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im ashley, most of my friends call me ash. im 18 years old & a senior in highschool. im a very outgoing person, im always smiling and laughing :)i try to always be positive about things. feel free to ask me anything!

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Does anyone know where i can download free ringtones for my cell? I really want the song Whatever Will Be by Vanessa Hudgens but the site i usually go to -phonezoo.com- doesnt have it. I have also looked it up on my phone to buy it but Verizon doesnt sell it.

i go to www.mytinyphone.com

and i save it to my computer and email it to myself :)

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How can I make my boobs more round, nice, and more up.
not so saggy.
well, their not, but i w ant the really pretty kind.
lol.
and no creams, or any pills.
maybe just a work out, of some sort.
or whatever you know of.
And please don't ask me to go see a doctor about itt:)
thanks.

i would try a nice push up bra :) thats what i wear!

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Hey!
So yesterday i randomly friend requested this guy who is friends with my guy friend because i thought he was really cute lol and he seemed familiar. turns out we know eachother through some people and I have met him like once (but i dont really remember haha)
anyways we talked over messaging for like 2 hours and he seems really cool. I know this is a stretch but i maybe want to possibly go to prom with him or see if something happens (i know this probablly wont happen im not getting my hopes up) but i dont know if i should message him again tonight or wait? or how i should approach this?

i would wait and let him make the move, and if he doesn't go for it girl!

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I'm 14 and I really like this lad and he likes me two, and I think I want to sleep with him.
But the thing is he's experianced and I'm not, so I don't really know the moves, I'm confused if something goes wrong, or if I do something wrong, any advice?

your 14 girl, just wait until your ready and your not ready considering you "think you want to sleep with him."

just wait for that perfect boy, i didn't wait and now i regret it.

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me and my boyfriend have beeen together 18 months now.. we were soo amazing at first, but as you know things change as relationships go along. Ive heard things, two times, about him sleeping next to another girl at a party.. which i really dont know if i believe or not, no proof. and when he kissed a girl at a party, he told me right away.. anyways, i chose to take him back.. that was awhile ago. Now, i have caught him lying, when he has been hanging out with his best friend, whoi hate, and he hates me, cause his friend fucks around all the time on my stupid best friend, who stays with him. Anyways, i always fight with him. I have no trust.. but i want to give it all one last try, next time i hear something or told a lie by him, im leaving. But.. i fight with him, constantly get angry about shit... what can i do, to honestly just keep that all out of the way right now, or work on it. i just wanna give one last try, cause really.. he is a good guy besides that stuff he treats me good.. cept that typical guy shit.


but ya any advice or experience of the same situation and what you did?

thanksss : )

maybe you two could try this, like forget the past..well not forget it, but move on and stop dwelling on it. it'd really help you two if you guys didn't hold a grudge against each other.

well, you said you don't have any trust in your boyfriend. in my opinion, trust is one of the fundamentals of a relationship. you absolutely need trust to make things work.

if you get angry about stuff real easily, maybe you should turn off your phone until you calm down about things. then maybe you and your boyfriend can calmly talk about things, instead of lashing out on each other ya know?

this worked for me and my boyfriend, so i hope it helps you!

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I, too, find it annoying how everyone is obsessing over Twilight. Then I read it. So don't hate on me, I can't help it. I'm surprised no one else has asked this. But all of a sudden, I've basically given up on dating. I don't want ANYONE but Edward Cullen. What to doooo? Don't tell me he's just a fictional character :/ Give me hope :/

i felt that way too, give it a week..it'll pass

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For History i have to dress up as Ivan the IV, also known as Ivan the terible. I have no idea what to wear. It needs to look like i put in effort but i don't have to go like all out if you know whtat i mean.

If this helps, Ivan IV was smart, pious and cruel..try looking up pictures on the internet

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I am 17 years old and I have a child who is going to be 2 in January. Well I have had unprotected sex with no sign of pregnancy neg. tests and everything. Well I have been dating my boyfriend/ fiance for a while now and we have unprotected sex often and if I am pregnant I dont mind but tests are always neg. I havent taken one in a while but I was always tired and smelled onions for a while and that is starting to go away. Now I feel like i am going to throw up but i don't and i have to go to the restroom ALL the time. I dropped my boyfriend off at 8;45 ish and had to go to the bathroom but didnt get to until like 9:20 then one more time by 10. then 4 times from 10-12. and its like i have to go so bad i can hardly hold it. Is it signs of pregnancy? and my nose is bleeding now and I havent had a nose bleed in a while!! PLEASE HELP

Well if you are pregnant, and you pee alot you are probably just nervous..

You normally don't start to pee alot until the third trimester when the baby activity starts to decrese since there is barely room for the baby to move. this causes the uterus to expand around the fetus, and the abdominal organs become compressed and displaced causing you to pee alot! so there ya go!

to be safe, go to the doctors and get checked out if your worried

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Im a 13 year old girl and i havent had a boyfriend for a whole year! I like this on kid in my class alot but i just dont know how to get him to like me back. Any advice????

you have a long ways to go until you need to start worrying about boys. be a kid while you can!

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http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/onlineProductDisplay.vs?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=9G-227638&page=1&cgname=OSSALPINZZZ&rfnbr=4799


Where can i find this sweatshirt or do they not sell it anymore?


It's not the sweatshirt on the same page.

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/onlineProductDisplay.vs?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=9G-234460&page=2&cgname=OSPNKSPLHOO&rfnbr=4661

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Ok this is kind of personal but anyway i gave a blowjob to my ex and he wasnt wearing a condom, he did cum and now i have discharge, but i know that i did have this discharge before i gave him head. I am at a young age so i refuse to tell my mother or ask her for help. I read everywhere that you can receive a std and wierd discharge is a sign sometimes so im really scared and i need help fast!!

i think you should be fine, discharge is completely normal for any girl to have. as long as your ex doesn't have any disease then your fine!

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16/f... my boyfriend is 15/f. we've been dating for 2 and a half months.
we have gone to third base 3 times. when he was dating his ex (for the span of a year) absolutely nothing happened... they didn't even kiss. by letting things get this far, do you think he is losing respect for me?
also, is it too soon to say i love you? because i think i do love him, but i don't know if he would freak out if i said so. what would be a good way to tell him? and is it weird when the girl says those three words first?

well for one thing, i definitely dont think your slut..not one bit. you guys are at the age where your hormones start to kick in, don't sweat it girl. i wouldn't have sex with him, cause then he might lose his respect for you. i look at it this way, if you have to think you love someone then you dont love them, you just know when your head over heels for that person. so maybe your in lust with him?

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When i'm around the guys ive had any type of relatinship with i become loud and obnoxious(if i have classes with them) My personality changes and i dont mean for it to. One guy told me he likes me again because ive been less ditsy then usual. but i know i do it alot and am ditsy and obnox. i really dont mean to please help

just try acting like yourself, and don't let the ditsyness take over! just remember guys like you for who you are

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whats good to mix with vodka?

orange juice, and cranberry juice!

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Hi. Me and my girlfriend broke up about two weeks ago. And i miss her... So much. I honestly feel like she is the one for me. How do i get her back? I'm almost positive that she still has feelings for me... But i'm worried that if i do the wrong thing i may lose her forever... What should i do?

hmm, the best thing to do is ask her if she would like to meet up in person, and explain to her how you really feel about her. tell her how you think she is the one, and hopefully she still feels the same way..i hope everything works out!

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I have always had very regular bowels but lately I find I am feeling very constipated. What can I do or eat to help this stop. I never ever had constipation befor recently. What can I do???

i have the same problem, i eat applesauce or an apple everyday and everything is fine now..try that, it might work

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i want some skinny jeans but i dont know where to get them because i got one pair at rue21 and now that i like skinny jeans i cant find any anywhere!
i want some that are preferably under $45-50, but any advice is appreciated!

american eagle

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well im going over to my boyfriends house tomorrow and i wanted to surprise him by wearing a skirt and no underwear but i just wanted to make sure..he wont think im weird for not wearing underwear, right?? thanks! :)

so totally do it! get it girllll!

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Should you shave "down there" every day? (female)

no, shave like once or twice a week. make sure you use shaving cream, and a sharp razor to reduce razor burn.

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Should I be on the top, or the bottom? Please base this answer on which hurts more. And if you have any advice on how to make it hurt less, I would definitely appreciate it.

bottom, would probably be the best for your first time.if your feelings presured don't do it, if he's a good, guy he would wait for you.

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