and open with me. That's what I feel is the most important part of friendship! Although nothing ever happened, we gave it the "good old college try." Don't be afraid to take a chance! I say go for it. If he doesn't feel the same way, you tried, and now you can move on. :) Good luck and keep us posted!
Okay my friend always is setting me up with people well last night she did that to my best guy friend but the thing is i do want to go out with him but i kept saying i didn't want to! But how can i tell him this? I feel kinda strange telling him I like him cuz I mean hez my best friend! so what should i do?
go for it! if he's a friend then you know that he's a good guy. sometimes you have to take a risk - but it's worth it in the end! good luck to you!
What is the difference between thongs and g-strings? I always thought they were the same.
if it has a triangle - it's a thong. if it just has a string to go up your butt, it's a g-string. g-strings are WAY more comfortable
im 14/f i have a LOT of blackheads all over my nose and they won't go away does anyone know how to get rid of them?? because i have a formal coming up and my pores are pretty big so a lot of people notice the blackness of my nose everyday!!!!
please dont delete this!!!!!
boil water and get a towel. steam your face and squeeze. i know it sould kinda gross, but it works. be sure to do this a few days before your big day! good luck!
Alright, i'm looking for a religion. I'm not christian, i know that. It doesn't feel right.
I'm kind of thinking about being a wiccan, my friend said it would be perfect for me. She was looking for a religion for a while like i am, but she found wicca, and she really likes it.
Does anyone out there know what its all about, or have any good sites about it?
i don't think it's important to FIND a religion. you'll know what feels right.
Is it better to masurbate or be sexually active with someone? I dont know which one is better to do. Can someone help me?
i guess it would depend on your age. if your young don't be in a big hurry to have sex.
if u made a prmise with someone and they said that it was ok for u to break it cuz they did, does that mean that everyother promise u made with them could break just as easily?
it depends on the promise. if it goes to the level that you can't trust this person, then you might need to have a serious conversation
My boyfriend wants to go to the movies with me and he has been bringing up making out. But ive never made out before. Could someone please tell me how? I know this might sound stupid but i have nooooo clue :P (Please dont say it comes naturally) I RATE HIGH! Thanks :)
ok - all you have to do is kiss him. open your mouth a little bit. chances are he'll make the first move. just copy what he does and you'll do just fine. (you sound young enough that he hasn't made out either)
otherwise, after you open your mouth, move the tip of your tounge against his, and then take it back. you'll be making out in no time. don't be nervous - it's fun!
OKay i no this guy who really likes my friend and my friend was leading him on saying she loves him. My friend doesnt actually like this guy at all she thinks hes weird but she made up this whole story and pretended to break up with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend meanwhile is really sad and i'm trying to comfort him. Then my friend finnally tells the guy she doesnt like him. Then the guy is like saying he is going to kill himself. He slit his wrist and swallowed 13 extra strength aspirin. Thats were I am now and I don't know what to do because the guy doesnt go to my school and i dont kno him that well and I'm not going to see him tommoro. I am talking to my friend and she is saying its not her fault. Im not sure what to do. Plz help me
you need to get this boy some professional help. i know YOU want to help this person, but he has much bigger problems than a broken heart. it's really scary, but it's the right thing to do. best wishes to you and your friend!
Okay, I like this girl. We have one class together. I know shes a little hesitant about a relationship, but how do i casually get to know her (bear in mind i want to make a move later on)
why don't you ask her a personal question and then act on it? for example: ask her what her favorite flavor of ice cream is. then bring her some. it's really sweet and she'll begin to see that you really care about her. good luck!
hey every1.okay i know ALLLL the diet tips and the right fo0ds to eat and the excerise plans, etc, alllll of it... Im about 126-127 lbs, and im 5'2..I want to go down to 120 but I dont know how to STAY on the diet..I need motivation..Like sometimes Ill just be like aww screw it and just eat w/e, then right after i eat it i feel really depressed, etc..Any tips on how to STAY on a diet and STAY motivated?? Thanks!
when i wanted to lose some weight, i recruited a friend. we kept each other in check. it actually worked out great! good luck
I just moved to arizona from texas.. my best friend cried wen i left, and said that i would always be her best friend.. but its a couple of months after i moved, and she doesnt seem to pay much attention anymore.. She never calls, writes letters, or emails... we talk to eachother on AIM sometimes, but wenever i talk to her im so happy! but i feel like she is forgetting about me even though she says im not.. i get so depressed about it, and i cry.i would do anything for her!! she is soo important to me! we tell eachother everything and anything.. wat can i do to get her to relize wats shes doing to me without hurting her feelings?
just be honest with her! if she's your best friend then you can tell her anything. just be sure that when you tell her, she doesn't feel like you are "attacking" her. just be honest but sweet. she probably doesn't even realize it! Take care!