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my friend tina looks way older for her age and she is 13 and older guys like in their 20s hit on her. and we went to the movies by ourselves i though we were going to get raped because these guys were following us around all nite and she told them i was 17 but im 13 and i dont even think i look 15 how could i pull of 17!


Older or not!

Tell her to stop lying about her age. Tell her she could end up in some big problems. So what I say some people don't look their age. :-)

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ok say ur boyfriend hasnt called u n like 3 months
what do u do?

3 months is a looong time. I wouldn't call him my boyfriend then. You still should call him up and see whats going on.

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When ur having sex..does blood really go everywhere?! i want my first time to be romantic not red!..do guyz know that happen? thankz..

LoL! So no blood doesn't go everywhere. If you have never used tampons,got fingered,or didn't ride a bike or something expect a little blood. Don't worry! Chill! :-)

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hey, well i was mad at my mom for something she did so i e maild someone something that said bad things about her. shes given me silent treatment so im not to worried. What should i do?

All you can do is sit down and talk to her. Tell her your sorry and what went on. I'm sure she'll start talking to you then.

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ok so I just got my hair cut and I have bangs now. But I dont like how they look with all my hair down w/o anything else... it just looks boring ya know??? ok well I was thinking of buying a bunch of headbands but I know theyre expensive so I was wondering if anyone knew some tips on MAKING their own? Cuz thats what I'm doing today!!! plz help

Yeah I used to have bangs to and ran into the same problem. I'd say don't buy headbands they are annoying and not that attractive. I would but cute little clips. :-) You can get them at the dollar store.

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okay, my two BEST FRIENDS are made at me becasue i went and hung out with one of my friends and not them. now they are mad at me...what should i do?please help fast!!

-so confused-

Thats supid for them to get mad at you for No reason. Sit down and talk it out with them.

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I really wana loose a quick 10-15 pounds really fast in 4 weeks.. but the bad part is im really picky with foods.. So i dont know what to do or eat.. does ne one have ne advice?! i'd apreciate it soo much!

I would say drink water and tea, no sodas, eat healthy (salads,fruit,ect...), stay away from (pizza,chips,ice cream,ect...), walk 45 min a day. You should lose weight in no time! :-)

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i met this guy n i really like him should i tell him he is single

female/17

Yes you should tell him how you feel. :-)

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my mom totally pisses me off and she argues a ton with me and just ME! its like she makes me do everything she knoes i HATE doing and she keeps me from doing everything i love. when i try talking to her about it she just argues back saying if i dont like it then why dont i leave and stuff like that even though she knoes i cant leave since im only 14. when i try to tell my dad he just says things like "you knoe how she is" or "you and i can't do anythng about it" and he doesnt even try. my sister is the only person i can talk to but she cant say anything because if she does my mom will start hating her too. my mom doesnt do any kind of physical abuse or anything its just...GRRRRRR!! i dont knoe what to do but i hoped one of you would. im afraid that im going to collapse sometime soon with a major heart overload or something if things dont change around here soon!

(~*~ --__) LoUiEd (__-- ~*~)

So try to talk to her when shes in a good mood. If that doesn't work try crying. If that doesn't work don't do anything at all. It's not like she can hit you.

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Okay I'm going to get to the point my friend said I've changed and I asked how and he said you don't care about anything anymore and I had no idea what he meant by this so I asked what he was talking about, because this is who I am. And he said well if this is who you are then I don't want to talk to you, and I said fine bye and hung up the phone.

I just I'm so mad, because me and him used to be really good friends. Should I be mad...or just let it be...I'm so lost.

Maybe he and you are growing a part. This normally happens. That is what happened to me and one of my best friends.

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Does anyone have any unique and delicious fillings for cream puffs? I just learned how to make them, so something simple would be nice.

Chocolate?!

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I have these two guy friends (no I don't like them or anything), and they are one year older than me. When they went into high school, everything changed. We used to be really close, but lately they've been distant and rude. I know they don't know what their doing to their friendships, but I want to make an impression on them that sends the right message. I'm not mad, I just want my two best buds back!

Tell them you miss the old times. I'm sure they might too. High School is hard times.

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hey um...i have asked tons of questions about the same guy but um...he had tons of friends over and they were inthe basement and like he has a pool and they could see me through it and like one of the chicks was like hey logan's gf! and i juss ignored her but he said hi to me like hiiii rachellll and u know wat i mean but ya do you think he likes me and why wont he do n e thing with me?? PLEASE ANSWER! i want him to play night games tonight and i wanna do something with him and i need ideas!

He said hi! He just may not like you in that way.

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last month i went to my boyfriend's house to watch a movie for the very first time,. so when his sisters and brothers went to bed ,. we were on the couch laying together alone. we though his parents went to bed so we started making out* haha we were really into and we didnt even notice his mom come up behind us and turn on a light!! i was so embrassed. i mean i just met her and i already have a bad impression. he asked where hes sons hands were,. haha - i bet that was embrassing for him.. =/ but yea,. and everytime i ask him " where should we get together" hes always like,. um.. how bout u go to (joe's) or one of his friends house that he myte be going that weekend. s0o,. idk becuz i think his mom or dad would ever let me go to his house again,. she was upset n mad after i left as he told me.. what should i do? i mean i dont want to get a bad impression in front of his friends mom! or anywhere else,. i mean i always have to invite him to my house and we have nothing to do here,.=/

please help x0x i'll rate!

Well bring him to your house in your room and lock the door. That always works. :-)

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i have a cousin who keeps bossing me around. she kicks me down the stairs and embrass me in front of friends.I really need some advice on what to do.

You need to tell her parents and yours. She shouldn't be treating you like this.

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okay there is this kid i love so much . i knoe i am in love with him i talk to him everyday, i flirt with him but .. its my best friend`s exboyfriend .. i dont knoe what to do cuz i love my best friend shes like my sister .. and i dont want to tell her so i dont knoe what to do

You need to sit with this boy and tell him. Your friend should love you and be your friend no matter what.

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theres is this kid that asked me out 6 times and i say no everytime .and its really annoying and he does it everyday nd when i say no hes asks my best friend wtf is tha matter he cant be alone for a few months .. but what if he asked me agen what do i say to him ?

Just say "NO" and tell him that he is honestly not your type and that you have interest in someone else. It works everytime!

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i dont kno anyone in my new skool *highskool*im not a mean person and i have alot of friends in my old skool do you think ill make friends cuz im really scared about it please help!thanks in advance

Just be yourself. You will make new friends.

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ok well my grandpops has cancer and he has like 1 yr to live. well hes all into church and that stuff and he always asks me to go with him. well i havnt gone to church since i was like 10 and the only reason i went is bc i liked this guy. well idk how to tell him i dont want to go. cuz im just not a church person like i believe in *A* god but the whole worshiping thing is totally off the wall for me??? wut can i do

-non religious girl

He is not going to live much longer. You should just go.

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does ne body know if laughing actually works out your abs? and if ne body knows some good work outs to get your stomach more toned just stuff you can do around the house without a full on workout please tell me! thanks much..

Laughing does not make you lose weight. LoL! So get a treadmill and walk 30 min a day.

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